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    Default What to do in this Situation?

    Hello Everyone.


    So before we get started about my questions heres a little background about the whole story:
    I've been with a few girls in my course of life, im not clueless when it comes to girls, but i still have a lot to learn.
    so lets begin.
    2 years ago i was Very much an AFC. Very needy, Clingy, none the less, desperate.
    I met a girl (lets call her HB8) over text and i started liking her, was bound etc. I tried very hard, yes its as bad as you think.
    But over the course of the years i discovered Pickup arts and it really Changed my whole life.
    i've become Mature, confident, Driven, everything i was is now gone and thus i am a new. Met girls and so forth.
    a month or so ago me and HB8 started talking again, saying how different i was, how glad she was that i was different now,
    more mature, a guy worth true love.
    so we moved in to a conversation after talking about sex related topics for hours... A girl(lets call her Ash) who used to like me Told her about how much i liked her and called me a poor guy. (note: I heavent spoken to ash for over 5 months.)
    thats not the point though. HB8 said "I know you like me "
    And afterwards. i might have made a mistake. I played VERY hard to get, not just that, i explained how it could be impossible for me to like her, at least i made it sound that way when i didn't mean to.
    of course i am and was interested at that point, i just tried to cover up the fact that i like her, trying to avoid sounding needy or desperate. Grave mistake.
    Examples :


    "would a guy still like a girl he tried to get but failed?"
    "woah slow down, at least take me to dinner first"
    "trying again for a girl who you know doesnt like you would be a waste of time" Her reply: "So im a waste of time? k"


    Clearly i fucked up. Bad.
    So what i want to do is, Acknowledge my mistakes that i made during the conversation to her, aswell as fix the situation, ive been Pinging her for the past 2 weeks, shes
    Very Unresponsive. obviously im interested in this girl, even though i DO have many other options, its still a decision and a choice whom i want to get.


    More or less, i was thinking about writing a Text that involves the acknowledgment Of my mistakes that i made, getting her to be responsive and Interested.
    that is where my question comes in.


    What text is the best to send in this situtaion?
    I am doing a Freeze-Out. ill wait at least a week before sending this Text. meanwhile go live my life as it is.
    i did write a prototype of the text and i hope some of you who you way more experienced in Online and text Game to help me make the text Perfect!


    "Snowball! The kids are worried sick, you never call or text! the rent is due, what should i tell them? (thanks T-Mal)
    but seriously, i realized you've been acting different recently and i might have figured its because of What happened between our conversation.
    You might probably be upset or angry, probably both. either way, i assume its about me playing hard to get, i know i know, i fucked up,
    I just didn't want to put myself out there without knowing theres a mutual feeling. you probably felt as if i dont like you at all."


    Thats all i can think of to say, i doubt its right to say AT ALL to a girl. so thats why i am here!
    Id love advice about how i should go about this.
    Thank you very much for reading! Hope to see your Replies! have a nice day.

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    Default Re: What to do in this Situation?

    This is was what you do, send the first part of that message ( thanks T-Mal) and then delete the rest of it and don't ever think of sending something like that again ..... unless you want her to think you are a needy little wimp
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    Default Re: What to do in this Situation?

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    This is was what you do, send the first part of that message ( thanks T-Mal) and then delete the rest of it and don't ever think of sending something like that again ..... unless you want her to think you are a needy little wimp
    Thank you for the post (: yeah i figured as much.

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    Default Re: What to do in this Situation?

    I think it's super important to use texting to be funny, interesting, amusing, and to build higher value ..... save talking about relationship issues for live conversations
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    Default Re: What to do in this Situation?

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    I think it's super important to use texting to be funny, interesting, amusing, and to build higher value ..... save talking about relationship issues for live conversations
    I dont talk about relationship issues, i used to like 2 years ago but not anymore.
    the reason i wanted to is because i felt like i did something wrong, althrough i want my texts and all of my conversations to be light hearted, interesting and amusing.
    for some reason shes being very unresponsive so i thought it was the case.
    Either way, thanks again (: ill just wait a few days and send a text that doesnt have to do with anything serious

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    Default Re: What to do in this Situation?

    I think that's a great idea ..... and send something really different, I always like to do 180 degree changes so girls never know what's coming next .... lately I've been using "do you think its safe to drink piss ???" And then go into how I'm trapped on a elevator and I'm thirsty and have to pee ..... the idea is to change it up and send stuff she wouldn't expect. T-MAL has a bunch of different text messages in the Texting section .... it's very good stuff
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    Default Re: What to do in this Situation?

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    I think that's a great idea ..... and send something really different, I always like to do 180 degree changes so girls never know what's coming next .... lately I've been using "do you think its safe to drink piss ???" And then go into how I'm trapped on a elevator and I'm thirsty and have to pee ..... the idea is to change it up and send stuff she wouldn't expect. T-MAL has a bunch of different text messages in the Texting section .... it's very good stuff
    I totally agree. But now the situation changed where her bf removed me from her contacts.
    Either she is aware or is not aware.
    Now i have to do Boyfriend destroying.
    they already broke up before so im not sure how to deal with this (:


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