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    Nerv09 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Video chat troubles

    Over the past few months I've been able to unravel my fears and anxieties with regards to texting (thank you PUA community) and have had more success than ever in my life. But over the last week I've run into a slightly different situation. I met an FB9, very bubbly personality, we hit it off over text but now she insists on talking over FaceTime. Texting gave the the advantage of revising before sending a message while video chat is, well, live. I'm game to learn how to use this new mean of communication but I feel like a complete idiot while speaking over video. Is there already a thread out there that addresses this? Or can someone give me a few pointers on how to implement dhv to avoid this mean for now while keeping her interest? Thanks again!

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    Default Re: Video chat troubles

    Just treat it like a standard phone call or real life interaction.

    You were planning on meeting her anyway right?! Then it's no different to that.
    If you weren't planning on meeting her and she was just a text buddy to practice with, then use that same approach with face time.

    At the end of the day, your texting should be congruent with who you are as a person anyway. That way, when you get to the stage of transitioning to phone game or meeting up, there's nothing to worry about.

    Don't overthink it! If you make it stressful, that's exactly what it will become.

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