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Thread: OkCupid opener. 70-80% success.

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    Default OkCupid opener. 70-80% success.

    So OkCupid, if you pay for it, shows you when people visit your profile and shows when someone likes you. In this case, usually 90% of the time an HB7 and up is not going to message you first. So I use these two lines...depending on the girl. You get the feel for which on to use.

    1. I saw you visited/liked my profile, but you didn't say hi...how rude. lol

    2. I saw you visited/liked my profile, but you didn't say hi. You must be a shy one. lol

    I usually use number 1 for the girls that put off the confident attitude to make them feel like they are stuck up and lower their Value And use number 2 for the ones that actually look shy (they usually reply with. "Hi, sorry. I'm am kinda shy" or something along the lines of that. Number 2 shows that you are calling them out and puts you at a higher Value, but encourages them to open up a little.

    Please put your results in a reply. Good luck on your online game gents!

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    Default Re: OkCupid opener. 70-80% success.

    OkCupid is a joke for finding HB. Sure you may find the occasional recent dumpee and pursue the life of the rebounded boyfriend who was just to good, much fun, intelligent, etc. but you will almost never find above a HB7 that is legitimently looking for anything long term and fun (even if she disagrees) and here is why:

    One. They are desperate

    Two. They are lonely

    Three. They are bored (and boring)
    I mean seriously, whoever takes the time to explain that they like to go out sometimes but also stay in other times is never actually above a HB7.

    and finally, they are learning their own version of playing an online game. Of all of the times I have met these women it seems to take months to rid them of the "okcupid" mentality. (Of course there are those so desperate for affection they throw themselves at you, however they usually aren't HB10 because if you think about it, their "paid attention to" reservoir is usually overly full for being so pretty) Ultimately if you are looking for a two-three date f-close, go to these sites and open with something witty, an anecdote or by asking a question because women love to talk about themselves and the ones who don't just stonewall, but we can discuss dismissing those tactics later. As for now here are the top openers I've used in the four years I've been an active casual "observer" of these sites.

    Plenty of fish
    OkCupid
    Tinder


    "Listen (name if given) We need to talk. I'm pregnant, are you going to leave us?"


    This is the most off the wall opener. It works 50% of the time, mostly with cuter country girls and the occasional professional mother. Not the best score but it works 9 outta 10 if she's a sarcastic and mouthy girl with demands of her suitors before they even meet in her "about me" section. (Ie. Don't have bad grammar, don't be shirtless, whatever)


    "Dear (name)

    I regret to inform you that after a rigourously brief overview of your profile, I have already married and divorced you in my mind. Thanks for all the wonderfully imaginary memorys. You'll always hold a very fantastic piece of my heart

    Sincerrely
    Your future ex hubby

    PS you can keep the beach house as long as I get my dog and CDs back"


    This opener works 7/10. The immediate negging gets her cranky and and wistful. The imaginary memories opens her to ask about what some memories. The most critically important part about this message is the PS section. Reflect on something in the persons profile. If there is pictures of her shooting guns change beach house to lake house or cabin, bottem line; play around with it. You're ultimate objective is to get her to play along.

    My least favorite responses

    "Umm what?"

    I used to take things a step further here and tell her something like

    "You nearly broke my heart harlot. Every single time you HAD to sunbathe topless on our deck knowing damn well that nursing home next door faced our house/apt. You know the loony one, dirty dan? (or pervy pete or whatever) He still tells me about all the five fingered dates hes had with you every time i walk outside to get the mail! You knew I was a jealous lover! :'( "

    This worked 50% of the time while the other 50% either didnt reply or said "Lol you're weird." Now thought I would just not respond because I don't have the energy to coax them into playing along unless theyre an anomilie to the HB1-7 genepool that has become online dating.


    "Dear (name) please, either stop being so darn attractive or chat with me. Your choice "


    This works about 80% of the time. Since the point of this is to get her to respond to your message out of the probably hundreds shes used to getting, yours has to stand out as witty or crass above the rest. This is opposite of negging but since online dating changes the rules a little bit making things more selective for women as well, the game changes too. Every good response I've had with this comes in the form of "Hmm well I guess Ill choose the latter." No woman wants to wager their looks against flattery. Thats counter productive. This opener is percieved as being dominant by telling them what to do and submissive by giving them the "choice." Two steps forward, one step back.

    All three of these I have used but didnt come up with. I cant take credit for them but I have had tremendous luck with sending these out in mass to HBs in the Midwest region of the US.

    I have come up with the next one myself that seem to work pretty well because it sets me up for feeling out if this is going to be someone I actually think Ill have fun with.


    "So do I absolutely have to come up with a corny pick up line to take you somewhere nice or can I save my best material for our first date?


    Girls love this one because it opens a personal forum to be funny back and/or to test how funny you are. And the secret is you dont have to be!!! (Thank you google search)

    Girls that reply saying "Um I dont like pickup lines"
    Freeze them out. Say "Okay well im sorry we cant be friends then. Bye"
    Most will reply with some sort of laughter or emoticon

    Girls that say well I like pickup lines ask them if they like clean or dirty
    If they say clean, go dirty
    if they say dirty, go filthy
    If they say either, go squeeky clean

    My personal favorite is to ask if they like Daffodils or Sunflowers?
    She replies "Sunflowers"
    You say "Thanks. Now I know what flowers I need to get you after I murder that pussy. "
    (But hey, I like being a bit over the top to hone in on select profiles of people)



    I generally dont use the internet for sarging. I cant seem to wrap my head around how fucking easy it is and I end up getting frusterated with the "shooting fish in a barrel" mentality. I like challenge and it isn't one unless Im fclosing someone currently in a relationship. And honestly that just involves the thrill of doing it online making it more exciting for them, you really dont have to try very hard until you meet the girl you think you like and find out she has an emotionally stunted ex that comes back into the picture after a couple of meetings with her. (Fclosing or not) Point is you are almost completely guarenteed an Fclose with these women if you follow any up close and personal game advice off of this site. Have some fun with the ammount of freedom you both have and make something passionate to remember it by. Ive never met anyone from these sites i havent fclosed withing two-three dates unless I just didnt want to. These encounters have a tendency to burn up fast because one of you either get buyers remorse with your target or because someone involved has been programmed into the online dating control mentality of left for no, right for yes and they crave more.

    Levi Gene

    PS This is my first post to this site because until yesterday I had no idea a society like this even existed. I am excited to share most of my knowledge with anybody and am always thirsty for more myself. Thanks

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    Default Re: OkCupid opener. 70-80% success.

    Very nice openers...But some of them are lengthy. But got quality. And I have had two good relationships off of online dating sites. They didn't work because I'm in the marine corps and I move a lot. I don't do long distance, so I broke it off. But I mostly just look for f closes anyways on dating websites. But I'm gonna try some of your openers.

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    Default Re: OkCupid opener. 70-80% success.

    Ive made a nasty habit out of making a two date fclose into two year relationships and twice it has been on dating sites as well. I get the aappeal to fclosing everybody on these sites and honestly thats what I have done since the last big breakup though at the beginning of online dating a part of me would have liked to have had a loyal (and smoking hot) 'partner in crime' so I assumed people putting in the effort to find that would be putting in the effort to make a decent profile.

    Today Im done looking for them. They come looking for me.

    It can be nice to set up fclose franchises around the nation if you're not planning on settling down anytime soon. Im sure you've probably noticed this by now though. Have a harem of fucktoys across the greatest country in the world. My american dream. Which, and I'll never forget, Thank you for your service to our country Imonwelfare247, your dedication makes my dream possible here in the land of the free.


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