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    Default The Game begins with HB10's- Phone & Text follow up after Bar Pick Up

    Just off the phone with 2 HB10's so on with the long rant...pfft! I don't know what to say but a few minor details on my progress report.

    **I am almost 32 and giving up the Game when I hit 40 (no longer Bar & Club age and do other things)
    **Started when I was 28 and fed up with my skills with women. Started out extremely needy towards 6's and 7's and couldn't figure women out. Fast forward I got an HB9 GF last Summer and dumped her realizing she couldn't turn me on and was too easy. Then started going for 10's
    **It was a slow start for me
    **Got good with 9's last year
    **This year is about the 10
    **Joined the Gym and got tatted for the Game (due to women's impressions of me)
    **Been on 7 dates since 2012 and before the Game I was like dateless for a decade
    **I can always go back to 9's and have my way with them
    **Goals are get laid, go on dates, get girlfriends, etc

    Today
    Okay I was a rockstar last year jamming out with an HB9 for 3 months and what a great relationship but anyway I dumped her last Winter cuz that is kinda my seasonal gameplan.
    Back at it. Got all warmed up on St. Paddy's getting hit on like crazy, then met up with another 10 who said we were soul mates then just couldn't breath after an HB6 approached me and tried to get in my pants. Yeah I never called her! But not because I am an A-hole but because I go for 9's and 10's. Now I am going for 10's only to figure them out and once I do I will go back to including 9's in the mix since I got them all figured out.

    Inner Game
    So I started out "putting woman on a pedestal" and NEVER picturing myself with a 9 let alone even talking to a 10!!! But I pushed myself to do it. And I got better, and better, and better. Till I started getting hit on by 10's! It is rather unusual and very strange that as soon as I decided I want 10's and time to get 10's I am getting hit on by 10's and getting so much validation from them online and in-field! Then when I was getting good with 9's the same thing happened. I guess we could stylize this as "confidence" since at the time I was getting good 9's and 10's were feeling it and 6's and 7's were feeling inadequate.

    Real Mccoy-Dealing with the HB10's
    Let's just say "I have started to learn to deal with 10's" in fact they are starting to like gravitate towards me. Maybe because I ignore the small ones the 10's can sense this? Well anyway hit on by 2 10's two weekends in a row! I am on a roll. I mean not only did last year I have to do "all" the work I got hit on "maybe" 3 times last year. If that. This year? Probably at least 15. And two were 10's that resulted in 2 successful N-closes. So wth but whatever. As my congruence lines up so do the chicks I hone in on. Now I pass up the 6 or 7 and not even waste my time I go strait for the higher ups and even without a warm up set! I am turning into such a stone cold stud but whatever. My sticking points though dang!

    The Pull-Realm of Impossibility
    Okay so as we now I can pull numbers easy which is why I bumped up to higher chicks on the scale. Then I started gaming 9's and getting dates with them so I was like dang how far can I take this. So I scored a number on almost every attempt. I was 90% last year on my actual heartfelt attempts (not 6's-8's I was playing).

    So at the same time of trying to get good with 10's I decided to start trying to pull and SNL. But like whoa I haven't been able to pull for two strait weekends. I have been reverting to N-closes but only because my targets have got anxious and say they are jetting so I am like shoot might as well N-close. I dunno but will keep trying and keep updated.

    Sexual Innuendo

    My texting game is tight I figured no holds barred on 10's and at the same time I became more sexual. So as you can imagine I have been sexual with both of these 10's. Not only that I figured to stop the waiting game and to get better call/text them much much sooner. So I did that.

    Now for the Rant
    So all kidding aside I have reached a sexual side of myself I have never seen, up front about the date, and getting it together on my texting. So I have this sex talk, dating, and relationship kind of vibe going on in my texting, overall pick up and so forth. My sexual side resulted in some powerful results last year but whatevs. Now I been going out lately and scored 2 numbers with two chicks. The weather is really rainy nationwide and since I go to an outdoor bar I don't think the Bar is happening this weekend (I said some time ago no more Club at least for now) and I have this firm belief against the hot chick ratio and bad weather. Usually always turns out spot on.

    So I am stuck at home for a while I figure things out but here is the weird part I knew this would be difficult but dang I used to more validation than this. Both these 10's were showing strong IOI's and such but today I called them yes both.

    One already blew me out but here is how it went.

    So I was texting them up and not getting anywhere as in no responses to my texts after 7 or so I had to call them to find out what gives. Then much to my surprise they were answering my calls every single time like what the heck is going on here.

    So I made it an intention to be more sexual and the girl said I am not looking for this then today she tells me she will reach out to me. Why are girls so unclear why are things so unclear. So I put it all on the line and thought why do I feel this nervousness exploding when calling these 10's so I decided to explore and most times I am very used to my calls getting ignored but I guess because of the texts they are knowing who I am. So I call them and they are listening and talking. I am just trying to figure out why and what is going on here. I mean she blew me out said that was the end why on earth are we thinking of being friends and why can I feel her heart jump when talking to me? So I called the first one and it has been about a week since we met.

    Impression from HB10 Phone Calls (Girls who hit on me like crazy, Anime Eyes, loves attention, said I will "have to hookup with her")

    What the hell was that?! She doesn't know what her plans are???? She was getting hit on like a million times and acts like she has never been asked out on a date? She seemed so confused like she was like I am so busy I don't know what the heck I am doing. I was like well we should go to this place and she just sits there like absorbing the fvcking thing but not giving me any signal like yes, no, maybe, nothing just talking. Like what the crap is this am I speaking good? Why do these girls sound so awkward. Not only did the first one hang up on me she wouldn't stop saying thank you like what the crap is this a 10 or not. Why is she not behaving normally to how a 6-9 responds? A 6-9 will give me a strait up answer like yes to the date or no to the date. These 10's are like let me think about this and get back to you. I need to observe you more is what is going in my head.

    After the sh!tty set and awkward phone call why are we thinking? And why are we so afraid to talk on the phone. This is chemistry and how it works. I talk on the phone all day to people and everything flows like butter. But these relationship things got me conflicted.

    Either way I have no answer to either 10 to the dating. This is a bit of a curveball since last year I didn't encounter these problems I mean at least 6-9's know what the hell I am talking about when I say "Let's go on a date". They respond right away.

    But these 10's are like date what is that I need to think, I don't know what is going in my life right now, I am trying to figure things out. I'll reach out to you. I'll get ahold of you when I figure out my plans.

    Your plans????? You don't know what they are? Why have we lost this?

    Our plan was hooking up remember!!!
    Our plans was hanging out remember!!!

    Now everything is fvcked up. I think I am starting to understand the way they talk about 10's and why they are so different a different creature altogether.
    When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
    Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.
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    Default Re: The Game begins with HB10's- Phone & Text follow up after Bar Pick Up

    Okay why is this thing like waves. So my texts are being somewhat ignored but then once I am getting fed up and calling them they are answering like Hi nothing ever happened. Like why are these girls so confused, if I am being weird why are they being weird. I mean I have fun and they are having fun they are always following.

    But these 10's are throwing me for a loop. One of them told me she is not into the dating scene and so I say let's be friends (I know friends can hookup hehe) and she says well I will reach out to you. Like here we go with that again. Last time that didn't go so well so if you are so dang busy and you blew me out why on earth are you answering my calls and giving me mixed signals and acting like a scardy cat on the phone. What gives I thought we were through but because I want to know my feelings when I put it on you suddenly you wanna think about it.

    Last year it was all about the blocking, all about the giving me the exit in 3 days how is this carrying on for so long and getting me no where. Like I am just trying to figure out my own and treating these girls like guinea pigs cuz apparently my phone game is soft and I have been texting like a crutch. So I always like to challenge myself and this is one hell of a challenge.

    All I am trying to do is be comfortable in my skin and talking to 10's and it feels like it is taking forever but I called two 10's tonight and they were both pushing me off the phone but normally I get ignored so why are they telling me they will reach out, they will reach out. Like what is going on.

    Oh and the best part they are caught up in some kind of cloud because it is like they cannot think like holy crap this guy is calling me I don't know my plans, I don't know what dating is, I don't know what I am doing with my life. wth.

    I mean I am not used to this until encountering the 10's. Now it is like I am a bunny dealing with Rhinos. I mean these chicks are so hot and they are answering talking like listening. Like why are we figuring things out. What is going on. Last year things were not this unclear. I was getting answers, results, or something.

    So granted I would write it off for all the ignored texts expect for when I call, then all this indecision like they don't know me well enough yet, have decided on me yet, still waiting on me. Like no responses but okay we are so unclear on our perceptions. Then the one sounded like I was bothering her like I never talked to a guy before I mean she is 33 wtf. I really feel like this is what chemistry does to people it creates a lot of nervousness, Tension, and anticipation. They were acting like me but normally girls are either into me or they are not but these girls are acting like they don't know what the hell is going on. Maybe find new girls granted I am stuck home for a while but true if it wasn't for all the answered phone calls I would say for sure not interested but they are answering then telling me all these unclear paths. That really re-opens the can of worms cuz then it is like we are back to square one.

    I mean this is 10's I am talking about normally never this confused like why are they acting like this I imagine it cuz they like me but they are being weird, I am being weird so this vicious cycle. So texting is normally my strategy but now I think calling is more effective so it is like waves and the things that worked before are not working and new things are working.

    All in all the most confusing element is I have these set rules to dealing with 6's-8's and 9's but to make matters worse with 10's I have no rules (due to them being hit on so frequently). I say hit them up sooner, hookup with them faster, be more sexual than ever, blow up their phones, like fail as much as I want. Fail more times if possible. Maybe she didn't hear me say it louder. And my thinking of course is right since they seem completely unphased by this behavior when this type of hyper-activity would freak the fvck out of a 9. In other words I can be needy as fvck and they almost kinda like that stuff. I have to change my whole strategy. My HB9 GF we talked about sex 2-3 times in 3 months and I have mentioned sex more times than I can count with these 10's to make it abundantly abundantly clear I want to sleep with them and what do they do? They pull a ME. They want the long game. They want to take it slow. They want to think about stuff. Like what the heck are we thinking about when we only talked for 5 minutes and I asked you on a date why is this so hard for them to figure it all out? So they are pulling all these reversals and at the Bar it seemed like they were ready for action. So weird. Things are getting so weird.
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    Default Re: The Game begins with HB10's- Phone & Text follow up after Bar Pick Up

    Yeh, I didn't read all of that... Here's the deal Jack, not sure how old you are but just a word to the wise...

    10's are used to being shit on ALL THE TIME by A10 men (My code for "Arsehole R=10"). So... Just act natural. You are vibing out on them.

    Centre yourself. Breathe and re-evaluate.
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Default Re: The Game begins with HB10's- Phone & Text follow up after Bar Pick Up

    I wish we could post pictures of the girls...


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