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    wikiwally is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Does Okcupid work anymore?

    I use to have success back in the day, opening girls with ease and getting numbers.

    Now girls dont respond at all, no matter what I do. ( I did manage to get one number)

    Ive used the skittles opener etc and Ive revised my profile.

    Ive even tried lowering my standards drastically and going for fat girls-no luck at all.

    Is okcupid a bad dating site now, if so what sites would you recommend? Free or paid, doesnt matter.

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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    OKCupid still works. The demographic has changed. It's no longer about having fun and hooking up (although I've found women there that JUST want to f***). The women you find are looking for potential bf's so you have to approach accordingly.

    Up your volume through quick match, and hit like 100 girls with a new message. Dump skittles opener and try something that comes off more genuine/serious. Make it seem like you slowed down just for her.

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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    Thanks, i just used my personal opener. " would you rather get eaten by a shark,aligator, anaconda or hippo" and got a response, but she said it wasnt appealing

    Waiting for a second reply

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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    OKC Works just fine... even in the little dump of a small town in Southern Michigan that I'm currently spending a little time in. (I'm not in Grand Rapids right now)

    Sure, there are girls who don't respond... so what? (Plus there are fake profiles to sift through, so you have to learn how to tell them from the real ones.)

    But I get plenty of replies when I send a messaage... and dozens of girls writing me first every week.

    Same with POF... (POF does have better results though)

    MATCH is gonna get you the most quality though. ANd yes, you have to pay... but the girls who also pay for membership are gonna be serious about making something happen. (NOT hook-ups though)

    Tinder is getting horrible with fake profiles nowadays... and I would almost recommend using it as a last resort... although I have also had a couple dozen interactions there, that have been going quite well.

    It's all about "marketing" yourself properly & knowing how to send messages that girls can't help but respond to.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    Hey guys this is a link to my profile, please review. Comments/ criticisms welcome

    http://www.okcupid.com/profile/wally...rofile_similar

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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    I just checked out your profile & sent you a message on the site.
    Gimme a shout back, I can give you a couple pointers.


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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    Hey tmal, I saw your message on okcupid.

    Got any advice for me?

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    Default Re: Does Okcupid work anymore?

    It's mistake-laden. Full of "don'ts".

    Describe yourself in simple terms. Keep your summary to no more than three very short paragraphs.

    You don't have to answer EVERY question OKC throws at you. Infuse a touch of humor into each answer.

    Having your own place and a job is not an accomplishment at your age. Remove that sh*t.

    Don't refer to yourself as "struggling", up-and-coming, aspiring, none of that sh*t will fly with a quality woman.
    You're super ambitious and you work hard daily and you're proud of that... just say that and let her ask you what about later.

    Don't say that you're into "all types of girls". Would you date a girl that had no preferences at all?

    Basically, read up on this stuff more. There are a lot of great articles out there on this topic.

    Good luck!


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