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    slender is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Exclamation OkCupid Conversation: Opener do you have a job?

    Me:
    Hey, so do you have a job? I need a woman who can support me while I play video games all day


    Her:
    Haha, yes, I do have a job, a good one, but you've gotta support yourself and prove to me that you're worth supporting. And that's the line you're gonna use to pick up on women? Lol. You're hilarious....I'm not sure I could be with someone who just plays games all day, now if you were creating games to sell and make money from, that would be a different story, lol.

    Me: I haven't answered her yet. Sort of like this:
    Of course that's why I'm gonna change my career for computer programmer
    It's my very first time that I've ever used it.

    I don't really know what to respond :/

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    CesareBorgia is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: OkCupid Conversation: Opener do you have a job?

    She took a dominant role, often when a guy expresses he doesn't have a job, a strong woman will step up to the plate and offer a response like she did. She took the domiannt role, and is now issuing qualifiers, things you need to do to be of value to her. They are all social in nature, money, car, house, etc. You need to get past those, circumvent them, get to her genetic triggers if you want to get a better response.

    Maybe ask her if she likes games that involve playing with her. She can take that either sexually or not. If she takes offense, tell her no, like monopoly, or games where you generate cash flow, etc.

    Computer programers are often viewed by women to generate a lot of money, but also to be nerdy, submissive and requiring direction. You don't want to fall into Mommy/son roles, so be careful with that.

    Also, she values intelligence. You can tell this by the way she structures her sentences and completes her words without using text speech or slang. You might do better if you use proper words, sentences, grammar, etc. If you are not up for that, then she will loose interest very soon indeed.

    As a man, showing your qualities, you should never ask a woman certain questions, certainly not right off the bat. Asking her about her job, and then insinuating she would have to support you is sending red flags right up the pole. You haven't even circumvented those social triggers, and if not they are going to come out long before anything deeper and more meaningful will. You could ask questions like, do you love your work? And then say, because I found that women who love their work, are really interesting and fun to be around. This triggers pre-selection, and proves you are quality because you have been with other fantastic, successful women who had good jobs as well.

    I would also tell her that you don't use pick-up-lines, but that you like using unconventional humor to break the ice, and in this case it worked because she jumped right into a conversation with you. And then tell her you were just joking, and she realizes that right? In that way you challenge her to think of you differently, and not as a couch surfer. You need to repair the damage you have done but eliciting a social trigger, and not circumventing it to get to the real deeper genetic triggers.

    C...

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    Default Re: OkCupid Conversation: Opener do you have a job?

    Quote Originally Posted by CesareBorgia View Post
    Also, she values intelligence. You can tell this by the way she structures her sentences and completes her words without using text speech or slang. You might do better if you use proper words, sentences, grammar, etc. If you are not up for that, then she will loose interest very soon indeed.
    C...
    Wow, That's too bad bc English is my 2nd language and I'm working on my grammar.
    I'll post her answer tomorrow. Let's see what happens.

    And Thanks again Cesare, you really know about women.
    I'm just starting the game

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    Default Re: OkCupid Conversation: Opener do you have a job?

    No worries, if you post what happened that would be awesome as it might help myself and others.

    I didn't realize English was your second language, but you might want to make sure she does. Use that to your advantage as it makes you seem more exotic or perhaps mysterious and that's a good thing. Also, she will easily excuse any grammatical mistakes and chalk it up to English being your second language, as well as your humor. Also, women, specially American women, tend to think of people who know more than one language in a very positive way. It is a clear sign of intelligence, and drive to make something more of yourself, which she seems to be very keen about.

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