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    Default Texting To Get The Date

    I met a gorgeous girl yesterday. Got her into me. Number closed. I can often do this. This is almost a general help question. I can get any girls number. Once i have the date. I got her. The problem is getting the date with her number.

    The girl i met yesterday. i sent her text today with "Hey Anna, how are you". To start with that and cut it shortly ( if she had answered) and continue to and set a date was the plan. How can i save myself from this. I dont want to send another message. But how do i save myself now. She hasnt answered. What to do? I know she was into me as we spoke. I demonstrated high value. Good body language from her side. And she gave me her number.

    Also, if you have any advice on general texting once you get her number. Please share. Examples would be awesome. From texting to getting the date.

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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    How many other guys have sent her "Hey Anna, how are you" ?????????
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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    "Hey anna, how are you"?????
    REALLY?

    I would have said something like:
    "Hey, Anna I was thinking something after see you...

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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    Yeah well i said in french because i was teasing her about how bad her french is. So she would rememeber that by me texting her in french. Anyways. I can see it was a mistake now. But can i fix this ???? What can i do to switch it around.

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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    Est-ce que tu es francais?

    Yes you can of course you can. Two days later send her: I remembered you today, you wouldn't believe it...
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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    Ouai je suis francais mec!
    Okay cool.
    I was thinking of sending this.

    I totally forgot your french was terrible. "Bonjour" means "Hi" . Anyways. I've been thinking, let's rob a bank. Let's be crime partners. What do you say? We rob a bank, take all the cash, and leave europe. And start LIVING. Are you in ?!

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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    Too try hard. It's like listening to Dido and then, all of a sudden, start listening to Metallica.

    Do what xavier told.

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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    Quote Originally Posted by dragon View Post
    I met a gorgeous girl yesterday. Got her into me. Number closed. I can often do this. This is almost a general help question. I can get any girls number. Once i have the date. I got her. The problem is getting the date with her number.

    The girl i met yesterday. i sent her text today with "Hey Anna, how are you". To start with that and cut it shortly ( if she had answered) and continue to and set a date was the plan. How can i save myself from this. I dont want to send another message. But how do i save myself now. She hasnt answered. What to do? I know she was into me as we spoke. I demonstrated high value. Good body language from her side. And she gave me her number.

    Also, if you have any advice on general texting once you get her number. Please share. Examples would be awesome. From texting to getting the date.
    Is this still going on lol?? You guys are a hoot. Why are we worried about this chick is she a life saver jk?

    Texting to get the date:
    Hmmm

    That's something I am very familiar with. It's one of the best ways to gauge interest and get a response.

    My Last GF it took one text, that was it to open her up for 3 months!!

    So yes dating is important.

    But this girl doesn't matter forget her. There is going to be HUNDREDS of gorgeous girls this Summer at least for me hehe. My dating pool is rather large and these hot women are so lonely.

    Stop looking at it like it is the final countdown to the end or something.

    I got a 10's number from the Bar and I sent her one text and a couple pics. That was it. Nothing 24 hours later...

    And what do I do?

    Nothing. Why?

    Lemme tell you something, do what you want!! Stop trying to fit the "dating model". How did I get my LAST GF?? Put her on hold for a month!!! That drove her wild and I sent around 3 unanswered texts. She answered intermittently but me knowing what I wanted kept her right where I left her...on hold. Cuz it was right for me!

    Then one month later when said event arrived there she was ready for action. I like putting chicks on hold but it is not an end-all solution at least now it is. I got the 10 from the Bar on hold for exactly one week (not a month) because it is right for me, just like a month was right for me last time. All that matters is I am staying congruent and being authentic.

    No I am not blowing her up trying to figure out if she likes me, remembers me, will go with me, see I just don't give a Fudge sickle.

    Anyways I plan on a few texts with proper timing and then maybe call her to see if the number is legit but chicks I go crazy on for responses to see if they like me, remember me, know me backfires horribly!!

    Now I just through out a one huge ass text template saying everything I want in a nutshell and then just leave it. I don't text after text. This template is pretty graphic like "you got an amazing bod, would love the lay, let's go here and here around this date (1-4 weeks depending on circumstances) etc. nothing fancy!

    Let's face it girls are good for 3 things
    Sex
    Girlfriends (Dating & Relationships)
    Friends (fun, more connections to girlfriend opportunities, social circle)

    You can't get money out of them at least I haven't figured that one out yet. They always expect men to do the handiwork aka pay for stuff. I would love a sugar momma but hot women are in such high demand it is hard enough to bribe them to go out and pay for stuff let alone get them to do it.

    But that's besides the point.

    So I know what women are good for. I don't fumble around asking them what kind of food, shows, movies, interests, etc they like because they are good again for sex, dates, and connections. Leave the chatter chatter for past times.

    For texting I talk sexual things, about dates, and what I like about them.

    Usually my templates include all the 3 but when I talk to them I onky use the phone or text to get sex, a date, or a friend to comfort me. That's it!!

    I once made the mistake of not asking for dates and instead became an entertainer never again! I once made the mistake of calling a girl with no goal of sex, date, or friendship and boy was that the most awkward phone call. After 10 minutes of rambling about NOTHING but FEELINGS she asked "umm who is this." After I just bore my soul!! Yeah that was the end of that.

    Now I rarely EVER EVER EVER talk FEELINGS I talk sex, dates, and friendships for events, connections, etc. This is very potent. So potent when I get a REAL number my success rate just keeps soaring. Women love a guy that knows what he wants!!
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    But when you say you talk sex, what do you mean, even in the beginning stages of texting?
    Would you have any examples you could give me?

    After how many texts or how long do you wait to get the date. And do you straight up ask like, "Thursday 3 pm" or something like that?


    Thanks so much dude. Youre the man!

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    Default Re: Texting To Get The Date

    Quote Originally Posted by dragon View Post
    But when you say you talk sex, what do you mean, even in the beginning stages of texting?
    Would you have any examples you could give me?

    After how many texts or how long do you wait to get the date. And do you straight up ask like, "Thursday 3 pm" or something like that?


    Thanks so much dude. Youre the man!

    Awesome! I like the way you think and you are taking it a step further so good job. I am a creature of comfort so I am not saying to do anything you are not comfortable with.

    It took me 3 years to bring in the sexual elements. Now I usually close with telling them I want to hookup sometime and this even gets them to call me first sometimes! But now I almost always throw in there "I would love to sleep with you, bang you, get in your pants, etc." I don't focus solely on that but yeah I throw it in there.

    The beginning phase is arguably the most important since you are building comfort. And while you are building comfort being open sexually is like a win-win but again took me 3 years in the Game but I used never be sexual and I make it very subtle so I am not talking about being a total dirty bastard or something. Just oh hey I would bang the sh!t out of you or something not be like over-doing it. Just subtle.

    How many texts or how long to wait for the date?
    I act according to my own thoughts and paths.

    At first it was just talky talky no responses.
    Then I upped it to ask for dates and the responses came flooding in!
    Then I started to talk sexual and got even more responses!!

    So for me it was really a progression. Now I am so successful I approach less women (quantity) as in a bunch of warm-ups and really just go for 9's and 10's since I can't have them all.

    Sample
    "Hey HB10 this is Jack PUA from the Bar. I loved meeting you and your body is smoking hot. Would love to get together and hang out sometime. Would love to bang you. I am getting a tattoo (you should come), going to see a movie this weekend and you're invited, and I think I will use one of my free amusement park passes on you. Anyways gotta go here's a couple pics."

    That is something similar to the templates I send out now. Why? It includes the sex and dating elements I talked about. I got my last GF this way. Another girl it made her call me a Star Prince for one of these templates and said her umbrella was on fire. Also I will say sexual elements keep any conversation interesting so it kinda makes me into an interesting guy talking about sex a lot. Anyways they know what to expect and it is much better than saying for example

    "Hey HB10, I have been waiting for the stars to align to find someone like you. I couldn't believe how amazing you looked. I really hope you are not mad at me for saying those things to you before? Anyways I really hope we get to hangout, you should really hmu when you are not busy. Are you available? Because I would love to get to know you and really think I have feelings for you. It was great meeting you at the Bar and finally getting your number cuz you really are a great bartender "

    Notice the difference??

    That last one is just an example of how I used to be. Always talking about feelings but never really TRYING to take things anywhere and girls blew me out CONSTANTLY. Now that I am all about business in getting stuff done of let's go here, and let's do this, and oh I would love to hookup along the way makes me removed from my feelings and able to regulate not contracting Oneitis OR becoming needy. So when do I ask for the date? I ask when it is convenient for me. Whether 2 days, 1 week, or 1 month I will do it and invite it when I am ready.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
    -Capn_Jack


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