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Thread: Receptive Girl is Aloof

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    Default Receptive Girl is Aloof

    Hey guys I could use your opinion. While I'm rebuilding my life I made an online profile. Got really good with an HB9 (maybe a 10) and she responds well.

    Problem: although she responds well she is very aloof. We can have a good convo going and in the middle she will stop responding.

    Then I message her AGAIN hours later and the cycle continues. I've gone a few days without messaging her already, but because there's no investment I don't hear from her. So I'm worried about losing momentum if I just don't hit her up and play the waiting game. But I also don't want to get locked in this pattern of sending two messages hours after she doesn't respond to my last text.

    My goal is to flip the script. I can do cat string and push/pull, but just wondering if there's anything else I'm missing. I'm a little rusty so I don't remember all the methods for this kind of thing.
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    Default Re: Receptive Girl is Aloof

    From what you wrote and from what I've read about the Cat String Theory I don't think it'll really work since she keeps going MIA in the middle of thw texting conversation. If you build more attraction and get her to be more invest in you then it'll work... You can always call her out on it by making a joke out of it.
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    Default Re: Receptive Girl is Aloof

    My attitude towards it depends on my mood. Sometimes I will ignore them, be aloof as well, or try to play games with them.

    For instance I bore my soul on my online profile (still got lots of messages) but I changed it yesterday to something really short and dumb and some girl's interest is sky high and she hasn't stopped messaging me for the last hour. When I get a message some times I go for rapid fire and sometimes I wait things out. Both work but I dunno it is time to begin the Summer mating season so let the games begin.

    I know more AFTER Summer but keeping my online profile, night sarging, and daygame going. I never used to get messages online now they hit me up so total paradigm shift.
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    Default Re: Receptive Girl is Aloof

    If she's making this suddenly-not-messaging-thing repeatedly, that sounds a bit weird to me. I don't wanna instantly blame her and accuse of her being a bit disrespectful so, I'm gonna go with something else.

    She might be looking for the step forward a little quicker than what we've accustomed to with most girls. That might be why she suddenly cuts the conversation because maybe she's already got her hands full with other 20 men and she's in rapid-selection mode.

    So yeah, cat-string and push/pull are beautiful and safe, but I'm not sure if she'll give a long enough window to you to execute them properly.

    I don't know this girl's meaning to you and if you're willing to risk it but I'd advise you to go full-throttle, direct. Now that is sure gonna flip the script because it's probably be different than what the other 20 guys are doing.
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