I just read several texting threads and was wondering if you could help me out with possible recovery or just an overview on hindsight of what I did wrong.
I just discovered pua stuff and am trying to read/learn but Id like to see if I can learn from my current mistakes first. I only discovered pua stuff when she started not replying so the entire convo is full of mistakes I know. only the last text(sent 2 days after first ignore) was after I read some PUA Text guides.
So I met this girl by chance, she wanted to buy 1D tickets off me. We met and we talked a little about her getting them for her sister and she has no choice but to accompany her. Said goodbye by saying "have fun" to tease her as she hates it. she replied fuck off and laughed as I walked off. This was a very brief encounter probably less than 5 min, I would say there was 0 initial impression made. I went back and realised "hey, she looks fun to know" and started texting her. This is how the text went(entire whatsapp convo after meetup). last sentence was sort of an attempt to get a reply after reading some text convo openers etc from this forum and another pua forum (was trying to go for the bank robbery thing if she replied). Dint work. after the part she rejected the meet up, all messages sent to her were not read at all (no double tick)
ME: Hey forgot to tell you. The standing pen queue has already started at 11am. So you prolly should go queue so that you can get to touch them haha
HER: Ew. Sweaty. Thank you though
ME: Hahahaha. You're awfully polite in text. Arent you supposed to be asking me to fuck off
HER: I was about to. But my sister is next to me now. Cannot.
Bad words you just said there. Haha
ME: Oops pardon me. how old is your sister
HER: 12 but she's escaped rudeness and swearing until now we're trying to keep it this way haha
ME: Amazing feat. Where are you from
HER: England, London
ME: Ah. Here on holiday?
HER: No here waiting to go off to uni until then just traveling
ME: Ah how long more in sg till uni starts?
HER: I'd have to apply first. I don't know when or where I want to go yet.
ME: Typical dilemma it seems. How long have you been here?
HER: Yeah seems like I'm not the only one. Met a lot of people who are just like me going around the world until we figure something out Been here on and off for four years really
ME: Sounds like a great adventure though. Im marini123 by the way. Whats your name
HER: Yeah It's nice get to see the world but it doesnt make me economically safe I guess..
My name's HER
ME: Yea you cant have your cake and eat it. Anyway HER, Ill talk to you later. But Ill leave these 2 pics to let you know the excitement that awaits you ðŸ˜„
*sends her 2 pics of media news on 1 D concert
HER: Fuck you.
ME: So how did the night go with the hordes of prepubescent girls?
HER: Somehow we got to make it fun. Maybe the vodka helped.
ME: Haha looks like 1D has another fan. Were you taking a swig every 10 mins while singing ooo cos thats what makes you beautiful
HER: No somehow I knew most the lyrics I mean my sister does blast their music all the time.
Haha but it was actually fun once we got rid of the kids pushing us. And getting the anger out on some people made it 10 times better
ME: Sounds deliciously violent. Tell me more over dinner tonight?ðŸ˜ƒ
HER: Honestly I'd say yes if I didn't get home at 7am I need a good 24h nap haha
ME: Arent I the smoothest. Tomorrow night enough nap time for you?
ME: Hey sleeping beauty you want to be on tv?
thanks for reading. would love any advice on salvaging if possible or hindsight you can provide. i know i shldnt be hung up on one girl but since its my first time trying this out, would be nice to see if recovery is possible