Re: Can this be saved?
I wouldn't recommend gaming girls at work if you value your job. You've already framed it as a friendly / professional relationship with your behavior. Even her response when she said "agenda" is a professional tone. It's not worth beating yourself up over this girl. Focus on other girls. You can invite her out to a social gathering like happy hour and use her as pre-selection if you choose and it keeps it less pressure on her since you're already in that co-worker frame. Over time as she sees you gaming other girls, she may start to develop attraction towards you, but you would get more value using her as a Pivot or wingwoman.
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