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Thread: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

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    Default Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    A girl messaged me on Facebook whom I haven't talked with since like June. Nothing special message, just wishing happy holidays. Im thinking to send a message which would be funny and makes no sense.

    I was thinking to draft a Lost& Found kind of message. Something like Lost, Contact with a girl from xxxx who works in xxx and few general stuff.

    Not really sure if its a good idea. Any help pls?

    thanks

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    Default Re: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    Well, it makes no sense to me, so if that's the angle you're going for then I think you've hit the mark

    Are you trying to bring attention to the fact that you hadn't heard from her for a while? I think, and I'll step back to let others have their say, but that you should avoid that kind of message. You'll come across as weird & highlighting her absence to you as being key.

    Instead, perhaps you could go with a bit of standard holidays message, ask her for advice about a present..as you respect her advice. Make it a bit light with a bit of a joke to it. My thinking is a bit patchy but trying to give some advice.

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    Default Re: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    Thank you dave for replying.

    I don't want to really talk about the christmas stuff.

    What I want to do is try to point out send a message across that we haven't talked for a while and I would like to get back to texting for bit. She is from a different city so can't meet her at least for couple of months.

    I had another message from her in Oct which I didn't reply. Don't wanna point out anything about that.

    Yeah the lost and found message seems to be a bit weird to me as well but thats the best I could think of. Any other text to re-initate?

    Thanks

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    Default Re: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    " Hey, haven't talked to you in a while, message me back if you managed to get away from the kidnappers. For the kidnapper: (please let her go, she is no good)."
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    thx marvilo, but i went with my initial choice.

    I instantly got a response. She just said Found, waiting for reward.

    Now I am more confused what to reply. Can someone suggest with couple of more text and I will try to take it from there.

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    Default Re: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    "Sweetie, you don't even know what the reward is... you may not be able to handle it. "


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    Default Re: Need help drafting a text to re-initate a contact

    To add to what T-Mal posted ... and by the way that was a nice picture of you on the Milk container


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