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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    True that.

    Ha that one is good. i meant an example on how to tease her if she CAN'T meet up. Do you have any idea what i could say? Im keeping the other one you said though. Good one Thanks dude!

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Is it a good thing to text something like ; Hey whats your shedule like next couple of days? " just because i know she works a lot. ?

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    just by reading your title "she's a 10 I can't mess up" shows me you've already messed up.


    you can't afford to put any woman on a pedestal let alone one who's used to manipulating guys who do.


    you're already too afraid of failing, too afraid to ever tell her no. just like 90 percent of the guys she's talked to her whole life.

    this is a classic example of objectification. girl has nice body, guy will do anything for some gross push ups with her underneath him, girl realizes this so she gives him a nice smile and tells him what she wants, guy does what she wants in hopes of sweating on her, girl rapes him of his soul and doesn't even hold hands.

    your problem sir is that you do not value women for much more than their reproductive value. if you actually cared about who they are you wouldn't be afraid of "screwing things up" and you probably wouldn't have even mentioned how attractive she is.

    thus the best advice I can give you is to forget about her looks and treat her like a normal human being and not because you want to get laid, but because she is a normal human being who should be treated the same as any other human being. I know its hard to think like that when you've only got enough blood to fill one head at a time, but at least make an effort to.

    btw, men need to realize that sex isn't as fulfilling as its chalked up to be, yes I just said that. its probably the single most over-rated thing humanity has ever come up with. sure it feels good, and sure it pumps the ego, but at the end of the day its a lot of time spent just to get 45 minutes of pleasure (I know, some of you don't even get that much time in the ring lol)

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Wow. That just woke me up. Lol. Thanks dude.
    I mean as far as treating her as a human is what ive been doing. Espcially when i was with her i did as i should. Jusr went i got back home. I was like okay shes the first actual hot girl ive spoken to. That i could see she was sinterested and attracted to me. But nonetheless. Thanks for the great advice.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Quote Originally Posted by dragon View Post
    Met this girl at the metro station. had a nice conversation with heR. made her laugh. everything is perfect. Shes deffinitely a 10. As we talked for a good 20 minutes, i suggested we go for a coffee since it was right next to where we were standing. Anyways, she said she had to go. Anyways, i suggested we go for a coffee sometimes, and she gladly said yes, and gave me her number. Everything is perfect. Now its just texting. Im not good at this part. I just need a date and im golden.
    I just texted her earlier.; ' it was wonderful meeting you' she said me too. Now. I need help to how to get her to a date. I was thinking of texting her tomorrow in the late afternoon with the following;

    "Hey Sabrina, brunch tomorow? I now a great place. " (for sunday) .

    Not trying to do small talk. but i also dont want her to lose interest cause im still a stranger. though i know she was attracted to me and enjoyed talking to me. Though i do realize she probably has guys hitting on her all the time.

    What do i do.
    This post makes me laugh. It's good you are going for 10's as I am too, that is what this year is all about. Getting good with 10's. I met at least about 1 10 everytime I go out to sarge and it usually always goes well, but coffee man are you fvcking srs?

    Dude I would never take a girl to coffee, dinner or lunch yes.

    But the date ideas are so vast movies, tattoo dates (my personal use), drink dates, dinner dates, zoo, volleyball, holiday events, amusement parks, concerts (GREAT dates chicks DIG concert dates!!!! :P), lunch dates (try a new restaurant), post-sex dates or sleepover dates- brunch, coffee, bagels, etc. So yeah take her for coffee after you fark her and take her SOMEPLACE NICE. Chicks hate bland crap. Drink dates are the standard so if you want to take the cheap route then ask for "a drink" at a local cocktail bar not some "fvcking coffee" you will both so bored afterwards you will wish you never met. She won't text you like "I HAD a GREAT TIME!!" Nope! But my dates text me that stuff cuz I take them nice places. Remember drink dates to manage the excess/large scale amounts of chicks but if you like her then do something I mentioned.

    Now as for messing up lol are you srs?? Who Freaking cares!!! I used to care ONE TIME. You know to find my soul mate, me Ms. Right, get married, but then I said screw it! Just get laid those are my relationship goals man. If it means long gaming a girlfriend to get laid so be it.

    Now to answer your question girls always used to tell me you come on too strong, you come one too strong, blah blah blah, back in my 20's. Why? Cuz ALL I EVER did was talk about my FEELINGS. Now all I ever do is talk shop as in Sex, Dating, Relationship stuff, and Friendship building routines.

    Honestly I don't have time to bang every chick so sometimes it is just friendship building. But occasionally with a "SET I DO REALLY WELL WITH" I want to "finish it" or see where it goes as in the bedroom. But it used to be with a "Girl I liked" I could never get her out of my head, caused problems eating or sleeping etc. That's changed with I don't like chicks anymore. I don't even foresee a future unless it involves romantic affairs.

    Well women got what they asked for. Now I never come on too strong and never talk about my feelings and in fact avoid my personal life almost all together/goals/dreams/aspirations/etc. Most guys, most guys can't get a chick so when one hot chick comes along their sappy little hearts eat it right up and try to hang on for dear life.

    The guy my EX is dating (ONLY cuz I dumped HER) was my competition but I was clearly winning cuz she always told me she loved me and had no feelings for him. Well now 6 months later they are still together but when I broke up with her she said the sky was falling, nothing else mattered, her life was sh!t, she will never go on, her heart was broken etc. I told her too bad you just keep playing me so go off and play someone else. She was playing me more than I was her but really I break up with girls in the Winter on a regular so really it was more of so I could go into hibernation and find better chicks next time around. Her personality wasn't that bad it is nice having someone that loves you and treats you as the top guy when a million guys are trying to steal her. That's what happens when you get a hot one. But she wasn't hot enough I mean if she was I would have stuck in there longer.

    So some douche is acting like she is his WCW (World Class Woman) this guy is a TOTAL douchebag I promise you strait up he has friended every hot chick, bartender, Stripper, he can find on FB. He has more hot chicks than I have but it is because he is desperate not because he is cool. He showed up at 2 am to try and sabotage my night by trying to get up on my girl all "making things private" at a HUGE house party and the guy kicked him out cuz he was a joke! So I slept in bed with her that night not him! Yeah that guy! She got with him! Yuck. They deserve each other but the point is some guys will hold on for dear life trying to get it and I just like blow it off like I got 10 more in line at the Bar waiting to talk to me they act like they never seen a hot chick before. Chumps!!

    So long story short. Yes you can mess up with a 10. My Last GF was a 9. I repeat a 9 was IN LOVE WITH ME SAID WE WOULD BE FRIENDS FOREVER BUT I SEVERED THE CHAIN for something BETTER!!!!!

    And I used to have trouble with 6's and getting their numbers lol screw that noise. Now I regularly go out and specifically target 10's! Or girls I like! Girls better than my ex!

    This is why you can screw up with 10's because they LIKE YOU MORE. At least in my experience my greatest connections oddly enough are with the ones I am most drawn towards. Isn't that funny!

    So I screwed up with my 10 from the Bar she hasn't responded! I know how you feel but you haven't failed! Cuz 10's will give you the biggest run for your money! So never second guess yourself! The minute I think they don't like me, don't appreciate me here they come arms wide open! Granted if they tell you to fvck off then be good about fvcking off! But if they flirt then you are golden and keep going! Even NO is sometimes yes! Unless it is a fvck you I hate you kinda of no! A girl can insult me ONCE. But if she insults me twice then she is DONE! Not worth it! Goodbye! I give it time! Time makes the heart grow fonder! But not too much time! Only time will tell! It will take me about 1-2 weeks to find out about this current 10! But I used to always get blown out in 3 days via text! Cuz I never stopped! Now I stop! It is like push and pull. I send one massive text and sit on it for however long I want till it is time for a date, sex, or friendship to happen!
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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Thanks dude ! Great response. I mean in my experience. Every single time ive asked them out on coffee they all text me. "I had a great time with you". And im neveer a boring person. If i have a coffee with them its always fun. And i take them to a nice coffee place. its never a boring place. its a special place with special drinks or whatever.

    But anyways. I use to only date 8s cause i thought thats all i could get. bUT I KNOW. i can get 10s. so thats what ive started with.

    Regardless this chick, i texted her yesterday. With, I Started a plan to create world peace, but i may need your help! After 2 unanswered texts. SHE ANSWERS to this one? With how can i help? So its obviously a joke. And she took it completly serious. Like how is that possible? And i took that as a shit test. So i kept answering with throwing a couple negs while in convo. But it just went down. By the end of the convo, after 30 minutes of texting about this. while i was proving her wrong regardless. I ended up with, Youre basically telling me you're a cute girl ( which is very common) who doesnt know how to have fun. And she was like. "You dont know me! I can have a lot of fun, trying to prove herself or whatever. Regardless. I know i came on too strong. I mean i think i did at least. I was 100 percent she was throwing shit tests oen after another. But she was fucking serious. the whole time.Makes no sense to me. I mean its all about progress. First 10 i spoke to. Ill get the next one.

    But do you have any idea what this text convo could mean?

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Quote Originally Posted by dragon View Post
    Thanks dude ! Great response. I mean in my experience. Every single time ive asked them out on coffee they all text me. "I had a great time with you". And im neveer a boring person. If i have a coffee with them its always fun. And i take them to a nice coffee place. its never a boring place. its a special place with special drinks or whatever.

    But anyways. I use to only date 8s cause i thought thats all i could get. bUT I KNOW. i can get 10s. so thats what ive started with.

    Regardless this chick, i texted her yesterday. With, I Started a plan to create world peace, but i may need your help! After 2 unanswered texts. SHE ANSWERS to this one? With how can i help? So its obviously a joke. And she took it completly serious. Like how is that possible? And i took that as a shit test. So i kept answering with throwing a couple negs while in convo. But it just went down. By the end of the convo, after 30 minutes of texting about this. while i was proving her wrong regardless. I ended up with, Youre basically telling me you're a cute girl ( which is very common) who doesnt know how to have fun. And she was like. "You dont know me! I can have a lot of fun, trying to prove herself or whatever. Regardless. I know i came on too strong. I mean i think i did at least. I was 100 percent she was throwing shit tests oen after another. But she was fucking serious. the whole time.Makes no sense to me. I mean its all about progress. First 10 i spoke to. Ill get the next one.

    But do you have any idea what this text convo could mean?
    What happened? I thought you were going to get this one. Anyway I still have that 10's number from the Bar and only texted her once going on day 3. I am not being needy just simply doing what works for me and what I want. Guess what? I will be blowing her up on Friday for a meet up so why spoil it now by trying to bug her for a response. When that happens they usually get annoyed and say go away. This is why you need to focus on your sub-communication!

    Your sub-communication is coming off a bit needy. As far as the content that was a pretty poor move talking about World Peace since you are not a Politician are you? Well you should never talk Politics or Religion in the first place with some girl you don't know that stuff is very touchy and should be saved for way way later.

    Anyways yeah it sounds like she is Political and really concerned about World Affairs, I mean who isn't? But in the future I wouldn't joke about that stuff. It is better to joke about sex than Politics man.

    Either way I would say it was a lost connection so that's why you need to keep the lines of communication more clearer. Anyway those are just my thoughts. Going to text the 10 from the Bar this Friday for a meetup and potential hookup. She never responded to my first text but I like the idea of remaining invisible since you cannot lose something you don't have right?

    Plus me throwing all that stuff out in my first template makes me think well waiting a week gives her time to block me, reject me, think about me, find someone else, move, move on if that is what she into then who am I to control her? That way if in one week she is still around waiting to hear from me I will feel like I am being an authentic guy to myself and that makes talking to them easier so it will take less pressure of calling her and asking her to hey go on this date with me. Yeah I like giving chicks breathing room to get rid of me since if they are still around after a while I feel like that is a passive ioi rather than hounding them and being insecure in myself I feel I have more leverage when I wait to hit them up. Anyways those are just my thoughts and goals right now. My patterns may change this Summer and I will let everyone know how it goes but you never know may be a fake number but her story matches at least.
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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Yeah good luck with that 10 dude. Sure youll get her.

    As far as me, she hasnt responded since. whatever, theres plenty more out there. I may have been to harsh on teasing her. And you might have been right. Though ive tried this world peace joke on 2 other girls that are 8s id say. And they just went along with it and we made a fun conversation. So its like i dont fucking know. I know this chick doesnt do much in her life. She works part time in a fast food. And she has no plans in the future. and doesnt study or anything else. So she doesnt come off as a super interesting woman. Shes just fucking hot. Thats fucking it though. Which is common right? lol. Ill move on i guess. i think i was just being to harsh on her, calling her boring with her ideas. This and that.

    How would you say my subcommunication is needy? Not sure how to change this. What do you mean?

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Quote Originally Posted by dragon View Post
    Yeah good luck with that 10 dude. Sure youll get her.

    As far as me, she hasnt responded since. whatever, theres plenty more out there. I may have been to harsh on teasing her. And you might have been right. Though ive tried this world peace joke on 2 other girls that are 8s id say. And they just went along with it and we made a fun conversation. So its like i dont fucking know. I know this chick doesnt do much in her life. She works part time in a fast food. And she has no plans in the future. and doesnt study or anything else. So she doesnt come off as a super interesting woman. Shes just fucking hot. Thats fucking it though. Which is common right? lol. Ill move on i guess. i think i was just being to harsh on her, calling her boring with her ideas. This and that.

    How would you say my subcommunication is needy? Not sure how to change this. What do you mean?

    That's rich. I am a hardcase noob and 10's are my hardest subjects/trophies to conquer. Somehow I resonate more with them (I game them like a boss) because I have had 9's coming out of my ears validating me it lead me to going higher up in the Dating Pool.

    So it didn't surprise me that I lost all attraction for my HB9 GF last Summer and dumped her. She told me I could have her anytime I wanted. This gave me a bit of an ego.

    Anyway I game 10's cuz that is what I like and I don't have time to put up with the B.S. on a girl I don't like. On a 10 I just mean a really hot girl I am attracted to.

    Small Talk
    For starters the World Peace thing is small talk. Granted it is good to joke around I got good by focusing on dating, relationships, and sex first. Those are the things I talk about. So because I have so much content with these 3 areas I have no time for small talk.

    Basically I get chicks because I know how to talk to them and I talk a lot. At first I didn't know what to say and always "tried to say" what I "thought" they wanted to hear like oh isn't that fvcking nice. Now I say what I want when I want! Why? Because regret is a bad f'in thing so if to you small talk makes sense then do it but don't attach your identity to it like oh why didn't she text me back. You were doing what you wanted so stop acting like that unless you want to act differently don't do things you will regret.

    Saying "I'm Not Good at Texting"
    In your initial post tells me okay you are humble great! Humility is a great thing. I am good at this because I put in the time to learn the hard lessons. It took me 100 approaches to get 30 phone numbers to get 1 date over 1 year! That was year 1 lol pure hell. I wasn't good either! But then I got a GF! And was like WTF! Changed the game for me so I approach less cuz I know how to text a woman!

    Now? I have had it going on this year so far 4 women. All dun dun dun HB10's or my perfect GF/type.
    And my success rate has gone way way up. They ALL talked to me and showed interest. Granted I lost with those other ones but I am back at it with the new one.

    So get good and PM me if you ever have questions this Summer about chicks.

    To wrap it up I would like to point how of those 30 numbers (HB6's-8's) only 2 or 3 responded to my texting frame back then of "small talk" and "feelings" and "jokes". So their hotness doesn't guarantee their response. Isn't that weird? It is even weirder still that the 10's seem to like me MORE than I am used to. Like maybe this is where I was meant to play around?

    So there you have it this year it is about gaming the 10. But it may take me 10-20 to get the lay I dunno. I do like to produce results and the factors that I can go to the Bar hit on 1 HB10 get her number, leave and text her and have a possible thing going for Friday really says something. It says I am growing the fvck up because I used to have to approach 10 chicks a night to get anywhere and usually only at most (3-4 numbers a night) 1-2 which could be fake or flake. Anymore I don't need to hit on 30 chicks to get 10 numbers to get 1 date. So far got a number from a 10 and already moving towards the date. From 1 set of just going out to the bar! My success rate is so high I approach way way way less and even then only on a girl I really really want cuz then I have something I really want to say or do with her unlike other girls. But it is still a numbers game to me. The difference is this year I won't talk to 100 girls (HB6's-10's) I will talk to the girls I want (HB10's) and as many as it takes even it it takes me 30 HB10's to get a thing going then that's what I will do. Even if I get 1 HB10 guess what I ain't stopping going to the Bar to meet more! I make a big rotation as I can to get the girl cuz if one girl gets rid of me I already have other girls in the picture. So no it is not about "this" HB10 I have right now, it is only temporary. The really important thing is this Summer, how I do, start to Pull, get good at SNL, hookup with some 10's you know the works.
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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Don't listen to the guy who said don't do a coffee date. If it's the first date a coffee date is fine. If you aren't suppose to put her on a pedastool(and your not)then you don't want to go too big on the first date. That shows you are trying to impress her. A coffee date or a drink does not say you are trying to impress her. Save the showey stuff for the second date or later. Also, I don't think this has been mentioned but I don't think going for a walk in the park or a hike is a good first date. You need to be somewhere in public where she can feel safe. If and when you do go hiking and she says something like "you aren't going to kidnap me or something are you?" just say to her "no, actually I'm worried about you. You have the kind of eyes that would let you get away with anything."


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