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    Exclamation Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever heard)

    Hi there,

    The situation is the following: I already built up a decent rapport and trust with a slightly insecure, HB8 - the best friend of my gf. I know. She is curious and my gf would try a threesome with her too. However, I might have screwed my game up a little bit (oh, the comments are coming): I sent her a love song on FB. Couldn't resist, for one; the whole situation is hot as hell, secondly I developed very strong feelings towards this girl for some reasons, that I couldn't control. In a weak moment I sent her Tom Odell's "Can't pretend", which has a very obvious message. Brilliant song BTW.
    This is the chance to realise the big dream of having intimate relationship with two girls at the same time, and I would like to take it. I am aware that I handled the situation as an AFC, but there must be a solution, a great come back that would put me back in the game.

    Please, any help would be very appreciated.

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    YellowHulk

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    I think the only AFC thing is your own perceptive. It's just AFC because you're chickening out and think it's AFC stuff. Think of it this way: women love intrigue, mystery, puzzles. If she calls you on it and question you about it, treat it like no big deal, make her question her perception of why you sent the video to her... Puzzle her. Have the mentality of "yeah so what? I sent you a video".

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    Thank you, ConnorMaxwell72. Great advice! She hasn't answered me yet - I strongly believe that she is quite puzzled. I will let her call me on it (and try not to worsen the situation with explanation or by sending more songs ), then do what you just suggested. At least I'll have some time to cool down and pull myself together. Cheers

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    I wouldn't even bring it up to her either. Play it off like nothing even happened. Let her wonder what it was all about.

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    In the future, if you want a threesome with your girlfriend and one of her friends tell your girlfriend this "I want to have a threesome with you and (her friends name)." That's all you need to do. If your girlfriend is interested in the idea she will talk to her friend and set up all the details. You do nothing. If her friend says no, the idea gets planted into her head and she starts thinking about it. Her thinking about it breaks down barriers. Your girlfriend can then bring it up again later OR you guys can get drunk together and your girlfriend can put the moves on her. Once she gets all hot and bothered you jump in.

    Its really that easy. You took the initiative when you should be discussing it with your girlfriend first, then have your girlfriend get her friend to join in. It sounds like your girlfriend would already be down but if she isn't don't worry.

    My last girlfriend didn't like women but I told her "I want a threesome with you and Katie". She said she didn't want to. I told her "that's fine if you don't like the idea but I'm going to have another threesome because that's what I want". This told her that I would have one with or without her. Weeks later I told her "I want a threesome with you and Katie or Beth". She told me "definitely Beth, she would be way more fun". She then started thinking about setting it up. I later hung out with Beth and decided I wasn't attracted to her so I told my girlfriend I wasn't interested in a threesome with Beth anymore and I wanted Katie.

    I kept bringing it up occasionally and she got more and more open to the idea until she eventually agreed to have a threesome. The only problem was that she agreed two weeks before she moved overseas so It never happened. That's not the point however. I know I'll have a threesome with this girl when she comes back and I totally broke down her barriers until she was enthusiastic about the idea. It worked so well that I'm going to do the same thing with every other woman I'm ever with.

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    Thank you, DirectIsBest. You're 100% right. It started well, I just got over excited. I will be cool from now on. Let me know how it goes for you

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    Here is the current development of my story:

    The target sent me an email containing only information regarding a project we've been working on (I used this project to build rapport). She didn't say anything about the song, or didn't even say hello in the email. I think she is giving me a massive token resistance because of the fact that her best friend (they grew up like sisters) is my gf. I've got so many ioi's before, and I actually know that she falls for untouchable guys (her first, four year relationship took place with a guy who was described to her as "Stay away from him!", and her previous serious relationship was with a guy who just broke up, but lived with her ex for the first couple of months while he was together with the target). Let's put aside my taste and the question who's got more questionable morals, and focus on my next step: Since she supposed to copy a document, but instead she typed it in, I will neg her by responding - "Did you break the printer? Thanks anyway". Should I also implement a couple of days Freeze Out? Or the best is to do nothing at all, except thanking the email she sent?

    What do you think?

    So far, your advice proved to be very useful, and I greatly appreciate them.

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    Dude! What the hell do you want? You already have a girlfriend. You don't need to "game" this girl. If you're not happy with your girlfriend then break up with her. It sounds like you want this girl instead of your girlfriend.

    You're way over complicating things. Don't neg her, you are doing a project together. Continue to communicate with her about the project. Freezing Her Out would be silly. The only time a Freeze Out works is when the girl has already invested in you heavily (most of the time that means you two have hooked up).

    The reason why she didn't mention the song was because it was weird. Getting something like that out of the blue is odd. I wouldn't even send something like that to a girl I was hooking up with, unless it was my long term girlfriend (and I still wouldn't do it, cause I'm a dick).

    The best way to "game" your girlfriends friends is to be cool and not care. I don't game my girlfriends friends BUT I have noticed some of them taking interest in me. I've had the opportunity to mess around with some after I've broken up with my girlfriends. You know what the secret was? I didn't care about them. I was friendly but even if they were hot, I treated them like they weren't an option. I did this because I had a girlfriend. If I'm with a girl that's the one I want to be with.

    So basically you should be the cool/fun guy. Razz them like you would razz any friend, and be confident but not show any real interest in them. This is how I've gotten various girlfriends friends to like me but I wasn't trying to game them. Trying to game your girlfriends friends and being obvious about it is creepy.

    First of all you need to figure out what you really want. Second, if you want a threesome bring it up with your girlfriend. Have you done that yet?? That's the first step! If she doesn't like the idea be supportive of her decision, non emotional, but reaffirm that you want one. Then bring it up again later. Plant the seed, let the seed grow into a tree, then f@ck the tree. I love that saying.

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    Thanks DirectIsBest, I needed that.
    My gf supports the idea of a threesome, as long as I don't fall in love, but you know how these kind of statements work: like a big red button with a sign "Don't press". Meanwhile, I have sent the target a simple "thank you", and she responded with a "Not at all. Thank you for the music, I liked it. ". Also today, she sent me a song, Whitney Houston's "Step by step". Non of us is a huge fan Whitney, but the lyrics is self-explanatory.
    Although I have much to learn, I enjoy the game, that is why I'm doing it.
    Something is wrong with me sure, but in a beautiful way, and at the end of the story I'm going to "flip" that tree like a boss. (Great saying BTW, made my day )

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    Default Re: Damage control, if any... (in the most twisted situation you've ever he

    Quote Originally Posted by YellowHulk View Post
    Thanks DirectIsBest, I needed that.
    My gf supports the idea of a threesome, as long as I don't fall in love, but you know how these kind of statements work: like a big red button with a sign "Don't press". Meanwhile, I have sent the target a simple "thank you", and she responded with a "Not at all. Thank you for the music, I liked it. ". Also today, she sent me a song, Whitney Houston's "Step by step". Non of us is a huge fan Whitney, but the lyrics is self-explanatory.
    Although I have much to learn, I enjoy the game, that is why I'm doing it.
    Something is wrong with me sure, but in a beautiful way, and at the end of the story I'm going to "flip" that tree like a boss. (Great saying BTW, made my day )
    I wouldn't say anything is wrong with you. You just want a threesome like any other guy.

    It sounds like you're set then. Your girlfriend likes the idea and you talked to her about it. All you have to do now is sit back while your girlfriend sets up the details. You my friend are in the drivers seat.


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