Ive been seeing this woman on and off for about a year (month or so on... shit blows up... off a few months... on again... here we go on our cycle).
She is easily a 9 and outstanding in bed, so it suffices to say I'm willing to put up with a lot more.
Here is the rub. When things are good, everything is really good. When things go south, its really south. We've got a passionate relationship so the highs are high and the lows are low. I when I am dating her, I am only dating her... but when we "break up" ive always been with someone else in like a matter of a day or two...
Truth is that I really like her beyond the good sex... when times are good, she's really cool and we connect in a cool way that I'd could see myself enjoying in a long term way. But then, BOOM, everything goes to shit.
I cant decide if she is throwing shit tests at me that im failing or if she is just batshit crazy and taking me along for the ride. It could be the fact that she's a 9 and Im 7-8... but I've been the one in control of the sex, so I think she perceives me as a fellow 9.
I'm really not sure what to do with this and how we keep cycling through these ups and downs... Just looking for some thoughts and input.