Not sure how to address this issue but I get this a lot.
"You deserve a super hot chick" -Lawyer HB7
"You need a pretty little thing" -Business Owner, Sugar Momma, Cougar HB9
"I cannot live without you, you cannot break up with me" HB9 ex-Girlfriend
The most recent being the business owner whose message I just received today at 6AM. I am of course attracted to her-a 9 however she came out and said "You are the most amazing guy. Your funny and cute go find a young little pretty thing and stop goofing around with me." She is only 4 years my senior and I have dated a 45yr old when I was 30. So I think she is a bit off her rocker but I see her point.
She is a business owner which easily qualifies her as a good catch since my last girlfriend was always broke but I agree she definitely doesn't "make my blood boil" like a HB10. I can't get 10's either I always get screwed over by them but the 9's just fall head over heels every time. This business owner 9 said she couldn't contain herself and thought she was dreaming and 10's never say that kinda crap to me save for rare occasions.
Maybe I should figure out what I want but I feel like I am stuck in the middle, in No Man's Land of getting flamed by the 10's but pwning the 9's. Hard to find a good medium and kinda lost.