Re: Shes a 10. I cant mess up.
Boom you messed up right there. I can see her that you already put her on the pedestal.
She's a 10. I can't mess up.
So what, if she's a 10? If you're gonna question yourself from the beginning you'll never have the chance to keep it going with this girl. You need to know and show that you're better than all the other guys hitting on her.
First step, you're gonna stop overthinking. You can't nitpick a girl's reactions, especially if she's a 10. Most 10s will be more flirty -so to speak- towards guys because they are used to this sh1t. They know they can shut you down any minute.
Second step, you're gonna get her off the pedestal. What did she do to deserve your valuable attention? By looking attractive? Nah. She has to do some work to get you. So make her work for your attention. Don't give everything away just because she sent a warm text.
Third step, you're gonna go big. Coffee? Brunch? Forget it. Attack her emotions. Take her to a place where she can forget about the boring tempo of the daily life. Prove that, if she spends more time with you, she's gonna get juiced up every time. Make her excited. Make her crave for more. She'll never say: "Oh my god coffee dates are the best! I just can't get enough of it!" but hell yes she'll say: "Oh wow GoKart is so much fun! I'm gonna beat you next time!", and bang she already asked you out on a second date and you didn't even have to do a thing.
If you want a 10, you gotta be a 10. So start being one.
It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.
It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.