Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...

Results 1 to 3 of 3
Like Tree1Likes
  • 1 Post By Mr. Assertive

Thread: Looking for a little feedback

  1. #1
    KMB is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 62, Level: 1
    Level completed: 24%, Points required for next Level: 38
    Overall activity: 30.0%
    Join Date
    Apr 2015
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power

    Default Looking for a little feedback

    Matched an HB8 on Coffee Meets Bagel. We messaged briefly then she started getting a little strange. Possibly because I was being boring… My instinct said to let her go and focus on better prospects, but then I figured I don’t have much to lose, so I might as well mess with her a little. Anyway, a really strange conversation commenced. I’d love some feedback from the community on what I did right and wrong… This was pretty much entirely done in RFR

    Her: Hi
    Me: Hey ****, who brews the best beer in town?
    H: Founders, easy
    H: what do you think?
    M: All-day is my goto, but I’m gonna cheat and say Bell’s because Two-hearted is just top notch… Who makes the best Tacos?
    H: Hmmm I’m not a huge taco fan, but I would say San Jose on division and Hall
    H: Otherwise El granjero on Bridge is my go to
    M: What is your favorite dish?
    H: Dish, Where?
    M: ?? What’s your favorite food to eat, goofball!
    H: Hahaha
    H: Goofball
    M: I’m gonna go for a bike ride!
    H: Fun
    H: !
    H: My favorite food is sandwhiches
    M: Banana pickle and mayo?
    H: Nom
    H: So what’s your story?
    M: Like tonight? I rode my bike to get ice cream. My date is pissed that I’m texting you so much
    H: Oh, that’s awkward?
    M: Well you’re more fun
    H: Do you have a girlfriend?
    M: No, I have a boyfriend
    M: Do you have a boyfriend?
    H: Nope
    M: You should get one, they’re great
    H: Not a super ideal thing to be on a thing like this when you have a boyfriend
    H: or a girlfriend
    M: Its all about having fun, right? You like fun, I can tell
    H: I don’t like this messaging thing. ***-***-**** if you want to talk

    Transition to text – about 20 minutes later
    M: Hey ****, how’s your night going? Kevin from Coffee
    H: He to
    H: Heyo
    M: Its too hot out to ride bikes
    H: Agreed
    H: So who is this date?
    M: Who was she?
    H: Who wassss she
    H: Tinder, Bagels? Eharmony? Or, real life?
    M: Some chick
    H: Hm
    M: They’re all real, right? I mean she wasn’t a robot
    H: Are you a jerk?
    H: Lolz
    M: I guess it depends on who you ask
    H: Was she a girlfiend?
    H: Hmm
    H: So what are you looking for?
    M: If you ask me I know I’m a real sweetheart
    H: Oh yahhhh shore
    M: I just want someone that appreciates my banana pickle and mayo sandwiches
    H: Want
    H: But what is a banana pickle?
    M: it has both
    H: Ew
    M: What, you’ve crushed me
    H: hahaha
    M: It goes great with innuendo fries, you’re just going to have to trust me
    H: I’m not understanding this conversation
    M: Why do you think I’m a jerk?
    M: Are you on Eharmony? That place spams the hell out of me…
    H: Nope, not on eharmony
    H: Idk, the way you were talking about that girl

    BTW, I totally made that up. I went by myself to get some ice cream. Had no date.

    M: She was getting bratty. Why should I put up with that?
    H: Shouldn’t
    M: Exactly. Kinda like one word texts…
    M: ****, Pick one. Beiber, Skrillex or Beiber with Skrillex?
    H: What is Skrillex?
    M: check him on youtube?
    H: So why are you on that bagel site?
    H: I had never heard of it til this week
    H: and hey I just noticed your dig on one word texts ha
    M: I want to meet a decent woman. That let’s me do naughty things to her…
    H: Isn’t that what tinder is for?
    M: I will find out tomorrow. My first tinder date… (this is true and it went fantastic, Much thanks to the community!!)
    H: nice
    M: yes hopefully, my one word texting friend
    H: wah wah
    H: two words
    M: If I take you out will you say more than 1 word at a time?
    H: maybe
    M: I would be ok with 1 long moan at a time
    H: Jesus!
    M: You said you weren’t religious
    H: nope
    H: But I’m also not looking for a One Night Stand
    H: 10 words
    M: I appreciate that
    M: What gives you the impression that I’m looking for a one night stand?
    H: They way you talk
    M: Well, when you stand mute like you’ve been some crazy shit comes out of my phone….
    M: Tell me about yourself
    H: Huh?
    M: Stop one word texting and work with me
    H: What do you want to know!
    M: What kind of communications do you coordinate?
    H: ******

    We have some mutual interests and friends that we discuss for a bit. Too personal to share

    H: Where do you live?
    M: I move from shelter to shelter
    H: Ha
    M: How about you?
    H: I live near ********, but I just put an offer in on a house in ******
    H: So hopefully moving in july

    Anyway, there’s more, but this is like 4 pages of text so let’s stop here. Thoughts?

  2. #2
    Mr. Assertive is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
    Points: 6,337, Level: 51
    Level completed: 94%, Points required for next Level: 13
    Overall activity: 86.0%
    5000 Experience Points7 days registered
    Join Date
    Feb 2015
    Thanked 12 Times in 11 Posts
    Rep Power

    Default Re: Looking for a little feedback

    Dude....ask her out already.... you have laid the groundwork already. The more you talk the more you are going to have room to fuck it all up. I think you're in the clear.

  3. #3
    Hutch is offline PUA in Training
    Points: 145, Level: 2
    Level completed: 90%, Points required for next Level: 5
    Overall activity: 0%
    7 days registered100 Experience Points
    Join Date
    Jun 2013
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power

    Default Re: Looking for a little feedback

    Yeah I agree with Mr. Assertive. It is a lot of back-and-forth but she's definitely interested and the longer you go, the more likely you'll either say something weird or she'll get bored. Strike while the iron is hot! Just make sure it's congruent with the style you've been using. Through the convo you seem pretty chill, lackadaisical and you have some funny quips. Just make a statement about where you're meeting her and what time. I wouldn't even ask her out in question form, just propose it as a statement. Keep us updated!

Similar Threads

  1. msg feedback
    By KevSer in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 06-02-2015, 04:00 PM
  2. Need some feedback on this
    By aviator in forum General Questions
    Replies: 5
    Last Thread: 05-05-2013, 10:29 PM
  3. Need feedback on conversation please
    By Konstantin in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 8
    Last Thread: 01-21-2013, 11:39 AM
  4. want some feedback
    By tennisballboy5 in forum General Questions
    Replies: 1
    Last Thread: 03-26-2012, 05:40 AM
  5. New here -looking for feedback
    By steve55 in forum New Member Introductions
    Replies: 0
    Last Thread: 10-05-2009, 11:28 PM


Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts