Re: Texting To Get The Date
Is this still going on lol?? You guys are a hoot. Why are we worried about this chick is she a life saver jk?
Originally Posted by dragon
Texting to get the date:
That's something I am very familiar with. It's one of the best ways to gauge interest and get a response.
My Last GF it took one text, that was it to open her up for 3 months!!
So yes dating is important.
But this girl doesn't matter forget her. There is going to be HUNDREDS of gorgeous girls this Summer at least for me hehe. My dating pool is rather large and these hot women are so lonely.
Stop looking at it like it is the final countdown to the end or something.
I got a 10's number from the Bar and I sent her one text and a couple pics. That was it. Nothing 24 hours later...
And what do I do?
Lemme tell you something, do what you want!! Stop trying to fit the "dating model". How did I get my LAST GF?? Put her on hold for a month!!! That drove her wild and I sent around 3 unanswered texts. She answered intermittently but me knowing what I wanted kept her right where I left her...on hold. Cuz it was right for me!
Then one month later when said event arrived there she was ready for action. I like putting chicks on hold but it is not an end-all solution at least now it is. I got the 10 from the Bar on hold for exactly one week (not a month) because it is right for me, just like a month was right for me last time. All that matters is I am staying congruent and being authentic.
No I am not blowing her up trying to figure out if she likes me, remembers me, will go with me, see I just don't give a Fudge sickle.
Anyways I plan on a few texts with proper timing and then maybe call her to see if the number is legit but chicks I go crazy on for responses to see if they like me, remember me, know me backfires horribly!!
Now I just through out a one huge ass text template saying everything I want in a nutshell and then just leave it. I don't text after text. This template is pretty graphic like "you got an amazing bod, would love the lay, let's go here and here around this date (1-4 weeks depending on circumstances) etc. nothing fancy!
Let's face it girls are good for 3 things
Girlfriends (Dating & Relationships)
Friends (fun, more connections to girlfriend opportunities, social circle)
You can't get money out of them at least I haven't figured that one out yet. They always expect men to do the handiwork aka pay for stuff. I would love a sugar momma but hot women are in such high demand it is hard enough to bribe them to go out and pay for stuff let alone get them to do it.
But that's besides the point.
So I know what women are good for. I don't fumble around asking them what kind of food, shows, movies, interests, etc they like because they are good again for sex, dates, and connections. Leave the chatter chatter for past times.
For texting I talk sexual things, about dates, and what I like about them.
Usually my templates include all the 3 but when I talk to them I onky use the phone or text to get sex, a date, or a friend to comfort me. That's it!!
I once made the mistake of not asking for dates and instead became an entertainer never again! I once made the mistake of calling a girl with no goal of sex, date, or friendship and boy was that the most awkward phone call. After 10 minutes of rambling about NOTHING but FEELINGS she asked "umm who is this." After I just bore my soul!! Yeah that was the end of that.
Now I rarely EVER EVER EVER talk FEELINGS I talk sex, dates, and friendships for events, connections, etc. This is very potent. So potent when I get a REAL number my success rate just keeps soaring. Women love a guy that knows what he wants!!
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.