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    Default Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Met this girl at the metro station. had a nice conversation with heR. made her laugh. everything is perfect. Shes deffinitely a 10. As we talked for a good 20 minutes, i suggested we go for a coffee since it was right next to where we were standing. Anyways, she said she had to go. Anyways, i suggested we go for a coffee sometimes, and she gladly said yes, and gave me her number. Everything is perfect. Now its just texting. Im not good at this part. I just need a date and im golden.
    I just texted her earlier.; ' it was wonderful meeting you' she said me too. Now. I need help to how to get her to a date. I was thinking of texting her tomorrow in the late afternoon with the following;

    "Hey Sabrina, brunch tomorow? I now a great place. " (for sunday) .

    Not trying to do small talk. but i also dont want her to lose interest cause im still a stranger. though i know she was attracted to me and enjoyed talking to me. Though i do realize she probably has guys hitting on her all the time.

    What do i do.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    She's a 10. I can't mess up.
    Boom you messed up right there. I can see her that you already put her on the pedestal.

    So what, if she's a 10? If you're gonna question yourself from the beginning you'll never have the chance to keep it going with this girl. You need to know and show that you're better than all the other guys hitting on her.

    First step, you're gonna stop overthinking. You can't nitpick a girl's reactions, especially if she's a 10. Most 10s will be more flirty -so to speak- towards guys because they are used to this sh1t. They know they can shut you down any minute.

    Second step, you're gonna get her off the pedestal. What did she do to deserve your valuable attention? By looking attractive? Nah. She has to do some work to get you. So make her work for your attention. Don't give everything away just because she sent a warm text.

    Third step, you're gonna go big. Coffee? Brunch? Forget it. Attack her emotions. Take her to a place where she can forget about the boring tempo of the daily life. Prove that, if she spends more time with you, she's gonna get juiced up every time. Make her excited. Make her crave for more. She'll never say: "Oh my god coffee dates are the best! I just can't get enough of it!" but hell yes she'll say: "Oh wow GoKart is so much fun! I'm gonna beat you next time!", and bang she already asked you out on a second date and you didn't even have to do a thing.

    If you want a 10, you gotta be a 10. So start being one.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Oh yeah for sure. thats what i did though. I didn't treat her as a 10. Im very confident, i just never dealt with a 10. Im just saying shes a 10 for you to know what im dealing with. Im very aware that i am a 10 myself. As we spoke i kept pushing myself away from her, just because i know how usually all the guys are gonna get closer to her as they speak. I was keeping my distance and letting her come to me and she did each time. i just need to get that date. Thats all i need. and thats where my game needs improvement. GETTING THE DATE THROUGH THE PHONE. so thats my issue. After that shes gonna love me. My only issue is the texting purely.

    If not brunch, what would be good then? What do you suggest? Like dinner? were both 20 years old.

    And how would you suggest i text her? If you could give me an example that would be amazing.

    Thanks dude !!!!!!!

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    I'm 21 and I never do sit & talk dates at least for the first two dates or so. I prefer physical activities like bowling, gokart, archery, you name it. Something that you can tease her, challenge her, excite her and especially Kino her.

    Getting dates through texting is easy. Just be on point. Don't ask: "Will you come?", "Is this good for you?", "Are you available?", just be direct and tell her: "We're gonna go there at this hour."

    Show that you want this, you're not playing around, you're not afraid. You don't need to banter too much and keep the texting too long. Just lock her attention, and tell her to join you on an awesome date.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Well yeah i just met her, so i was thinking one normal date. if it works, then have a nice dinner or whatever or activity. its always worked for me with just sit and tall, and im great at teasing. you do make a good point. But thats why i figured brunch would be a good first date to get to know each other. after that do an activity or whateveR.
    My Kino is fine even on sit and talk. After that i usually walk with them, and tease them or whatever.

    but as far as texting you suggest i just straight up say like. FOR EXAMPLE;

    "hey sabrina, brunch tomorrow, 12? "

    with no small talk or whatever. Just straight up saying the date.
    right?

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    That's right. If she wants to keep talking after you've set the date, it's fine. But no need to crawl and let overthinking cloud your head, so just get the date first.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Okay thats what ill do then. Thanks so much dude. So generally you always do that when setting dates through text ? u just text them the date and thats it.

    if she says i cant, what would be a way to set it up for another timewithout me looking desperate and saying something like , when would you be free then, or what about monday......

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    Yeah I'm generally quick and direct about it. I frame it like I've already decided to go out and she's welcome to join.

    If she says she can't, tease her. Try to reschedule but don't seem too desperate. You too, are busy.

    You should give her the benefit of the doubt and take her word for being busy if she flakes. But sometimes girls flake just to test you and if you seem desperate or too available, they'll just cut it off completely.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    OKay cool.

    Hate to get so specific, but could give me an example on how you could tease a girl if she cant meet u for a date? I dont know how i would do so. Also, after that; Do you to text her again later on? Or after how many days d you ask her out again ?Like how would you go about it afterwards? If she couldnt see you the first time ?

    Thanks dude !!! youre the man !

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    Default Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.

    When you turn off the lights and start fucking her, it is irrelevant how beautiful her face is. Remember this. And even so, even if she's the cutest girl in the world, if she fucks like shit, you'll dump her.

    Anyway, do you want to tease her if she can meet you? Pretty easy: "I knew you couldn't spend one more day without meeting me And because of that, I bet I can kick your ass in bowling/karting/whatever".

    Cocky & funny + setting up a challenge.


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