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    Default Re: What should I do

    Embrace your failure, learn from it and move on. End.
    this is the solution to 90 percent of the situations that come across this forum.

    In my opinion, after the night at the club I got stuck into the buyer's remorse (she was cold) but I managed to escape it by setting another date where I behaved rationally and only kissed her at the end of the date.
    I'm going to say that if she had buyers remorse, she wouldn't have agreed to go on a "date" with you. however, you failed to fullfill her fantasies when you didn't sleep with her on the "date".

    playing the "gentleman" rarely works with attractive girls.

    she expected you to be a man and escalate, yet you were too scared to even kiss her until the end of the date.

    women are amazing at sniffing out insecurity, and most of the time, they also tend to think that if you don't at least try to sleep with them, that you are insecure and thus not worthy.


    This is why I farked up everything, I had almost no experience in the "how to get a girlfriend" game, and probably she had different expectations from me (just sex maybe?)
    you made the mistake of putting her into the "girlfriend zone" (as in you idealized being with her before she earned the right to be with you)

    a girl should have to work to earn the right to be your girlfriend. she won't feel like she's earned it if you just give her that right.

    I make women do all kinds of things for me before i'll even consider them for anything more than just casual sex partners.

    women all have one thing in commen, they all want a strong man to guide them and ultimately reproduce with. (by strong I mean physically, emotionally, socially,and financially strong)

    strong men make women prove themselves to them. weak men thrust themselves at women hoping they will like them.

    Duca, you should have farked her. If her parents would get mad at her so be it, it's not your problem.
    this would have been the best solution, and the one that could have led her to want to be your girlfriend.

    the second best solution would have been if you would have taken her on a "date" to your bedroom, instead of a fancy restaurant or where ever you took her.

    from now on, never take a girl on a date until you've farked her at least 3 times.

    you see, I've got a fuzzy blanket on the back seat of my car that makes for the best first dates, and I've got a fuzzy blanket on my bed that makes for amazing second dates.

    I'm 23 meteora
    still older and more bitter than I lol
    I'm still 20 for 9 more days.

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    Default Re: What should I do

    I'm fucking tired of this shit

    Every time I fuck a girl she has buyer's remorse

    Every time I don't fuck a girl she thinks I am an idiot for not trying to fuck her
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    Default Re: What should I do

    Ok guys even if what I've done went against everything you told me, I texted her breaking the Freeze Out and she accepted to go on a date with me

    Where should I take her? To a bar near my house? To my house (watch a movie)? Or somewhere else?
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    Where should I take her? To a bar near my house? To my house (watch a movie)? Or somewhere else?
    first of all, never ask a girl on a date if you don't have a plan.

    you need to let her know what the two of you are doing on the "date"

    I would suggest either taking her to your place for a movie, or taking her someplace near your place and bouncing to your place.

    either way, plan out where you're going to take her, how you're going to escalate, and how you're going to get her to your bedroom.

    remember my three strikes rule? this is her third strike. you make every effort you can to sleep with her, and if it doesn't happen you have to stop wasting time on her.

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    Default Re: What should I do

    Ok she flaked me again for the 3rd time in a row

    1 flake: Says she has too much homework but then changes her mind and asks me to go on a date at 7pm, but then changes her mind again and tells me she underestimated the quantity of homework she had, so nothing happened

    2 flake: Tells me no, since she already has theater tickets and is seeing a friend (male) before the show, so can't roll the entire afternoon

    3 flake: Tells me yes but then changes her mind telling me she can't (no explanation)

    This time, as you suggested, I tried to schedule a hotter date (telling her to come to my house to have dinner) using some funny texts

    her: "what are we doing?"
    me: "I'm so good at cooking that they call me Gordon Ramsey ahaha...and I need some guinea pigs to test my recipes! Let's have some Italian food at my house!" (she is south african)

    Then she told me she couldn't do dinner and after I proposed to go to some bars near my house she told me she remembered she already have plans

    Now, since she never tried to reschedule a date after a flake, never texted first (just once), and is being cold on conversations...I'M THINKING NEVER TO WRITE HER AGAIN, OR AT LEAST CONTACT HER IN LIKE 6 MONTHS

    P.S. I did not respond to her text saying she can't roll tonight
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    Now, since she never tried to reschedule a date after a flake, never texted first (just once), and is being cold on conversations...I'M THINKING NEVER TO WRITE HER AGAIN, OR AT LEAST CONTACT HER IN LIKE 6 MONTHS

    P.S. I did not respond to her text saying she can't roll tonight
    here's what you do.

    delete her number!!!!!! (she won't even remember you in 6 months lol)

    forget about her. go spend your time with girls who appreciate you more!

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    Yeah I will do that....I guess I will never figure out why she changed her behavior from a day to another...girls are crazy!!!

    The only thing I regret is not having fucked her, since my objective is to bang a girl from every continent and I'm missing africa...and since I don't like ebony girls (no racist) find another white african girl will be soooo hard!!
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    Default Re: What should I do

    If you guys are interested I can post our text conversation from Tuesday night (when she was totally into me) to the last few days during which she almost ignored me...so me we can try to figure out what I farked up

    I re-read all of the texts and I don't think I was being needy...but maybe I'm wrong
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    Default Re: What should I do

    Ok she texted me (Last time we had a conversation was monday)

    Here's the text
    "I was in your city today"

    (She perfectly knows that I was there so she could have told me to go out)

    I do not think she is not interested (she would have stopped texting me)
    But my opinion that she is running a game with me is becoming stronger and stronger

    What's the point of telling me that she was near my house after she flaked on me 3 times in a row? She is clearly running a game

    I was thinking not to text her back...but if you have some text advices I'm glad to hear

    What do you think of her behavior?

    What should I do?
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    Default Re: What should I do

    What do you think of her behavior?
    I think she's wasting your time, and you're allowing it!!!

    What should I do?
    look at my previous post!

    delete her number, don't text her, and if she texts you, text her back "who's this???" (because you really won't know who's texting you.)

    lifes too short to let a girl mess with your head when you could be f*cking other b!tches. (please tell me you have other b!tches lol)


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