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Thread: Girl either shit testing or losing interest.

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    Default Girl either shit testing or losing interest.

    Hi Guys
    I know this girl for a few months and we started off as friendly and I never really noticed her despite she being HB9 (much taller then me really as well).
    We hung out about 12 days ago (drinks with friends) and there we got to know each other. I did a lot of cocky funny sets (we were both drinking) and was completely into me responding very well. I got her number and since then I have been on her with whatsapp.

    Havent got to meet her since the last time as I was working too much and then was sick for the last 5 days.

    However I did initiate role play (husband and wife) and managed to sexualise the conversation while getting to know her as well. She has responded brilliantly until yesterday evening.

    Basically I did not text her a whole day about 2 days ago (cause i wanted to see how she felt about it all) and she texted me the next day saying "are u trying to make me jealous by not texting me? btw are u feeling better now"

    I texted her back saying "what ? r u alright, I am on medicines really. was bad yesterday." i diverted the topic well and got her mind off. she said it ok, she can see i am really sick. Then she tried to convey that she was only joking saying am i making her jealous. i think she was not joking...

    After a few hours of chat (and i was about to ask her out for a drink and i know she would have jumped on it gladly), she went to single word replies and short replies.
    Today I did send her a text teasing in the beginning a bit to get her out. She took the bait but for a few lines only again. She sais she had a very long sleep last night at all. (we have a running joke that she sees me in my dreams every night). Hence I replied "no wonder i could not slepp all night" .. she replied ".....i actually wonder why, yesterday ? drugs is it ?"... i replied " you of all people must know"...........
    no reply since ! its been more than 6 hours. She is online and is checking facebook and whatsall but not responding.

    I feel she is feelin she gave up too much power when she asked me if i was trying to make her jealous. Maybe now she is playing hard to get !

    So now i am not sure if i should say "so are u now trying to make me jealous" or just wait for her to respond.

    Tips/ thoughts please !

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    Default Re: Girl either shit testing or losing interest.

    So basically this is about the "-she didn't respond to my text" that most guys worry about ...... and what is the solution to that ???? You text her again in two or three days with a completely new frame and you don't mention her non response .. this shows that you are not response dependent (although lots of us are we just can't let them know that), you have a life and other things to do besides sitting around texting, and your not a needy, whiney , little bitch about her not responding. We need to get to the point where we are not phased by a NR. We need to stop over thinking things and understand that people are busy and sometimes cant respond and that a NR isn't the end of the world. One other thing, I think texting for a couple of hours is a long time. As much as I like texting and as good as I am at it I try to limit it to 46 mins to 1 hour unless we have sexual escalated things and the conversation is getting funky ....... GL, I think you'll be fine with her, there seems to be some chemistry there
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    Default Re: Girl either shit testing or losing interest.

    Thanks guys !
    She is indeed testing me I think. She did reply back today when I asked her why she was not at a dance lesson we do together. She said she thought I was not going so did not go. then she added "i see you are avoiding me :P"
    I brushed it off as noting had happened and did not indulge on this at all. However I can see that her messages are now shorter than before and also seem a bit negative. eg: she is having work troubles to which i said maybe a drink, some massage and a shisha will be good for her. To my surprise she replies no, i have to cut down on the drink.
    Its very unlike her.

    I think I am gonna go back to some attraction building and Push Pull and then some comfort again to get her back on track.
    Or should I go in only with comfort ?

    What do u think guys ?

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    Default Re: Girl either shit testing or losing interest.

    Definitely Push Pull before you go into comfort.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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