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    Question Ideas to Escalate Fitness Girl

    Ok so I just got the POF app today as its cold and the roads suck this time of year so I don't go out as much. The first girl I matched and messaged was this fine body builder type chick with a fat ass. I think I did pretty well building up rapport and landing the n-close, but I feel as though the way I asked could of nudged me a bit to the friend zone, which I most definitely want to stay out of because it turns out she kind of gets around (my friend said he went to school with her and said she does plus on Instagram she has a pic with her "bae" from a week ago) so the most I want is to be sex buddies. Firstly, I just want an opinion on how I did cause it's been awhile since I've had to do online gaming. Second, I need some ideas for something to text her about tomorrow that wont be boring (cause I would rather just forget about it than just send a "hey" since that always leads to dead ends) and will escalate her for me to meet her in person and f-close. Once we're in person I got it but I kind of suck with text gaming, I'm more of a face to face type of person.
    Anyway, this is the conversation we had:
    Me: What gym you lift at? You like like a girl who lifts at the power lifting place by my MMA gym.
    Me: A place called [Powerlifting Gym Name]
    Her: Nope I dont train at [powerlifting gym]
    Me: Dang you look like this girl who was doing weighted lunge walks across the parking lot one time when I was leaving my gym lol. What you squatting?
    Her: 275 last I checked
    Me: Dang your up there, I just hit 315 last week. I guess thats what gives you that nice figure lbs
    Her: Haha I suppose I stopped doing heavy squats regularly cause I'm getting a little bottom heavy lol
    Me: [Gives story about injury from lifting to build rapport] But I think your bottom looks just fine with the rest of you haha. Give me your number so we can hit a work out some time
    Her: [phone number]
    Me: Alright my numbers [my number]. I'll text you some time. Stay looking good for me.

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    Default Re: Ideas to Escalate Fitness Girl

    You were building rapport before attraction... then you complimented her on her looks.

    That's what every other guy does / would do.

    When you got her number & said you would "text her sometime" you pretty much nailed the coffin shut & solidified yourself in the friend zone.

    You should have been flirting (teasing/bantering) instead of building rapport. And you should have expressed interest in her, rather than saying you'd text her sometime & showing disinterest. (Telling her that her ass looks good isn't flirting, nor is it expressing the right kind of interest.)


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    Default Re: Ideas to Escalate Fitness Girl

    Well can you give me an example of how else I should of went about it? And can I still get some ideas to escalate an in person meeting thats meant for a hook up? I honestly don't think she woiuld of gave me her number if she wasn't attracted and I kind of have a reputation to maintain among the guys so I can't just give up on speculation lbs.


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