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Thread: What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

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    Default What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

    Hey everyone, been M.I.A for a while since work has been bombing me with hours, so naturally I said fark it and started checking out some girls at work. Now one girl in particular was giving me lots of attention, so I N-closed her and we started phone game.

    First text I sent was just to give her my number, it was fun and she liked it. After that I just ignored her for the rest of the day ( I was exhausted from work anyways too)

    Second day I texted her in the morning, right before work, saw her at work, kept the Kino and flirting going, and threw in a bit of push - pull, which was great gave me a great reaction, and later that night we were texting a bit, since attraction went well and comfort seemed to be going well too I built just a bit of comfort and connection over texting, not over texting. She's really warming up to me at this point. Next morning I text her and say good morning and hoping she was going to have a good day at work and threw some inside jokes. She replied with a smiley face n bla bla and so I just didn't reply, since I knew she had work soon.

    I really liked a LOT of her replies to some challenges and qualifiers I gave her. So I said fk it I just barely improved my text game recently but I decided to go in to set up a date with her when she started texting me today after her shift ended.(I was planning to just ignored her but maybe I farked myself there a bit by not doing so) I implemented T-mals wacky timing scheme telling her to go for sushi with me tomorrow, which kept giving me responses like "that is such a weird time", "thats such an odd time" like 3 times till I finally said 8:30 instead of 8:07, thing is SHE DID NOT say NO any of those times, just said she was working and it was a weird time.

    Now here is the weird part, I was persistent while keeping it funny, not being butthurt or giving any farks. So I finally said 8:30 with exact location and directions. she said "never heard of the place, actually it sounds familiar." and she quickly jumps to tell me some funny story that just happnd to her with her and her aunt, with a bit of a naughty twist, so without asking her one more time about if that was a yes/no to our date being on,(that was the make or break moment?) I just teased her about being naughty. Then I just said something to prompt her to get her talking and answered her question of "am I working tomorrow" with something along the lines of I booked the rest of the week off to do my thing (not telling her what "my thing " is), she did not reply and I immediately feel like I did something wrong because, she is usually GLUED to her phone waiting for my replies like sometimes I don't reply for like 30 mins to an hour and when I reply, she'll reply the exact second or minute I send her back a text, or if I take to long she'll say "you take forever to respond!" Then I sort of farked myself a bit in the last txt giving her an excuse about how I have to wake up early tomorow and needed to go to bed n just said gnight n w.e to end it so it didn't look awkward and blank, with her going cold.

    So wtf happnd? She didn't say no to our date going on, however she just went cold out of nowhere, is this a Sh1t Test? Do I need to try and see what she says tomorrow for the date? she's trying to get me to chase her? I have no clue here...

    OR did I just fark myself and this ones not going to happen? Persist further or move on? Any tips and advice would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

    ok wtf... I don't get her, now she's texting me good morning and sh1t. w.e -___-

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    Default Re: What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

    Lol remember this os REAL LIFE.... meaning anything and everything can go wrong. Remember that's why it's fun because you never know what a girl might do. Sometimes she'll be easy and other times you'll feel like your game sucks because they may not do what you want. Just Keep At It.
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    Default Re: What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Lol remember this os REAL LIFE.... meaning anything and everything can go wrong. Remember that's why it's fun because you never know what a girl might do. Sometimes she'll be easy and other times you'll feel like your game sucks because they may not do what you want. Just Keep At It.
    Amen to that brother.

    I played my cards right pretty much 98.5% on point, only negative I can think of was the giving her an excuse point over txt( which you are not supposed to) but that shouldn't be a deal breaker. But this is great, lots of fun indeed!

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    Default Re: What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

    Ok so she flaked, I'm not surprised with those mixed signals she was sending me. I'm not butthurt nor do I care, I just said ok enjoy night etc. showing her my mood is unaffected by her flake. She now texts me with one thing thought, and THIS IS probably the reason for her flake, because one qualifier I asked her was "what are 2 unique characters that differentiate you from all the other girls, and they can't be about your looks" She actually did not answer this one properly, she just replied with an "I don't know, maybe I'm not special."

    ding ding ding = not enough connection or attraction/ whichever. However she KEEPS asking me what was with that question, I havent answered why since then.

    Now after the flake and my idgaf reply saying enjoy your night w.e

    The first thing she sends me is.

    "So what makes me different from other girls?"

    Since she flaked, I'm just going to the gym and going to do more reading just work on myself.

    Now I was going to just ignore her for the rest of the night, but I genuinely like this girl, and kind of want to reply, but not yet.( it probably will look like I'm butthurt if I dont respond either, or I shouldn't so she may be wondering where I am?)

    What is she upto? How should I respond to this, and carry forward?

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    Default Re: What happened, she sort of went cold at the end there...

    When you text her again let it be about something different. Now you got her on your hook wanting to know how she's different than other girls. If you haven't build attraction then work your way into doing that and then ask her out again in a week or two.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!


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