So I got banned for being a misogynist on POF. Granted POF deleted both my profiles assigned to my name and email accounts I feel as though my only fault was being a misogynist ie not taking the whole dating thing seriously and just being testy with women to get a rise out of them online.
Anyways I cannot get in anymore and the POF terms and conditions say if I am deleted I am banned for life (big deal). No notice from POF just sign in and says account was deleted or canx and the only thing I could think of was being a bit of a bad boy online and just not taking anything seriously and acting like I was in a strong arm competition.
Bad Boy Blocked. I felt this was a huge slump for me but I have some of the weirdest luck man. Right after a huge valley I have a huge mountain.
So then I guess you could say my online game sucks but in-field I am really good or good on Day 2's, Dating, or Relationships. Captain Jack Sparrow makes his appearance next year!!
So I got my baseline rotation set up for next year.
*EX-GF for Concerts (I literally only hit her up for these reasons and she is always down)
*Hairstylist for obvious reasons (but she called me, gave me her number, and we text so I know she likes me. Surprisingly I have lost interest in the Hairstylist but I stick with her for comfort reasons)
*Snapchat buddy (I dunno she is divorced but we get along good)
Now here's where it gets interesting. I am on a hold till next Summer because of the DUI charge but before the year has started I already got 3 chicks in the rotation. And I just got 2 more added.
*FB Harem Chick #1
*FB Harem Chick#2
So anyway there is this annual EDM Festival and I don't really go these things anymore locally but always wanted to go to a big music event like EDC. Anyway so I told my friend about one I liked so what does he do? He joins the airline for free plane tickets and starts going to the event I like. TomorrowWorld.
Anyways like I said I am not really a big partier anymore. I used to be but I haven't been to a party in over a year and I used to go all the time. Just not my thing really but I could see going to a BIG festival once a year since I am not an avid partier or anything.
So anyway so I have tried really hard gaming chicks on FB and just kinda STOPPED. Probably because the 10's put me on blast after falling outs. I usually am pretty good at making a 10 laugh, interested, or comment but when i send a message it all goes kapoof and sometimes I do ridiculous stunts like tagging hotties (10's) that we are together (though we're not) and creating relationship statuses with strippers (though we're not together) this usually pisses them off and gets me blocked or worse put on blast.
Anyway so I layed off the messages kinda so I tried to up it by tagging and relationship statuses but that all backfired. So I stopped looking or trying and just simply keep adding hotties.
Added about 40 hotties in the last 6 months or so.
But I really STOPPED hitting on them. Or commenting on all their stuff.
Then one day....
After I get blocked by POF and down in the dumps what happens?
FB INBOX "New Message"
"Hey you going to TomorrowWorld"
"No I got a DUI, my friend got me free airfare, had to sell my ticket, blah blah blah long story".
So that ended that conversation. Anyway here's what's interesting.
I was scoping her profile and saw No pictures with GUYS. Anyway you know there is thirsty chicks out there I guess this ain't them. Anyway I think her friend is really hot to and even hotter than her. Anyway she is like a 7 and her friend is a 9.
So I commented on one of their TomorrowWorld photos and like
"Sorry I couldn't make it MXX, next year Panning it up like Peter Pan."
So she liked the comment and then said.......!!!!
"Next year we'll party it up."
I was thinking on that comment all day. This chick is in another state so obviously not relationship material but definitely F-material as a weekend of getting laid with no commitment would be perfect for me.
Anyway I love where this is going but then her super hot friend gets involved?
Now granted this is steamrolling after a bunch of typical guy comments with Big Anime Eyes, You're So beautiful, Hot ladies, you know the typical stuff on FB you see.
So here's all these guys saying they're beautiful and making comments and getting no where and I come in swooping stealing the whole show!
Granted I am a Pick Up Artist so I am all about adding value not detracting value so getting laid is of little recompense for my efforts and hard work. Validation is more key as I don't have time to date or be with every chick this is why I am trying to get as many chicks as I can without being attached to any of them. Hence the rotation concept.
Anyway so things start to escalate.
So my friend from another state who I don't know with 1,500 friends who randomly hits me up goes
"Next year we'll party it up."
So obviously I saw this a little unusal because now I frankly don't think you need any pre-agreements for sex to happen. Contrary to what some PUA's believe. All you need is an alliance AK "friendship" which is essentially get the girls out so you can weave your web or work your magic. This is why compliance is one of my most prized forms of validation. I treasure high levels of compliance which is close to the relationship trait of loyalty.
Anyway so I am weaving my web here and I really wanted to write some big long drawn out thing saying heck yeah, let's do it, I got a bag of tricks, blah blah blah.
But F it I wasn't feeling it so I just went all lukewarm up in there.
"Sounds like a plan" (I felt like this was the best thing to say since after all words are cheap and I felt I already probably disappointed her by not going THIS YEAR when she asked and I imagined she wanted to party with me which I acknowledged. Now I take liberty with this strength in that if a chick wants to party with me I assume due to the male to female demographic that they want to sleep with me. So to put it all out there if you guys are hanging out you could be sleeping together. This is why my goal is always getting a chick out not necessarily getting a chick to like me.
Call me old fashioned but it works for me.
So I did contrary to inhibition and said
"Sounds like a plan" Since after all that was the best way to get the "lock-in"
Super Hot Friend (So now the friend and the original friend are buying in?!)
"Yay!!! Next Year!! & EDC"
Now think about these words for a minute. I AM A COMPLETE STRANGER to both of them. They BOTH just agreed to party it up with me based on their own intuition and with my insinuation.
So anyway both these girls are Super Hot and don't have BF's and even at the events they are not snapping with guys. So I feel that they are hot for me. I can't really explain it they both live super far away and none of us know each but what I gather from this is several things.
They both just agreed to party it up with me...
Meaning? 3 Way all the way. Have them both to myself. Granted the conditions are right. But when you think about it them agreeing to this means no BF's come next year rolling around? Sounds odd because me hanging out with them and them with me for a weekend man that's a lot of potential for sex to happen!!
So anyway I don't need to get the "lock-in" of "sexual compliance" for every chick I game again the goal is friendship to get them in person to seduce them. Not over the phone or text though I allude to those things. Anyway that's just how it went down.
It blows my mind. They were JUST there at this Festival and they had all the time in the world to find guys, get BF's and yet here they are trying to align with me.
I know there are no guarantees you can get the girl ALL the way to the bedroom and her back out and you have to have to be cool man just cause it's not allowed unless they consent. So ANYTHING can happen and will happen. I had a girl AGREE to sit next to me at Church, text me all week, promised me the World, texted me she was THERE, then when I asked where she was she got cold feet and bailed.
I got stood up at Church, again. Count that the LAST time I do that again even after the ex-communication from Church & Dating I gave it another shot and got hurt yet again. Anyway that's why talk is cheap because they can be feeding you all the signals and then come crunch time bail like a runaway dragon.
So in the end I am gonna follow through with this one. The FB Harem. I plan on pulling the trigger and scoring with them both. And in fact try to every night through the 3 day festival. In fact keep them as my Festival Harem if need be. But it all seems too hard to believe but that's the story of my life. Crazy things always happen to me.
Anyways I am not over-thinking it. They CAN BAIL ANYTIME. EVEN WHEN I GO FOR THE GAME WINNING SHOT "hey let's sit together" they bail so trust me I am not buying into this thing foolishly I just realize the potential of the situation, the gravity of the compliance and the weight of their words.
Again this is not for relationship. I will game locally my local women and post them on my FB because I don't care if they see and now. I am A PUA.
Now for the record many man find long distance relationships and go to great lengths to sustain them and ignore all local opportunistic situations of local women. Essentially guys find a girl with compliance long distance and try to have an exclusive relationship. Come on man!! I am still gaming normally locally. I will not go to any length to sustain a relationship local or long distance but I will travel almost any distance to get a good lay.
This is a story I hope that evolves into that. We'll see. Don't worry plenty of other girls on my plate that are or will develop. This is just a nice twist to the puzzle. Can't wait to pull the trigger.
My goal this year was getting the 10. I got the 10 so easily they came to me all year.
So now I am going back to the gold standard of screwing no less than a "7" and "6"s means no nookie. So next year it is "pulling the trigger" goal and all about getting laid by 7's or better. Let's see how I do finally time to test my strength.
I have kept my distance in fear of pregnancy, commitment, issues, etc. But before I get old I need to unfold.
As Devin Physique would say
"A Girl that is 100% for you is something money cannot buy."
These two chicks are 100% for me. I even offered a girl a $250 date of amusement park, water park, drinking, hotel and got turned down and shunned!! So money or fun clearly cannot buy love as chicks turn down free food all the time (ie dinner dates) wonder why? Here's why. Validation!
I offered them practically nothing and now BOTH OF THEM are asking me out. Think about that. Time to up my game. Captain Jack Sparrow makes his appearance next year!! Right when the Captian finds his mark and BEFORE he can even set out for his great voyage the Mermaids began lining up in number, my quality it is time to find my quality.