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    Default Re: NEWBIE that needs help !!!

    Now isn't the time to be fun & flirty with her. It wouldn't be well-received at all.

    Your best bet if you're gonna respond, would be to say something like, "Yeah, it's going to be tough but it's all good..."

    If it were me, I wouldn't reply. I would carry on & start a new chapter in life.


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    Default Re: NEWBIE that needs help !!!

    Oh haha! I did the same thing man. Wrote a damn letter to a girl. All this hollywood damn romance films make you think if you write a letter and pour your heart and soul then she's all yours. Sorry buddy but that was all lies!

    It's been way over 4 years now I think since that letter and I still got it somewhere in the sent emails on hotmail. I keep it as a reminder of how I should NEVER act in that manner ever again.

    You cannot 'confess' something like that in a letter. Let the girl know personally or don't, but never write a letter like that. It just makes you look emasculated. I'm sure you're both grown up and yet you did something that made you look like a high school teen.

    You need to be in control, calm and cool. Keep the three C's with you at all time.

    PS: Like everyone have said. You need to forget about her and move on. This chapter is closed, time to start a new book.

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    Default Re: NEWBIE that needs help !!!

    I wouldn't reply either, what's the point of replying? What will that bring you? How will it better your life? Think man don't let your emotions get in the way!
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: NEWBIE that needs help !!!

    The bottom line here is there are two ways to handle this 1) is to sit around for months with the "woe is me" feeling sorry for yourself bullshit OR 2) Go out and meet new girls ..... The reality is that meeting new girls will get you over this pretty quickly, not that you will forget this other girl but you wont be so hung up on her. Not texting was a good thing ... The Dalai Lama says "sometimes silence is the best answer" although when some time passes you might want to text her what T-Mal suggested so that there are no loose ends


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