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  1. #1
    hotsurf81 Guest

    Default Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    Whats up guys, I'm new to the community and was looking for a little advice.

    So I get set up with a really cute girl, we go out 5-6 times, seem to be connecting well, good attraction and physical connection. Hooked up a little but not sleeping with her. She seemed in to me. Took her out after work a couple weeks back and The Vibe was totally off. We were both tired, she wasn't saying much, and I start rambling about anything to keep the conversation going, nothing interesting though. So at this point I start feeling nervous, couple of negs, she is not liking it. I try and put my arm around her, or touch her hands (getting needy now) and she gets uncomfortable. In previous dates, she was all about the physical contact. After two beers, I'm ready to fall asleep, so we get the check and bounce. Hold hands for a bit, and kiss for a little before I drop her off.

    Knew I blew, right after I dropped her off. Was starting to like the girl so I'm bummed that I blew it. We exchanged a few texts and spoke briefly a few times since. Asked her out last weekend acknowledging the fact that the vibe was off, and she texted back hours later saying she had plans. After researching the forums I realized all the mistakes I was making. My question is, do I still pursue if I like the girl? Her b-day is this weekend and was considering sending her flowers? Totally bad idea?

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    Justice Guest

    Default Re: Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    Quote Originally Posted by hotsurf81 View Post
    Whats up guys, I'm new to the community and was looking for a little advice.

    So I get set up with a really cute girl, we go out 5-6 times, seem to be connecting well, good attraction and physical connection. Hooked up a little but not sleeping with her. She seemed in to me. Took her out after work a couple weeks back and The Vibe was totally off. We were both tired, she wasn't saying much, and I start rambling about anything to keep the conversation going, nothing interesting though. So at this point I start feeling nervous, couple of negs, she is not liking it. I try and put my arm around her, or touch her hands (getting needy now) and she gets uncomfortable. In previous dates, she was all about the physical contact. After two beers, I'm ready to fall asleep, so we get the check and bounce. Hold hands for a bit, and kiss for a little before I drop her off.

    Knew I blew, right after I dropped her off. Was starting to like the girl so I'm bummed that I blew it. We exchanged a few texts and spoke briefly a few times since. Asked her out last weekend acknowledging the fact that the vibe was off, and she texted back hours later saying she had plans. After researching the forums I realized all the mistakes I was making. My question is, do I still pursue if I like the girl? Her b-day is this weekend and was considering sending her flowers? Totally bad idea?
    While you send her flowers, don't forget the chocolate and a car...

    Seriously, get your own plans, if you're not invited then fark it. One thing i've learned from Instinct is that you can't chase girls, you want them chasing you. But you're thinking: "No man, stfu, this girl is special to me. She's smart and is capable." Well wake up mate, millions of girls out there and thousands are passing by you everytime, all of them "Special" in their own way.
    Read more. Tease more and also use the Cat String Theory.
    Last edited by Justice; 02-26-2010 at 11:55 AM.

  3. #3
    hotsurf81 Guest

    Default Re: Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    fark yeah dude, thats exactly what I wanted to hear. AT the very least I learned from my mistakes and it opened me up to the PUA world. Only good can come from here.

  4. #4
    Justice Guest

    Default Re: Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    + rep for being a man OR i hope so.

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    Default Re: Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    call her on her bday and set up a date some other day of the week.

    PLEASE, DO SOMETHING FUN!!

    sitting down for beer gets old after a while. Find a good activity, go to a park, play some billards or bowling maybe or take her to a new solitary place.

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    Default Re: Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    yeah the story of a getting the interested at first but then killing The Vibe later lol stroy of my life bro lol

  7. #7
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    Default Re: Blew it with a HB I dated for a few weeks.

    just blew it also. she chased me, i fell for her, i chased her, i pushed her away. i told her yesterday im pulling out she says hold on... (she always says that when im about to flake her).. don't understand why she wont let me go if she doesnt show she's into me fark it, if she doesnt chase me im done. thousands of others out there

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    (tears run down my cheek)....your my boy dach...finally started to be a pua and have alpha male instincts...haha im very proud...hahah
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