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    Default Did I mess up?

    This is a HB7 I met on Tinder, we got a good conversation tuesday. And then yesterday she sent me

    HB7: I always think that I'm the last one who write something and that you've not answer. (It was 8:05 p.m I was busy so at 9:15 p.m I sent)

    Me: lol why is that wifey (I call her like that cuz we have been playing husband and wife)
    I waited a little but then I went to sleep around 11:30 p.m. Today I woke up and saw that she had texted me

    HB7: R u sleeping (at 1:55 a.m in the morning I dont know how to interpret that cuz she lives 2hours from my town I would never go that far for a booty call)
    I did'nt know what to say untli afternoon I went like this

    Me: Yeah I was sleeping, here in (my town) the weather is so bad! I am under my umbrella ella ella eh eh eh.

    Since than I have no feedback, should I try to text her back or wait until she says something? What should I say?

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    Default Re: Did I mess up?

    Wait for her to respond, you are playing this well ...... and while I love getting late night texts because it shows they are thinking about you ......just be aware of girls who always text you at 2AM and then ask why you didn't respond as it could be the signs of a stalker situation
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    Default Re: Did I mess up?

    First of all, thanks for the reply its much appreciated.

    It has been almost 24h how long do you think I should wait, until I try to recontact her. Its been like 2 weeks that we have been texting back and forth. And I dont know why but I have the feeling that I have played too much the hard to get and now she wants me to chase her but thats just a feeling. What do you think?

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    Default Re: Did I mess up?

    You said perfectly ..... it's just a feeling .... if she is interested she'll text you again ...... they always do ..... But if you have this overwhelming need to text her .... text her something totally random, different, and out of left field ..... I've always liked "Hey (name or nickname) do you know if it's dangerous to drink pee ???"
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    Default Re: Did I mess up?

    I was on Tinder and I checked her profile, I just noticed that she is in town. Its been 2 weeks that we are talking back and forth. For once that she is in town, she doesn't even inform me that she is here. How should I interpret that?

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    Default Re: Did I mess up?

    She's probably got a life too man. If you want to see her, express your desires. I believe there is nothing to interpret, only things to be done here. Fluff talk can be your enemy. Make sure there is always a direction to your text game, a goal to your interactions because momentum brings momentum. It is easy to become boring and uninteresting after 2 weeks if it's going nowhere in particular, especially in the Tinder Dead Sea.
    Last edited by n01edg3; 10-31-2015 at 02:13 AM. Reason: orthographe

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    Default Re: Did I mess up?

    Agree with n01edg3. Fluff TALK IS THE ENEMY! If you are not seducing her brain and getting her addicted you are doing nothing.

    About you text stuff. She thought it was cute it hard to get. But guess what this is all bull talk. You should have asked her out. You are a man. Stop playing girly games. You want to fuck her right?

    ALWAYS LEAD! ALWAYS!
    You also Overthink a lot and analyze. It isn't rocket science.
    The girl contacted you again. Now why did she contact you?
    Is it because she was bored. Is it coz you are interesting. is it that you turn her on.
    The only way to know was to put you foot down hard and ask her out .

    And if she was in your area and didnt text you . Guess what? The guy who said she has life. That make me laugh and is stupid to say that. If you were a celebrity like Johnny depp lets say I am sure she would drop ALL her plans and meet you.
    She doing this means you might have become her iphone trick.

    Iphone trick: "It is defined as a person who a girl comes for digital attention and ego boosting but never considers a real life interaction with".

    Clear!

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