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    Default Sent lame indirect text

    I go to a recording studio every so often to practice guitar and drums. There's a cute girl that works the counter there that has shown interest in me. I finally found the opportunity to get her number the other day. After leaving the studio with her number, I texted her when I got home (so she has my number). This was our conversation:

    Me: We should make some nerdy music together

    Her: Haha yes. Nerdy to me is calculus and video games. What's your nerdy? xD

    Me: I'm a film and music nerd. I also read Harry Potter and play video games

    My opening text was in reference to a conversation we had at the studio. My last text ended the conversation. I think it lowered my value because to me, it looks like I'm saying that that's all I do; that couldn't be further from the truth. Plus, it wasn't fliry and it didn't communicate anything conducive to a date happening. I'm debating whether to call her tomorrow afternoon to set up a date for early next week or wait until after I get back from vacation which will probably be January 3rd or 4th.

    Any tips appreciated

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    Default Re: Sent lame indirect text

    You're on the right track bro, it definitely was a lower value statement. Good thing is you noticed it. It wasn't necessarily the fact that those are the only things you do, they might be, and that's fine, it's just how you put it.

    Probably one of the most difficult things about pick up is reflecting on how the other person can benefit from your statement. In essence your words are giving the other person, or the girl, an opportunity to feel something. Unfortunately, most people feel or can do nothing with a factual statement about you. Think about the last time you asked someone how they were doing and they replied with something like "good, my car got me here today." To them it makes sense, they've had issues with their car. To you, it's a cry for a help "listen to me about my car issues" why would you? You don't know them.

    Like I said, everything you put after the convo says you realize where you went wrong and this is going to increase your learning curve exponentially. Your on the right track.

    Her: Haha yes. Nerdy to me is calculus and video games. What's your nerdy? xD

    You: Brown hair, green eyes, and a butt you could bounce a quarter of off. I've been told how nerdy I am my whole life... ;p
    You don't need her

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    Entourage2 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Sent lame indirect text

    Any suggestions on moving forward? Once I reengage successfully, I got it from there

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    Default Re: Sent lame indirect text

    Talk to her when you go back to the studio, no need to call her, you're only going to convey neediness. If she responded to your text positively you might be okay. If your mom text you, you didn't answer, and then called you later, wouldn't you be annoyed? You know and love your mom too.

    Just wait til you get to the studio, and talk to her like you had never text her.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Sent lame indirect text

    I don't know what I was thinking with that text. It's like the worst. What you say makes sense though; it's worth waiting until then than conveying neediness. Talking to her at work is difficult though because of how busy the place is and it involves me spending money but I guess I'll have to manage it. Oh well… price I pay for being a moron.

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    Default Re: Sent lame indirect text

    Anymore feedback on this? Much appreciated


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