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Thread: Cocky girls

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    Default Cocky girls

    Usually it's us the guys that are cocky, but the girl i'm dating right now, she fights back and is pretty cocky. How would I respond back to these text messages from her?

    Me:sunshine + humidity = uncomfortable
    Her: don't melt to death
    her:I kind of want you in-tact
    Me:Aww, the fact that you want me to be kind of in-tact is making me get diabetes
    her:hahahahaha
    her:I’m too sweet, iknowiknow


    When I throw out a compliments here and there she usually throws back cocky responses like this, best way to respond?

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    Default Re: Cocky girls

    Having a girl you can verbally parry with is a huge turn on ...... have fun with it
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    Default Re: Cocky girls

    Being able to throw conversations back at each other like this is going to make things very exciting for the both of you. Just keep doing what you're doing!!!!

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    Default Re: Cocky girls

    Am jealous man! What a opportunity to test your game, I think your doing great so far but ill let the all starts judge for that...
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    Default Re: Cocky girls

    Keep this girl man. I have one of these girls and she keeps my wit razor sharp. Definitely not a problem with her being cocky and answering back like that. Just keep up your attitude, she is following your lead.

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    Default Re: Cocky girls

    A good percentage of women like or seemingly like to play stupid. It's a way to excuse their behavior if they end up in the sack with you, or it could be a protection mechanism allowing them to pretend they do not realize a man is hitting on her. Or there could be many other reasons. Because of this fact, men get used to women pretending to be this way. When men do engage with a woman who is intelligent and has no issue or problem expressing her intelligence, she often times scares men off, so although a woman might express her intelligence and engage in intellectual discourse, she may eventually play dumb to get what it is she wants. The most simple and easiest way for a woman to get a guy to hit on her is to play stupid.

    If a woman is truly interested in you, if you have already gone the distance and now realize this phase, all you have to do is give her an excuse to excuse her naughty behavior. Being able to engage in this level of intellectual tit for tat discourse, should also allow you to express a really good excuse for her to allow herself to be really naughty.

    I wouldn't call this cocky at all though, she is accepting your compliments which means true confidence, not cockiness. She is engaging you as an equal at the very least. She is however taking a more dominant persona in stating she wants you a specific way, and doing a great job flying under the radar. The reason you may perceive her as being cocky, is that she is taking the more dominant role in your exchange, or at least what little you have posted here. What she is really doing is checking you, to see if you will take control or not.

    Allow me to give my own opinion and break down what little of your conversation you have posted:


    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    Me:sunshine + humidity = uncomfortable
    I hope you know this girl well enough to have realized this was humor to her, many times because the person we are texting cannot hear the inflection in our voice, they will mistake sarcastic humor for being negative, and dis-engage in having conversations with you via text. If you are not emoting to ensure that the person you are texting understands it's humor, I would make sure in the future you do so. Doing so not only expresses what you truly wish to convey, but also allows you the opportunity to express your emotions visually. When expressing emotions the eye will always buy more than the ear, for example, hearing someone cry does not have nearly the emotional affect or illicit nearly the emotional response as actually seeing someone cry. In seeing what you emote, you are expressing emotions without taking on the stigma of being needy.

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    Her: don't melt to death
    When a woman tells you to be careful, specially if she knows you will not literally melt to death, she is either taking the position of a possessive significant relation, the role of mother or a dominant role. She is directing you, she could have stated "I hope you don't melt away" which would be a more submissive expression, or she could have said "Please don't melt to death" which would be taking an opportunity to express the emotion of concern, without actually being concerned because she knows you will not literally melt. But she didn't use a phrase that would be considered submissive at all, nor is her phrase really motherly although it could be. Rather it is a directive, even though she knows for a fact you will not melt to death, she took this opportunity to express a directive, thus taking a more dominant role. Again, this is the reason why you feel she is being cocky.

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    her:I kind of want you in-tact
    This is a very forward statement, in stating "I kind of want you" she took the opportunity to let you know she wants you, the "in-tact" portion was really a way for her to convey this fact. She is currently on the fence but is not sure, you have yet to take the dominant role in your conversation, nor express any dominance in just the little snippet you provided. To push her over the edge, you need to tactfully express that you are not only in control, but the dominant party in your exchange.

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    Me:Aww, the fact that you want me to be kind of in-tact is making me get diabetes
    Think about this, you responded by stating "that you want me to be kind of in-tact" but she stated "I kind of want you, in tact" your statement suggests not wholly intact but sort of, her statement expresses she wants you fully in tact, kind of. Her expression was an opportunity to express she kind of wants you, not that she was concerned about you being in tact. If she responds by saying emoting laughing, that means she knows you totally missed what she was leading you into, and feels awkward enough that she didn't bother to correct you.

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    her:hahahahaha
    Awkward filler, she does not feel comfortable enough to point out to you that you totally missed her hints, but doesn't want you to think she isn't responding. She is giving you all the signs, you only need to take advantage of them. Be smart, figure out how to express those male parts of you that are more dominant, and do so, now. She is challenging you to do so by seemingly responding cocky. It has nothing to do with being cocky, not at all. She also wants you to pick up on the fact she is telling you that she is interested in you, that she "kinda wants you". Take advantage of this fact, she expressed it so now it's okay for you to know it, and take the next step forward. This seems to kinda be one of those things you cannot screw up no matter how hard you miss the signs and hints.

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    her:I’m too sweet, iknowiknow
    At this point, she seems to realize that you might have taken what she said as her being cocky, and needs to express that no, she is in fact sweet. But she only said this because you missed the two cues she gave you, one challenging you to take a more dominant role in the conversation, and two, that she kinda wants you.

    Quote Originally Posted by perfectdark1 View Post
    When I throw out a compliments here and there she usually throws back cocky responses like this, best way to respond?
    She seems to me to be challenging you to be more dominant, or to take on a more dominant role. She wants you to be a little more cocky. This is the time you should be using her mirroring neurotic pathways to establish a deeper connection. Mimic her responses with clever, witty and/or more dominant/cocky responses yourself. See where it goes, if it turns out to not go the way you want, then just express you were teasing her by acting out in the way she does. She cannot fault herself, thus cannot fault you for being like she is. This will resolve the issue if it was a mistake, but I don't believe it will be. I think you will find, by taking a more dominant role, that she will settle into a nice candor, and feel more free to express herself so long as you give her reason to by engaging her in ways that give her the opportunity to do so.

    And good luck, you are in a very interesting position where you can take advantage of several cues, and are being encouraged to do so. You are being chased, make no mistake about it, but now you need to do something about it or else this time will pass, she will become frustrated and you will at most open the door to the "friend zone" instead of a room with a bed.

    C....

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    Default Re: Cocky girls

    Agreed.

    Keep up with the cocky & funny attitude, but be more direct towards what you want, which is to fuck her. So go right for the meet.


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