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    Default Need help fast!! Please!!

    Ok so I'm texting this chick right now and I still have time to write something but I just don't know what. I have an idea but I'd like to run it through you guys first.

    First some backstory: our professor gave all the girls in class a book that they need to read and then choose a boy to teach them what they learn from it.

    The text right now is about that. Here it goes

    me: hey; you seem serious about searching for someone to team up with for the exam. I am too. If you're cool about it let's team up. Don't worry about Joe (a guy who rarely shows up to class and just found out about this whole thing and has asked her to team up. Mind you she does not want to team up with Joe) He's too unpredictable and besides.......he's a bit weird looking lol don't tell him I said that Let me know

    her: lol Joe is never in class that's why I don't wanna team up with him and that other dude had asked me also but idk

    her: I think there's an odd number off ppl anyways. I hope she (the professor) talks about it more

    me: I don't think she's gonna talk about it anymore :/ I have the exams questions by the way. Don't ask how I got them lol You and some other chick whose name I forgot are the only ones I think will take this serious but problem is this other chick doesn't have the book. So that leaves you

    her: she's giving the questions to the girls and yeah I know the questions were inside the book haha

    her: see but that's the thing this whole thing is fucked because there's like 3 girls missing books haha

    her: so that's not fair at all for the guys and the girls

    her : that other guy called dibs on me already but she said she was gonna talk about it so let's see idk

    i left it there deciding what I should write back. I obviously want to team up with her to set up some alone time. I'm think about writing this "Well if she doesn't talk about it next class, undib this other guy cause I needs that A lolBesides, I know who you're talking about, he comes to class smelling a bit and you're not gonna want a smelly partner, that's for sure. Don't tell him I said that lmao"

    you guys tell me what I should do

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    I just thought up with this "[COLOR=rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.701961)]Well let's unfuck it up, Undib that dude you don't even know about, let's team up and get that A. Sounds like a good plan to me. I'd go for it " what do you guys think? Yes? No? [/COLOR]

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    She seems to be trying to say no really lightly. Tell her what you wrote above and if that doesn't work just drop it. The way she is texting makes it look like she's trying to make the excuse seem as its not her fault.

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    Exactly! What do you think that's suppo to mean?

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    She doesn't really want you !? You can try, I mean she would pick you for a lack of a better option.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    This is starting to suck so much. This constantly happens to me. I just don't know how much longer I can go. I feel hopeless.

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    Dude, this sort of thing happens to all of us , it's not the end of the world, get out there and meet new girls, you'll be fine !!!!!
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    Dude don't feel hopeless, no need for that - It's no big deal so what if she chooses some other guy? just laugh it off - don't let it affect you - it's not the end of the world.

    I got the impression from the messages that it seemed way more important to you to have her as a partner and I think you telegraphed that way too much in your first message to her for example:

    "hey; you seem serious about searching for someone to team up with for the exam. I am too" -

    you've made it super important about getting a partner and the fact you have text her is telegraphing that you really wanna be her partner, you've only assumed that she seems serious but you have confirmed that you are serious - just screams out "oh my god i have to get a partner for this exam and i really want it to be you!!!"

    maybe you could have put something like - "this exam is dumb - you better be a decent partner chump or I'm taking you down with me!!"

    this way you are going in with the attitude that you are picking her and not vice versa. It also doesn't telegraph interest and comes off confident, a little cocky and it show's it doesn't mean a great deal to you who you end up with.

    you also asked her if she was cool with the fact you guys could partner up and then continued to diss this joe guy - you've submitted the fact that she has the power to choose you and you are hoping she's ok with that, then you have jokingly but pretty obviously telegraphed that you are worried she might pick somebody else over you by trying to put her off other guys, like it's important that she doesn't pick them over you - i think she's totally read that.

    I think you need to just play it cool - don't worry about the outcome - this is a chance for you to shine -if you continue to telegraph to her that it's important to you that you end up as her partner she's gonna know it's not because you think she is "serious" about the exam.

    She will take much more notice if you play it cool - keep calm - don't let shit phase you - be confident - don't worry and be in control, as only you can control how you react nobody else can so that's where you have your power - you need the attitude that it's "No bid deal" - she's likely to pick the least needy guy as a partner.

    maybe you could reply with something like:

    "dibs?? people actually still call dibs on stuff......wow...... " -

    you are not mentioning her, the exam, being her partner or anyone else in this message - it's also a confident statement and technically AMOGGING that other guy, lets call him Dibsy!

    i WOULD NOT ADVISE SENDING THE MESSAGE ABOUT UNDIBBING (whatever the fuck that is) THE "SMELLY" GUY - again this just telegraphs waaaaaaaayyyy to much that it's really important to you that SHE picks you - fuck that you should have picked HER in your first text in a cocky confident and non-submissive way

    be less keen and way more chill - It's NO BIG DEAL

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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    Never feel hopeless !!! We've all been there !! Do you really think any one of us can got all the girls he's ever wanted in his life? This just happened to me:

    I met a girl two nights ago, a German one. I gamed a good game. she told me at the end I want to add you on FB because I'd like to call you again. Today she added me, we started talking and when I asked her: "So are you going to the x place or something else in that street ?" She didn't answer. Why you may ask, because there is no rapport what so ever I know that from my experience, but I didn't give a fuck she leaves in 10 days, I had to risk it and accept it if I fall flat on my face which I did. You know what happened too tonight another girl told me she'll pass by my regular bar because she wants to see me again. It's a numbers game ! I'm still going to game other girls tonight and get their numbers, I only hope I'm gaming one as this girl passes by to see me.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Need help fast!! Please!!

    I appreciate all the positive message you guys are sending me. It truly is allowing me to get through this. I've spoken with other ppl around me and their message echos yours. I'm just trying to chill and get pass it. It's just there comes a time when I just want to truly feel an endless amount of happiness and not feel it only in small dosages. I've been very down lately. Just sadness after sadness. And I'm not the type of guy who is shy or afraid to go up to girls. I started this semester going up to lots of girls very chill and easily getting some digits. But then I meet this one girl and everything just goes down hill. And I know this isn't the first time I've felt this not will it be the last but I just want a change for once. And I know that change must come from me. I know that but God it's fucking hard. I'm 26. I'm a virgin. And I feel like it's going to stay that way for much longer. I just don't know. I'm sorry for venting. This shouldn't be a place for that. You guys are all cool and positive, I don't wanna screw with that vibe.


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