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    Default "i'll let you know" text

    So texting this girl I have met online dating site. Been fun and flirty all day going back and forth. I text her asking to meet up Saturday at 9pm, (tell her I have a birthday thing first) and she responds "I'll let you know"

    Today is Thursday and its two days away. I am presuming this is a flake. I havent responded yet to her "Ill let you know" text.

    I'm just looking for what to text back. Thanks.

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    I wouldn't text her at all. Go and make other plans. I've addressed this issue in another thread. You can read it here http://www.puaforums.com/how-talk-gi...dle-maybe.html

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    Her answer wasn't ideal because she didn't confirm. You can try to ping her with something like, "Hey (nickname), how's your day ?" and feel it out. Do a couple light and playful texts and then ask about meeting up. Otherwise focus on other girls.
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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    Thanks. Just read your other thread. She last texted me the "ill let you know" about 4 hours ago, so you are saying don't even text her ok as your other thread suggests?

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    I wasn't aware this was happening right now. You could have responded with "ok" or not responded at all. It doesn't matter. Usually I respond if I'm having an exchange that's pretty rapid. Regardless, like my other post stated, she will let you know. The key is you made other plans because she didn't confirm. It doesn't matter if she flakes OR wants to hang out. You're a busy guy. You don't have time for bullshit.

    I've never had good luck "pinging" girls. In my opinion it comes of as being kinda needy. If you have allot of options you don't care if you see her or not, you can just go out with another girl. If I get a similar answer like you did I make myself unavailable for that day and try to set up a different date later.

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    I didn't text her and she texts me today that she is free tonight. Originally I asked her for tomorrow. So I reply I have a coworkers departure dinner but I can meet like 930. She days ok after thinking about it I don't want to leave my plans early so I text her "I'm thinking it might go later, tomorrow would be so much better" and she just responded with "Its cool.. Tht was your chance.. " I recognize definite test there , any suggestions?

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    I would have said, "Sorry, I already have plans for tonight but if you want to get together tomorrow let me know" .... the idea is don't be so easy, you are a busy guy with a life and lots of options

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    But how should I now reply to "its cool, you had your chance " ?

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    I would just reply "I'm sure there will be other chances" ☺

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    Default Re: "i'll let you know" text

    Damn, pof is like super flake city....

    I sent that and she got super bitchy, she replied to there will be other chances with "
    Probably not. I'm tht type. And besides I start school Monday.. Ill be busy." so I reply "not what type?" and she responded "Im busy, goodnight" - I guess that is one to move on from

    another pof date I was suppose to meet up with tonight just for a drink (first time), pre both of us having plans after, just sent me a text that she woke with a strep throat, lets do something next week - respond or no?


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