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    derpaderp is offline PUA in Training
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    Default How to get a girl to be responsive?

    Hello everyone
    ive been texting with a girl and we use to talk a lot.
    recent few weeks she has been very unresponsive, because i played hard to get.
    so how do i make her responsive again to build rapport ?

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to be responsive?

    "rapport equals trust plus comfort" - Mystery

    If shes being unresponsive because you played hard to get then shes is either trying to freeze you out or is just over head games. (so she thinks) Sounds like shes testing your neediness for attention. I would try confiding in her about one of your problems. Women seem to love to give advice about things and it makes her feel important. I wouldn't make it about another woman though, stick to work or family matters but dont text this girl to talk. Go take her somewhere fun, rock climbing, paintballing, etc and maybe tease her like a big brother would. Texting is completely void of tone, candance, timbre, and emotion in your voice. If you cant go out someplace fun maybe try calling her but dont do this if youve been texting her over and over with no reply. If its only been a few times shes ignored you then maybe wait a week first. No matter what you do, set a time restraint on how long youre going to hang out or talk on the phone (I have an errand to run at 5 this evening or I can only talk for 20 minutes because I need to do blah blah)

    Take control of the situation Derpaderp
    Levi

    PS and if you decide to wait a week before contacting her, go buy/borrow a book to read in the meantime during that week. Its always good to arm oneself with knowledge. I suggest Robert Greene "The art of seduction" if you like history, analogies, suspenseful stories and blunt steps. (Also if you possess the ability to profile people quickly its a fun new read)

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to be responsive?

    Thank you for the advice levi
    I've Read Mystery Handbook aswell as all of his videos, aswell as Richard (Gambler)
    Although i am Horrible at phone game, text game and online game.
    Ive been with girls and i do not have a lot of problems IRL.
    as to Phone, Text, Etc. Problems. shes a busy girl (does a lot of work with animal shelters etc.)
    so i had to go by Text. we had a bunch of fun conversations, but as soon as i started playing hard to get she became very unresponsive, i texted once a day and skipped a few days, still ignored even though she gave compliments and teased me aswell. i suppose she might be testing.

    I have a question though, About confiding her about one of my problems, can you give a few examples so i can understand what you mean exactly?
    Thanks!

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to be responsive?

    Alright I'll try to help you derpaderp but I may need to reassess the situation. If she's just an extremely busy person sometimes you just have to let things cool down for a while before approaching again.

    You're going to need to demonstrate some value. This person doesn't really need any magic tricks or tarot card readings to do this either. Think back to what you said. She's a busy girl working in animal shelters. Now I don't know exactly what kinds of assistance you can provide there but I would make an effort to approach her less directly that you are now over text, and infiltrate indirectly through the shelter. I would also beg you to understand the mantra of the 'fix it' women before continuing. They want to save the world. One puppy at a time. She's going to be most involved in the relationship where shes rehabilitating someone. This is the opposite of the women who are needy for you, you will have to find a purpose for her to help better yourself and if you can keep her as busy as she's already used to, these women make extremely loyal friends and incredible support systems but that's walking a fine line to you being needy and balancing that with your actual attitude is very important.

    So as an exercise: Tell me 5 short term and 5 long term goals you might have. We can try to work out your long game because this may require some patience

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to be responsive?

    she always has time to Look at the Texts i send, or pictures (via Snapchat) something random mostly.
    its a part time thing she does, so she has decent amount of free time.
    other than that. my short term goals are Bettering myself physically, Mentally, Getting into collage and making friends / Girlfriends there and long term would be Traveling through out Europe making even more friends and starting relationships to be successful. obviously to have a decent girlfriend, i chose this one im talking about right now, ive known her for about 2 years, she does say how much ive changed over the course of the time, how much more mature i am and so forth. so in my idea i wanted to clear out what she Thinks, probably thinks im not at all interested. me saying she should take me out to dinner was a bad move because that kind of triggered her, i want to acknowledge to myself and her what i said and clear it out, not sure how to do it without lowering my value.

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    Default Re: How to get a girl to be responsive?

    You could turn the dinner thing into a joke. Like
    'Hey if you're not man enough to take me out to dinner. Perhaps I should show you how it's done! ;P'
    I don't know the situation fully so I can't tell you how offended she might be.

    However if you seriously like this girl and she's grown on you then I think what Levi said is good about the personal problem. Just make her feel like you value her a bit and her opinion.
    Don't ask her for advice so much as opinion. You could even make it about a friend.
    And remember, you might be God's gift to women but they're also His gift to you so all this high value and low value crap is for insecure guys.

    Be a secure guy and think, I want this woman and she wants me let's make her realise it. If the low value/high value tags help you then fine but it's all about control and balance which generally take experience. So just take it slowly.

    You may want this girl to be your girlfriend but it doesn't mean you need her to be. Always be willing to walk away and don't get too invested in her.


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