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Thread: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

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    Default How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    First of all, I'm 18. The way I like to chat up new girls is from Facebook. But I find it very hard to keep the conversation going with these girls (18 yrs old too). I need some guidelines on how to keep the conversation flowing without acting too desperate. The girls I want to talk to aren't the sort of people you'd start having a convo about the weather or something. They're different really. (I live in Ireland) At the bottom I have pasted a sample convo I had with a girl, however I'm stuck on how to keep the conversation going. Can anyone give me some tips on what to say next.

    Me: "Hey how's it going "
    Girl: "Grand, you? "
    Me: "Pretty good, where u from? "
    Girl: "Ballymahon, u?"
    Me: "Longford, is it any good there in ballymahon? "
    Girl: "Ah yeah its grand some times boring "

    Usually after that I don't know what else to say to keep the convo going without coming off as a freak asking so many questions.😂😂 Any help will be appreciated!

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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    If it's a FB thing, go to her profile and look at her pictures & posts , I'm sure you will find things that you can comment on that will turn into full blown conversations .... That's how you start
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    Ugh! That just made me cringe!!

    Conversations like that will get you nowhere. You need to be fun, flirty and different to any other guys messaging her.

    I picked up the basics from b4utxther by Race depriest when I first started. Otherwise just have a look through the online dating category on here and read anything from T-Mal, he knows his shit
    Then it's just a matter of practicing, failing and improving.

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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    LOL ..... I was thinking the same thing, I mean "Hey how's it going" is a text you really shouldn't send unless you are married, and 20 questions is boring .... this isnt a job interview ... be funny, crazy, flirty, and all over the place and you will stand out .... if you can talk about a gazelle, vasoline, and midgets during a text exchange you are GOLDEN
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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    Lol even then you still shouldn't send it..

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    if you can talk about a gazelle, vasoline, and midgets during a text exchange you are GOLDEN
    Challenge accepted!!

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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    Thanks but what exactly can I say next?😄

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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    There's a whole bunch of things you can say next! Drgnsfire already gave you a good idea for somewhere to start. There's no magic line or thing you can say that will guarantee results, it's something you need to spend some time and effort on learning properly.

    If we tell you what to say, then when you go out and meet these girls you'll get blown out because they will be expecting us!

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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    If we suggest what to say next it's not really going to help you ..... it's something you need to learn yourself thru trail and error , being a good conversationalist takes work , there are lots of good guides on this forum you should check out ....... remember if we give a man a fish he can eat for a day, if we teach him to fish he can eat for a lifetime
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    Default Re: How to text a teenage girl on Facebook for the first time

    Here a couple of quick replies I threw together on my ride home:

    Girl: "Grand, you? "
    Just grand?! Well I suppose it's a good thing I started talking to you then hey lol
    Wow grand?! That's sounds pretty amazing! And I thought I was doing pretty well being sensational

    Girl: "Ballymahon, u?"
    Oh.. I'm so sorry for you lol
    Really? Is it true what they say about girls from Ballymaho.. oh wait, I've said too much lol

    Girl: "Ah yeah its grand some times boring "
    Hmm maybe I'll have to come down there and show you guys how to have an awesome time!!
    Only some times?! Whatever's keeping you there must be pretty special!

    There's a quick idea of what we're on about. Each one of those responses will take your conversation down another path and give you new hooks to continue with


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