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    tonystark88 is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default How do deal with girls dating multiple guys

    Hey,

    So I just got of a year plus relationship. It's been about a month and a half, and I've been dating. Closed one, and made out with the majority of them. After about 8 dates except for one the majority of the reason that we didn't progress is I just wasn't feeling it and was being selective.

    Reengaged with some online chick that I had made tentative plans with on and off . We ended up texting a lot during some blizzard and she was really interested in meeting me all the sudden. She actually met me near my place and we got some drinks, and then food. Afterwards she was hovering around so I kissed her. She asked me so is this what happens on all your dates, kind of fishing. I asked if she had to go home ( I knew she wouldn't come to my place but I figure I'd see. Possibly bad mistake, but it was date one).

    Next day texted her for another date, but made it a week from then. One and off we've been texting every couple days. Sometimes she initiates it sometimes me, but it's pretty even.

    All and all have to see how the 2nd date goes. My question is I'm used to having a gf or a fuck buddy but not all this multiple dating stuff where it gets complicated. She had told me in our texts that she already had a 3rd date with some dude, and then had talked about another date that didn't go well. I mentioned I have been dating. I can be cool and chill not worry, but I'm kind of curious at what point i ask her what the deal is with the other guy. I don't have the time and energy to be going out with multiple girls on multiple dates more than lets say 2-3 then its like having multiple girlfriends which my sanity can't handle lol.

    My friend suggested I ask her what the deal was and say are you gonna let us fight it out or something? I get that this girl isn't invested yet, but I'm not so interested in being backup especially when there are tons of other girls.

    Advice?

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    Default Re: How do deal with girls dating multiple guys

    Keep going with what you're doing so long as you are having fun. When you stop having fun, figure out what you need to do to start having fun again and inform her that that is how your relationship has to be from now on.

    I had a girl who comes over and gives me a bj once a week. She informed me a couple weeks ago that she now has a bf. I asked if that changed anything between us and she said no. She still comes over once a week and gives me a bj.

    Don't just act like you aren't outcome dependent. TRULY become outcome independent. Reach the point where you just want that girl to be happy and have a nice life and be better for having known you. She got a different guy? That's cool. She's getting married? That's cool. And hey, I'm still cool too. And I'm still here. And you can tell all your friends about me....
    Hypnotist, NLP geek. I've done: Tao of Badass, Hacking Attraction, How To Date Multiple Women (Pellicer's stuff), Get the Girl, How to Talk to Hot Women, No Strings Attached (Mehow's stuff), and now I'm getting into RSD's stuff. I don't go out a lot, but I kill it when challenged

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    Default Re: How do deal with girls dating multiple guys

    Ok I'm not gonna next her if we don't f date two, but whats the best way to progress after the date to get her back to my place?


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