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    Default I'm tired of this text games

    Hi everybody, I'm a 20 years old guy from Italy.

    I have a problem I want to share, because it is just too weird...

    Last Friday I met this girl in a club (we had mutual friends, but we were not introduced by anyone). As soon as she saw me she started staring at me; I noticed that, and talking with some of the mutual friends who where at a house party that took place 2 hours earlier (I was not at that party) I discovered that she was a bit tipsy but she wasn't into anyone before me (did not kiss anyone at the party). I started sarging her and she was clearly enjoying it. Then, I decided to spend 5 minutes with my friends, and saw her rejecting 2/3 guys telling them she was "taken", then came to me and started kissing me without saying a word.
    We spend the whole night kissing and stuff like that, until the club closed. I wanted to fu*k her (obviously I did not clearly told her that), and it seemed to me that she wanted to fu*k me too, but she had to go home because her parents wanted her to get back to her house (she is 18 and it was 5am).
    We walked 5 minutes out the club holding hands, and then she gave my her number suggesting that we needed to stay in touch (she seemed perfectly sober)
    The day after I texted her (around 3-4pm) but she didn't respond until 22pm, telling me (after some texts) that she was going to spend the night alone watching movies...and then she asked me "where are you?". I told her I was in some bars in the city (Milan). She told me if I was near "Arco" (a district in Milan) but I was not, so (I regret doing that) I told her I wasn't, asking her "why?" (with a smiley face). She didn't respond until the day after telling me that "Arco" is near her house.
    Since that day we have been exchanging 2/3 texts a day because she takes forever to respond (5/6 hours) (we had a quick 15/20 texts conversation only once), and her texts are kinda cold.

    I tried to stop the conversation, and I didn't text her for 2 days, but things seem like are staying the same.

    I stopped texting her after a brief conversation yesterday at 7pm (the message she sent did not contain any question though) and wrote her this morning this text: "OK, so there was either a Grizzly Bear in my mirror this morning, or I just really look like HELL when I wake up! Ahahahah"

    Now here is 6pm (I wrote her 9/10 hours ago) and she hasn't responded yet

    Since she always responds (apart from today) -even if her texts are always boring and cold- should I think she is still interested? (otherwise would not ever text me back?)

    Chances are:
    1) she is playing a game with me, trying to make me crazy
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    2) she is not interested anymore and is still texting me back to be polite (she has never responded quickly though, so either she does not like to send a lot of texts, or she has never been really attracted to me...but then why the kisses!?!?)

    Why is she acting like this?
    Why she suggested me to go to her house but then didn't respond to my text?
    Should I stop texting her for like a week?

    I'm confused and I'm afraid I f*ucked up everything

    Thanks

    P.S. I will not call her by any chance, since here in Italy, if you call a girl you just met (or you don't really know) you are considered weird
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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    She didn't answer, because she was testing you.

    The right answer would have been something along these lines: "you want me to go there? You think I'm that easy girl? I only do that kind of jobs for 100€... per hour. And I expect you to be a good pizzaiola "

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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    What should I do? Keep texting her? (She hasn't replied to my morning message yet, and here is 20.26pm...it would be the first time she does not text back)

    Should I stop texting her for like a week?
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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    No, go hit the weights in the gym, hang out with your friends, do whatever the fuck you want, as long as you stop being girl-x-dependent.

    Only after that you can text her, otherwise you'll fuck up (again) because of neediness.

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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    I''m not teasing her, I don't write here more than once a day (if she does not text me back I wait until she does, I never text her twice)
    I Never called her, I even stopped texting her for a couple of days...

    I'm not behaving as a needy guy...but I will follow your advice and I will wait 5/6 days before sending her another text
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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    You're needy of her attention, otherwise you wouldn't care if she answered you or not.

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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    Yes but she doesn't know that...
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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    I agree with lenric. Don't just sit there waiting on her text. Yes i know sometimes it may be hard but you have to learn to control yourself. She's probably busy so that's probably why she didn't text back. Sometimes the women may genuinely be busy and can't get back to you. Just consider that when a girl doesn't text you back. PU is not suppose to be easy or it won't be fun.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    She has finals this week and the next one
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    Default Re: I'm tired of this text games

    Ok, it's 2am here in Italy, and I texted her at 7am so I'm pretty sure that for the first time she will not respond to a text (other texts were cold and took forever to her to text back anyway)

    So I came up with two "tactics"
    1) Not texting her for 5/6 days
    2) Text her tomorrow (friday) telling her that I am close to her house (in a funny way of course, and not mentioning sex or stuff like that...just to find out how she behaves) (she lives near clubs/bars so being close to her house sounds legitimate)...I know this tactic may sound random, but I came up with this remembering the booty call I farked up on saturday last weekend. Could work but also not, depending if she feels like going out (she has finals next week) or if her parents are home or not.
    I wanted to use this tactic on saturday (in order not to write her for two days) but unfortunately I will be in town only on friday night

    What do you guys think...better #1 or #2?

    P.S. I'm so tired I did not even read what I wrote, so please do not pay attention to my grammar
    DUCA: Titolo nobiliare che nella gerarchia araldica segue quello di principe
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