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    scottod is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Asking for a 2nd chance after f-ing up without seeming needy?

    So I had a date with someone from online that we were having text/phone back and forth, thing were going well but and some delay set up a first date for a Saturday night -

    She was not being responsive the few days before the date and very late THursday when its already too late for her to get back to me I stupidly under the influence of alcohol saying this is not going to work , Im not into flakes.

    She of course responds the next morning as she was probably asleep, wishing me good luck, claiming she is not a flake. I decided just to admit I was wrong and apologize, but it was basically done at that point as I f-d it up good

    A week later I try to reengage, and she was like who is this (as she deleted my number) did the future ex husband thing, then she said oh the man who insulted my character, anyone that knows me would never call me a flake - and I respond yes but how many men do you know that can admit that they're wrong. She says I forgive you but I always think of you this way.....

    Anyway, bottom line, I know I basically did everything this site says not to do, I know I should move on, and call it a lesson learned but I figure I have nothing to lose except some face by trying to get another date again even though I know the chance of success will be low - but is there anyone I can come out of this situation and phrase it in a way where I do not seem like I am begging/needy ?

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    Default Re: Asking for a 2nd chance after f-ing up without seeming needy?

    And this is why we NEVER send a text when we are drunk ..... Let it go , live & learn, move on to next girl being a little bit wiser .......GL
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    Default Re: Asking for a 2nd chance after f-ing up without seeming needy?

    So decided nothing to lose since it was dead anyway. .texted Ok, since I'm forgiven I think we should plan another date and let me make it up to you ☺" she responded with "I'll think about it" which was more than I expected

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    Default Re: Asking for a 2nd chance after f-ing up without seeming needy?

    Any witty replies to"Ill think about it" - it was going into Saturday night so I left her hanging and did not reply yet. Its not the typical "Ill let you know " text that there are many threads - this "ill think about it " is a little deserved

    I might say something like you have time to think about it because I have a busy week, friends coming in from out of town (which is true) but next week Im free on (give her a choice of a 3 days)

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    Default Re: Asking for a 2nd chance after f-ing up without seeming needy?

    Move and game another girl. Use your energy for something more productive and efficient use of your time.
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