Re: Texting To Get The Date
Good F'n job man you are right on the money. Let's see...I just got off my phone call with my target from the Bar....and drum roll please!
Originally Posted by dragon
This is after I sent her my template about wanting to sleep with her, hang out with her, and telling her she has an amazing body. It's been 3 days! I gave her time to block me, think on it, sleep on it, etc. But nope she answered and was shy as fvck (meaning she likes me and the odds are in my favor aka build comfort) she was at work but I snuck in there that I wanted to see her on Friday.
She was ready to jet but I mean she answered while she was working so I feel pretty special! So it's day 3 and still on and of course break ups happen and so does rejection but so far it is running pretty smoothly. She is acting like a giddy woman who likes some guy and I am carefully pursuing her (by not over texting).
I partly called her because I didn't get a response to my text. So she ended our phone call with that she will text me! She wants to pursue me! She was ready to jump off and I said wait! Are you free Friday!? Not Wait I want you to know I have feelings for you! I didn't bring up feelings at all and she said she will text me about it.
So there you go focusing on dating, relationships, and sex is way more effective than feelings. Anyway like I said this is a 10 I am dealing with! Just blows my mind how well the Set went and immediately me talking about sex, dating, and relationship has definitely got her interest. I wil write post about it Dragon but lemme sum it up like this
You are just a nice guy but...
Means you never talk about sex and probably just trying to appease her so even after 1 date she says these statements and feels this way
Maybe talking about sex will be a bit of an asshole but think about it some girls just want to get banged and not wanting to jump into anything. I have to cover ALL my bases so I am not being too much of a prick or too much of a nice guy.
So I usually refer to them as "hey girlfriend" when we start getting together and not even seeking any "approval" or "official title" I just assume they are my girlfriend if we are going out and talking. This is like a casual relationship. By dating them I am covering that avenue and using the girlfriend am covering that one so basically.
If a girl is feeling like a slut...
I Talk about sex
If she wants a "Boyfriend"
I also mentioned the dating thing and immediately refer to her in terms of "girlfriend" if we are dating immediately as kind of a teasing thing at first but it gives me ownership.
Either way all my bases are covered. This is why I am becoming more and more successful cuz I am firguring out how the game works. I will write a post on it but you got to be comfortable with your sexuality and I think buyer's remorse won't happen same with LMR because you are "framing" the "hookup" so she knows in her mind this guy wants to fvck me and she is not doubting your intentions. It may weed some chicks out but then again sex is apart of relationships and that is usually my excuse for being sexual also you are covering your other bases. Basically it is the bomb to act this way. I already like her 10 times more than my last. I will write a post on this subject.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.