Well, like I said when I started this thread, I've never been in this situation before. I'm not one to move slow. I f-close on the third date. But your reply is spot on. I live by "no excuses."
I wanna ask her out again but I don't wanna risk a second flake. I'm leaving for vacation on Wednesday, so if I ask her out tonight, it's very short notice and tomorrow would be the only day I could suggest.
So I think I'm answering my own question that I'll have to see what happens when I get back (early January)
BTW, I was NO DOUBT at least k-closing on the fourth date that she flaked on. Now it's a matter of me setting up the next opportunity (guarantee)