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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Going out for coffee is always a neutral venue for a get together. Your going out but it's not really a date so there should be no pressure
    Going out for a drink is the next level, still not a date date but a little more then grabbing coffee because alcohol is involved.
    Going out to dinner is the next level, this now is date territory and coffee and alcohol are usually involved, would save dinner for third or fourth get together.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Quote Originally Posted by Mystik View Post
    Don't listen to the guy who said don't do a coffee date. If it's the first date a coffee date is fine. If you aren't suppose to put her on a pedastool(and your not)then you don't want to go too big on the first date. That shows you are trying to impress her. A coffee date or a drink does not say you are trying to impress her. Save the showey stuff for the second date or later. Also, I don't think this has been mentioned but I don't think going for a walk in the park or a hike is a good first date. You need to be somewhere in public where she can feel safe. If and when you do go hiking and she says something like "you aren't going to kidnap me or something are you?" just say to her
    I agree with most parts with what you are typing, only the part of the coffee thing gives me goose bumps.

    If you know from yourself that you aren't a good at holding a long term conversation like me I suggest you don't go for the coffee or a restaurant for the first date. But its a great place to practice your verbal skills.

    If you choose anyway to go for the coffee/restaurant kind of first date here are some tips:


    • Go to a place you are familiar with this gives you a home advantage and a possible gain in Social Status because some of the bar staff are familiar with you. (make sure you tip them well)
    • Take her to a place with sofa's so you can sit beside her, not in front of her because if you sit in front of her across a table its very hard to trow in good Kino.
    • If the heat is extremely hot you can kiss her faster because your closer to her.
    • Lead the way choose where you want to sit. If she wants to sit outside give her a good reason to sit on your spot. This can be done in a cocky/funny way.
    • Combine the coffee date, Take her to multiple places, Example: Coffee then Walk in the park and then grab a ice cream with her. Bounce her around like night game, even as simple as pushing her on a swing can be quite a turn on if done right.


    For a first date i keep the cost in money low, Why because the best first dates are almost free.

    As for putting her on a pedestal,
    what works for me is saying to my self: That if she doesn't like me, am not going to die from it.
    Also i sing these lyrics in my head.

    "I'm gonna tilt my head up to the sky

    I'm gonna look at the good lord in the eye
    and if the good lord wants to strike me down tonight
    and I haven't found my true love if I haven't found her
    if I haven't found my true love then baby....
    if the good Lord wants to strike me down tonight
    and I haven't found my true love
    I'M GONNA DIE A HAPPY MAN !!!" -Danko Jones

    But that works for me.
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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Quote Originally Posted by Gotcha View Post
    • If the heat is extremely hot you can kiss her faster because your closer to her.
    Spill some coffee on her, that is the quickest way to make a chick hot.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    Spill some coffee on her, that is the quickest way to make a chick hot.
    I actually did that once.... by accident... kissed her for doing so..... your right it got very hot very fast after that....
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