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    Dave-o is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Negative replies to opener

    Why do women reply, only to give a negative reply to the opening comment? Why do they feel the need to reply with anything, rather than to just ignore the message?

    I sent an opening fun message, get a reply which says 'no thanks' etc...weird that they reply. You would think they'd just dismiss the message?

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    Default Re: Negative replies to opener

    I have had that happen to me quite a bit. Are you using canned openers or an opener tailored for that person? If a girl has a detailed about me section, I usually write an opener with stuff involved from their about me. If their about me is lame, I will use a canned opener. But I have had a few girls say no thanks. Most of the time it's a no response.

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    Default Re: Negative replies to opener

    its a trained response. all my friends who are women that use dating sites like pof and meet me say that guys on there all want the same thing. imagine you are a woman and you get 1000 messages all saying something sexual or canned or nothing but hi. it gets very boring and all the sudden you begin giving canned responses of no thanks then they go away. if she doesnt block you directly after that say something like i think you misunderstood me, i wasnt trying to sell you something. you just seemed like the adventurous kinda girl. i thought maybe you would like to talk to an adventurous kinda guy.


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