Text Game: Evolving my style Part 2
So once again my texting style has evolved. Living a busy life I really don't have as much time to date chicks as I used to so my screening process is higher now.
So I spend more time getting to know someone and if I really like them I ask them out rather than just asking out for a buddy.
I don't ever ask out my EX but I do talk to her for validation...she always talks to me. Great rebound chick when other chicks are ousting me.
It started out kinda rocky but it has smoothed out now. Seems like a really good friendship. Again not asking her out because she is missing something I am looking for but I love having her around so I keep her in the loop.
The Work Wife
She hit me up so I don't even like her but I am just nice to her. She is super obsessed with me. Anyway I throw her a bone every now and then when some chick is ignoring me lol.
The Church Girl
My new trophy. Challenges me to the core. Trying really hard to get her locked into a relationship with me. Yes I like her that much. Anyways she is 10 years younger than me so she knows nothing about love and not soulmate material (as in NO chemistry) BUT she is super fun, takes me into consideration, thinks of my feelings, is super fun, etc. Pretty much not a soulmate like blow me away chemistry but more of a suitable companion. Yes I am thinking WIFEY hell I met the woman at Church I ain't tryna play her like that for just a quick lay.
BUT STILL no oneitis folks. I am not buying what this chick is selling. In fact I have acted completely outlandishly to the Church Girl and we have texted now 3 days in a row because of HOW I AM ANGLING it.
I text. She texts back. I text. She texts back. I have been keeping her engaged like a mofo sometimes girls don't even engage for like a week and she engaged me on day 1 and I thought she would be super boring. BUT AGAIN I AM NO FOOL.
I think this Church Girl is playing me more than the others. May move to another state. May get a BF. May dump me. May flake. May stand me up. I know rejection is real. And because I have faced it so often and so frequently I never think of some chick like she got me whipped or something. I am still on top of my game.
Some other work chick tried to throw her number in my face I was like I got 5 girlfriends (1 Online) get outta here!! Of course all of these girls are JUST friends nothing srs but I have never had this kinda of rotation and I have all their numbers and talk to them on a regular basis so now when girls try to get at me I have to say no because my rotation is already full enough! You have to be special to get in there, yup!
I know I only got 1 or so get out of Jail free cards so I never take anything for granted, I know these chicks are ballers and mean business cuz they can drop me in a heartbeat with cold-hearted attitudes no matter HOW MUCH THEY ACT like they love me. Women are fickle man.
But either way I am doing what I want, when I want, and this is the evolution of my texting theory. Almost like a 180 to the days when I started texting women thinking I was doing what I want and getting nowhere.
Now I do what I want and get validation, responses, interest, etc. I used to never get this.
So yes having the rebound chicks help me to not be stuck on Oneitis because I got girls to talk to when one bottoms out or goes cold. My co-workers think I am a douche but they don't understand and I don't explain that I am not a douche I am a PUA. So when my supply starts getting low I will be back out again meeting chicks to repeat the cycle. It is pretty much a more natural thing for me now.
I built these blocks through the nitty gritty now I can more firmly harness the skills of my rotation and they sit there until I need them and pull for a date or whatever.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.