Hi everybody, I'm a 20 years old guy from Italy.
I have a problem I want to share, because it is just too weird...
Last Friday I met this girl in a club (we had mutual friends, but we were not introduced by anyone). As soon as she saw me she started staring at me; I noticed that, and talking with some of the mutual friends who where at a house party that took place 2 hours earlier (I was not at that party) I discovered that she was a bit tipsy but she wasn't into anyone before me (did not kiss anyone at the party). I started sarging her and she was clearly enjoying it. Then, I decided to spend 5 minutes with my friends, and saw her rejecting 2/3 guys telling them she was "taken", then came to me and started kissing me without saying a word.
We spend the whole night kissing and stuff like that, until the club closed. I wanted to fu*k her (obviously I did not clearly told her that), and it seemed to me that she wanted to fu*k me too, but she had to go home because her parents wanted her to get back to her house (she is 18 and it was 5am).
We walked 5 minutes out the club holding hands, and then she gave my her number suggesting that we needed to stay in touch (she seemed perfectly sober)
The day after I texted her (around 3-4pm) but she didn't respond until 22pm, telling me (after some texts) that she was going to spend the night alone watching movies...and then she asked me "where are you?". I told her I was in some bars in the city (Milan). She told me if I was near "Arco" (a district in Milan) but I was not, so (I regret doing that) I told her I wasn't, asking her "why?" (with a smiley face). She didn't respond until the day after telling me that "Arco" is near her house.
Since that day we have been exchanging 2/3 texts a day because she takes forever to respond (5/6 hours) (we had a quick 15/20 texts conversation only once), and her texts are kinda cold.
I tried to stop the conversation, and I didn't text her for 2 days, but things seem like are staying the same.
I stopped texting her after a brief conversation yesterday at 7pm (the message she sent did not contain any question though) and wrote her this morning this text: "OK, so there was either a Grizzly Bear in my mirror this morning, or I just really look like HELL when I wake up! Ahahahah"
Now here is 6pm (I wrote her 9/10 hours ago) and she hasn't responded yet
Since she always responds (apart from today) -even if her texts are always boring and cold- should I think she is still interested? (otherwise would not ever text me back?)
1) she is playing a game with me, trying to make me crazy
2) she is not interested anymore and is still texting me back to be polite (she has never responded quickly though, so either she does not like to send a lot of texts, or she has never been really attracted to me...but then why the kisses!?!?)
Why is she acting like this?
Why she suggested me to go to her house but then didn't respond to my text?
Should I stop texting her for like a week?
I'm confused and I'm afraid I f*ucked up everything
P.S. I will not call her by any chance, since here in Italy, if you call a girl you just met (or you don't really know) you are considered weird