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    Default got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    Me - Hey Jax I saw an old wrestling game around my house and it reminded me of you

    Her - Haha aw cute! What system is it for?

    Me - N64 you'd love my game collection

    Her - You betcha

    Me - I'd like you to check out my home music studio this Thursday

    Her - Oof wish I could but I'll be working at another music studio this Thursday


    I think I should have suggested Wednesday because that's the day we've been getting together but I suggested Thursday just to mix it up. Mixing it up in this case was a bad idea.

    No counter offer means no more interest right?

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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    No counter offer means less interest than you, but it doesn't mean stop. She's sending appropriate smileys and accepting your interest.

    Try again in a week or something, and typically offer 2 different days, like hey you should come check out my studio, I'm open wed or Thursday evening? etc.

    Your text game could be improved too but I don't wanna go in to that too much, T mal has some great stuff on here.
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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    I think it's really bad. She must have lost interest at some point in the second date. Her canceling with no counter offer farks up long term relationship potential. That sucks...

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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    If you assume you'll get nothing, then you'll get nothing.

    But this is the whole point of the game, you don't know right now. I cant tell you how many girls I've liked after a date and don't end up seeing again. It happens, that's why you don't invest to much up front, but you keep trying and don't quit due to a minor little bump in the road.
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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    Based on that text, Red Baron, do you personally think she has lower interest in me than I do in her? On our second date, I noticed a little shifty eye contact and she might have looked at her phone once when we sat across from each other. Kissing and Kino was good otherwise though. If I have to chase her, I'm done. I wanted it to be different with this girl

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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    "Less" interest than you're saying here, yes. You're very in to this girl, and she's less interested in you.
    My buddy said something about a girl that completely flaked on him this weekend (on the third date) - He said he was treating her as a priority and she was treating him as an option. And if he wanted to continue, he needed to reframe his Mindset and treat her as an option for now too.

    I say this as a similarity for you. Less interest than you're showing doesn't mean no interest at all. We all want it to be simpler, but if it was going to be simple you wouldn't be here. If you choose not to pursue this one you may as well not pursue any of them. Don't give up its just part of the game right now.

    My guess is that she likes you yes but is not yet invested in you. Play it out, just don't invest too much in her, don't let her have that much control over your emotions until she's earned it.
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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    What about Doc Love's counter offer rule? No counter offer = out

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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    Quote Originally Posted by alpha1ntra1n1ng View Post
    What about Doc Love's counter offer rule? No counter offer = out
    How many other girls are you dating right now?

    If you're so busy with other prospects that you don't have time to offer a second chance at a date, then by all means don't give it a shot.

    Until you get to that point, don't give up so easy. What's the worse that will happen by trying again? You wind up exactly where you are now.
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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    But think about this: does her not counter offering my date show that her interest has limited growth potential? I think Doc is on to something about Kino and that I didn't let her initiate it enough (I initiated too much too soon). I'll date another girl when I meet one but I'm pretty sure I farked up. She should be invested in me enough to counter offer my third date suggestion. I pushed her away and I'm tight. I hope other guys read this thread and take something from it. This girl could give a fark less about me because I rushed in like a fool. Again, I'm tight...

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    Default Re: got a little bit of one-itis and wanted input on this text conversation

    But, Red Baron, do you think my higher interest was projected through my text exchange?


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