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  1. #1
    G0ldwing is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Help getting attention back

    Hey guys, I've been hooking up with this girl lately and she's pretty cool. I'm not looking to make her my gf, but I think I may have messed up with her.
    Context: She wants to skype tonight and I have work to do

    Me: I have lots of work tonight
    Her: Fuck your work, I'm better
    Me: You are better
    Her: Then I guess I'll talk to you tonight :*
    Me: I need all the time I have tonight maybe this thursday
    Her: Aren't I seeing you on Thursday? K whatever lol
    Me: That's what I'm saying
    Her: K fine. I don't like u anymore
    Me: I'm saying we should hang out on Thursday LOL
    Her: I know, I'm not dumb, and I'm saying ya
    Me: Are you sure?
    Her: Am I sure I'm not dumb?? Pretty fucking positive Lool
    Me: You're bad at kissing tho *inside joke*
    Her: Uh k. I'm not seeing u on Thursday
    Me: Haha I'm messing around
    Her: No u ruined it, good job
    Me: Too bad
    Her: K
    Me: I think you're pretty cool
    Her: I think your not

    About an hour before that, she was basically saying how good looking I am and sending hearts and stuff. What's the deal with her? How can I get her attention back?

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    Default Re: Help getting attention back

    What's funny is that as I read this exchange I'm thinking she is being the guy, and you are playing the part of the girl .... but she sounds like a very sassy girl and I think that's very cool !!!!

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    Default Re: Help getting attention back

    Please note I'm no grand master I'm a newbie too !! I see a couple of mistakes here when she said fuck you work I'm better why be so quick to agree with her I would think a tease there would have been better. Also you had Thursday confirmed but you wanted it double confirmed which comes across needy and she cut you - I know this shit is hard - I'm sure some of the veterans here will tell you what to do - keep us posted and thanks for posting this !

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    G0ldwing is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Help getting attention back

    UPDATE:

    I met up with her on the weekend and we made out for hours.

    On text, she's very bold, but in person she can't keep her hands off of me. It's weird.

    Me: So what am I supposed to guess? I give up
    Her: Nothing, idk, I just wanted to get your attention What u up too
    Me: I had nothing better to do today so I went with my 10 year old sister to watch the spongebob movie with like 8 of her fifth grade friends
    Her: HAHAHAHAHAHAHA aww, you should have hung with me
    Me: Spongebob is pretty great
    her: Fu
    Me: You're gonna have to convince me you're better than spongebob
    Her: I can't. Spongebob's better
    me: haha spongebob is great
    her: Si
    Me: You speak Spanish?
    Her: Si
    Me: Say something sexy in Spanish
    her: Caliente
    Me: What's that mean
    her: it means hot
    boob
    Me: yea tits are awesome
    her: Si, eddie like
    Me: Maybe a little
    Her: Maybe a little what
    Sorry I ruined a moment
    I'm confused
    Me: You said Eddie like and I said maybe a little
    Her: Oh faggot
    I meant like
    Not that
    Me: You're so bad at texting
    her: No!!! U are
    I'm straightening my hair lol
    Me: I'm more fun in person
    Her: Keep thinking that
    Me: You're such a bitch
    Her: Am I


    *It goes on but It's not really important* What is the best way to deal with her sassiness? I can do well in person because I can physically push, but over text not really. Like over the weekend she gave me a lapdance, and we made out. She keeps saying she hates me, but I'm pretty sure that's a joke

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    G0ldwing is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Help getting attention back

    UPDATE:

    Me: Is it true that all short people have bad memory? I bet you don't want to remind me because you won't remember
    Her: True. But I'm mad at you
    Me: haha do short people also have short terms?
    her: Si. I hate you
    Me: That's cute, my little sister hates me too. You guys should talk
    Her: Stop, you're mean. I don't like you. I used to. Good job

    She's kinda bi-polar. What should I do?

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    Default Re: Help getting attention back

    It is hard to say what you should do, you left here a few conversations between you 2 which don't seem something special or interesting. You both seem like you are having fun. If you do not want her to be your girl, continue to have fun. And try to be the same over the messages as you are in face-to-face meeting.


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