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    Default Shit tests or batshit crazy?

    Ive been seeing this woman on and off for about a year (month or so on... shit blows up... off a few months... on again... here we go on our cycle).

    She is easily a 9 and outstanding in bed, so it suffices to say I'm willing to put up with a lot more.

    Here is the rub. When things are good, everything is really good. When things go south, its really south. We've got a passionate relationship so the highs are high and the lows are low. I when I am dating her, I am only dating her... but when we "break up" ive always been with someone else in like a matter of a day or two...

    Truth is that I really like her beyond the good sex... when times are good, she's really cool and we connect in a cool way that I'd could see myself enjoying in a long term way. But then, BOOM, everything goes to shit.

    I cant decide if she is throwing shit tests at me that im failing or if she is just batshit crazy and taking me along for the ride. It could be the fact that she's a 9 and Im 7-8... but I've been the one in control of the sex, so I think she perceives me as a fellow 9.

    I'm really not sure what to do with this and how we keep cycling through these ups and downs... Just looking for some thoughts and input.

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    Default Re: Shit tests or batshit crazy?

    She's not relationship material from the sounds of it.
    F**k buddy? Yes.

    But there shouldn't be that much drama going on in a relationship.


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    Default Re: Shit tests or batshit crazy?

    And don't think that you can change her, or that she will change, if she acts crazy then she's very likely to keep acting that way. I dated a crazy before, she had a flip switch...one minute she was sweet natured & fun, the next, she would throw all her toys out of the pram, proverbially, and act in such a way that made me feel extremely low.

    I stuck with her for too long, eventually I became fed up of it & decided that it wasn't working for either of us.

    Enjoy the sex, but don't get too hung up on her. Sounds like you're good with women anyway, if you consistently find an alternative, so it her behaviour is unreasonable, and you get to the point where this overrides the sex, then get walking.

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    Default Re: Shit tests or batshit crazy?

    Yeah, her argument is that i really don't care about her otherwise i wouldn't be able to move on so quickly... Maybe she's got a point... idk

    I really appreciate the advice...

    cheers

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    Default Re: Shit tests or batshit crazy?

    Stop caring about her and start caring about you.

    Expect the drama, just know that it is going to come no matter what and that it will eventually fade. These kinds of girls either grow out of it in late age but they seldom do before 26.


    Crazy in bed, crazy in the head.


    Detach yourself from a emotional part of a relationship while still keeping the passion. You can keep yourself from being hurt while still being passionate.

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    Default Re: Shit tests or batshit crazy?

    Sounds like she has emotional problems. Maybe she needs meds lol. Guys doing game never realize that some stuff isn't a test... She's just Krazeeeee! In the realest sense possible.
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