How not to be a needy loser
Hey guys I need your help (I will use the word "girl" meaning this happens to me with 99% of the girls I met)
I consider myself a good PUA since I have no problems talking with girls and collecting numbers
Once I have collected the number I usually text the girl the day after with some funny texts and in a couple of days I'm able to set a date.
During the date we kiss, hold hands, and sometimes we have sex.
The problem is...what comes after!
For one or two days there are no problems: I text the girl using funny original texts and she responds immediately in a good mood...she seems really into me!
But I don't know why...3-4 days after the date (who went really well) the girl starts to be cold (I'm talking about sms game) and flaky
I can't figure out what I'm doing wrong! I mean:
-I DO NOT use boring texts
-I DO NOT text the girl the whole day
-Sometimes I respond in 10 seconds, sometimes in a couple of hours just to keep the attraction high
-Sometimes I stop responding and text her back in like 24 hours
I usually try to set a second date 3/4 days after the first one...but 90% of the time the girl finds an excuse
This is driving me crazy! It's like someone is telling the girl: "Don't date that guy...he is a douche!"
But I'm sure this is not the case since I don't have any enemy nor a bad reputation
The only mistake I can think of is that I think about the girl the whole time...but reading again the messages I do not find anything that can be seen as "needy"
What do you think guys?
P.S. I've already read many ebooks on text game and T-Mal Conversational Bible on this forum
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