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    Thrill is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Girl I Picked Up a Year Ago FB Friends Me

    Hey all,

    I'm all about the in-person pickups, so I never really worked on my online game, which is why I'm reaching out to you all. Last summer, I picked up an HB8 on the subway while she was on the way to meet her friends. We exchanged numbers and texted a bit, but I was too busy with HB9s and 10s at the time to bother, and I soon forgot about her. Last week, she added me on Facebook, and I just accepted today.

    I'm thinking that I should play it cool and act like she looks familiar but that I can't remember from where. I think that if I act like I remember her (I do remember quite a bit about her), she might think that I haven't had a lot going on even though the real reason is because I have a great memory.

    Any advice on how to handle this situation - either general approach ideas or some routines? I think that I'll have to be the one to initiate conversation with her. Also, I don't think I have her number anymore because I've gone through a couple phones since.

    Thanks,
    Thrill

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    kylemc is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Girl I Picked Up a Year Ago FB Friends Me

    Online game is completely different compared to being in the field the aim of online game is to get them out to meet you. Routines that you would use outside generally do not work online. Your idea of how to start the conversation isn't a bad one but a possibility is she might be annoyed that you only accepted her cause you remember her from somewhere.

    You could say you lost her number when your phone was acting weird. (continue the conversation from there) when talking to her you want to be sound funny,exciting cause she will end up losing interest very quickly.

    Also don't forget she could've added you just cause she remembered talking to you on the subway...

    Just my two cents

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    Mr. Assertive is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Girl I Picked Up a Year Ago FB Friends Me

    There is some investment in her part by adding you so you can treat it as a warm approach. Proceed as usual, send a great first message and go on from there. Don't mention the I remember you from somewhere, just be playful. Even a simple "hey stranger" gets the ball rolling for me with targets I haven't talked to for awhile.

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    Default Re: Girl I Picked Up a Year Ago FB Friends Me

    Girls WANT to be WANTED / REMEMBERED / FEEL IMPORTANT.

    Don't play coy & aloof in this instance.

    TOTALLY acknowledge you remember her... but RAZZ her / TEASE her / BANTER with her in the process.
    HAVE FUN with it.

    You can pick up right where you left off & rapidly increase attraction here if you do it correctly.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.


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