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    Default S*hit test or not?

    Hey guys,

    I'm currently dating this girl (We went on a date twice, both time kissing) and we text each other every day.
    We usually make fun of ourselves exchanging funny messages, which are almost never sexual though

    We were supposed to go on a date today, but since she had to study, we decided to postpone.

    Tonight (I live in Europe) after some cocky-funny texts we had this conversation:

    -ME: "What movies should I watch?...do not tell me one of those naughty dirty movies you usually watch"

    -HER: "Go f*ck urself" (She writes this pretty often as a funny text, so I didn't worry about it)

    -ME: "Why so much hate? (: ...you shouldn't be ashamed, everybody watches porn, you just exaggerate a little bit!"

    -HER: "Stop doing that" (I was still thinking she was joking, so I moved on)

    -ME: "I know a good doctor that can help you"

    -HER: "This is annoying and kind of immature"

    -ME: "Omg...you are so touchy!"

    Then she decided not to text back (It was 0.10am so maybe she just wanted to go to bed)

    Do you guys think she is mad?...or is it just a shitty test?

    I came up with 3 alternatives I could follow (2am here in Europe so I would send the text tomorrow at lunchtime)
    1) Apologize
    2) Text her pretending nothing happened
    3) Freeze her out for tomorrow

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    Default Re: S*hit test or not?

    You can be C&F, tease her, whatever, but overdoing it is just annoying.

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    Default Re: S*hit test or not?

    Quote Originally Posted by Duca View Post
    Do you guys think she is mad?...or is it just a shitty test?
    She tells you, you are immature...thats what she is thinking

    Quote Originally Posted by Duca View Post
    I came up with 3 alternatives I could follow (2am here in Europe so I would send the text tomorrow at lunchtime)
    1) Apologize
    2) Text her pretending nothing happened
    3) Freeze her out for tomorrow

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    1) No
    2) Probably, but it will come up again that she thinks your immature.
    3) NO!

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    Default Re: S*hit test or not?

    YES, she was mad but DO NOT APOLOGIZE .... she'll get over it but maybe instead of busting her chops you can poke fun at yourself a little bit. I always like to send "Drinking a chardonnay ,eating quiche, and watching Sex and the City .... what the hell is wrong with me ???" ..... have had lots of long dialogues with that one and I am the butt of the joke

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    Default Re: S*hit test or not?

    From my personal experience, not all girls can handle C&F, teasing especially whe they are stressed out over school, exams, work, etc. Remember just because you are in a fun, playful mood doesn't mean that she is. She could honestly be having the worst day of her life and just want to be left alone. I would wait a day or so and re-intiate with a value-adding text - tell her about something you're doing that day but don't bust her balls on it and keep it light.


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