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Thread: She's interested. How to reply to "I'm busy"

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    Question She's interested. How to reply to "I'm busy"

    Hey gents, hoping I could get some advice on how to reply when a girl declines your invitation because she already has other commitments but seems genuinely upset that she can't join you. I've known her for a few weeks now through mutual friends and we met at a party last night. She gave me her number before leaving and I texted her a couple hours later... In hindsight I probably could have waited until today but oh well I had a reason to text so I'm not worried.

    The interaction:
    Me: Hey did u leave a 26 behind??
    Her: Hey, sorry, who is this??
    Me: Oh sorry it's **** lol
    Her: Oooh haha HEYY! Shoot I'm sorry bout that
    Her: And ah no I didn't!
    Her: I might've left a tan colored bucket hat though! Please let me know if u find it!
    Me: Ohh OK good then I'm drinking it hahah
    Me: You mean..this one? :P
    (I sent a pic of me wearing her hat)
    Her: Hahaha NOOOO I want it ahh
    Her: WHATTT R U SERIOUS
    Her: AHHH BLESS YOUR SOUL THANK YOU THANK YOUUUU
    Her: Oh my god *host* is gonna kill me last time I forgot my jacket at his house and now this 😂😂
    Me: Ahh I found it while cleaning up..next time don't leave so soon!
    Me: LOL omg you're a mess hahaha
    Her: Oh my god ur the best!!
    Her: Haha aw I wish I could've stayed longer! next time
    Her: Ahaha HEYY IM NOT THAT BAD
    Me: I'll cut you some slack, after all your name isn't *****
    (***** got really drunk)
    Me: Let's do lunch tomorrow! (Today?) I'll bring your hat 😊
    Her: Aww haha poor ***** 😂😂
    Her: And ahh shoot that's so sweet of you, I'd actually love to do lunch, but I'm really sorry, I already made plans to spend the day with my friend tmmrw before she goes on vacation next week I'm so sorry, this weekend is just crazy busy, I wish I could!!


    So, how do I tackle a situation like this? Should I suggest a new time, or offer to have her suggest some time that works for her? We will be seeing each other on Tuesday at the studio. Should I accept her apology and eject myself from the conversation, or continue it? Last night we talked about our mutual desire to travel , I could ask about where her friend is going ? Idk guys help me out here so I know what to do for next time. Thanks

    Cap

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    Default Re: She's interested. How to reply to "I'm busy"

    Me: LOL omg you're a mess hahaha
    Her: Oh my god ur the best!!
    Her: Haha aw I wish I could've stayed longer! next time
    Her: Ahaha HEYY IM NOT THAT BAD
    Me: I'll cut you some slack, after all your name isn't *****
    (***** got really drunk)
    Me: Let's do lunch tomorrow! (Today?) I'll bring your hat ��
    Her: Aww haha poor ***** ����
    Her: And ahh shoot that's so sweet of you, I'd actually love to do lunch, but I'm really sorry, I already made plans to spend the day with my friend tmmrw before she goes on vacation next week I'm so sorry, this weekend is just crazy busy, I wish I could!!

    SHOOT ME NOW! You talk like a gay boy. You text like you are her girl friend! Grow a pair. When I hear a girl say " THAT IS SOO SWEET" it is like she said "I have no fucking respect for your manhood lol"...

    Well if you really think she is interested. I think you should have simply called her and said " I like how you are honest and you keep your word no matter what. What date are you free next? I prefare on eaith (Choose days you prefare)...if she realy likes you shell give u a good date.

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    Default Re: She's interested. How to reply to "I'm busy"

    To be blunt, we barely know eachother. She's a student at a musical theatre company with whom I am an assistant director. We see eachother twice a week for ~30 minutes during break in rehearsals but I'm always working and some we don't often get the chance to interact.

    I held the frame throughout the entirety of our face-to-face interactions last night. We talked for a good hour and there was an abundance of laughs and smiles, just all around good vibes. I also brought a bottle of wine to drink which her friend commented on and I retorted that I am comfortable enough in my masculinity to be able to drink wine in a social setting, which they both seemed to find appealing.

    Also keep in mind that this conversation happened at 2am while I was hammered to shit after everybody left my buddy (the host)'s place. If I were sober I probably wouldn't even have texted her, let alone asked her to come for lunch with me. Thank you for your opinion though and I will work on finding a happy medium between sweet-sour

    Cap
    Last edited by CapitalT; 10-31-2015 at 11:52 AM. Reason: Typo

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    Default Re: She's interested. How to reply to "I'm busy"

    I appreciate that you were not offended by how I talk. Imagine you are some celebrity or someone with real status. The girl would even drop her plans to go on a date with you. Girls when they really like someone will think and fantisize about him and will be waiting by the phone for his call.

    After you explained the situation I would advise you to call her soon and use what I told you in the end of my post.

    For the analytics and nerds into theory...

    When you say you appreciate that she keeps her word you are basicly saying she is impressing you by how she keep her word therefore she is sellingh herself and because you like that you will give her a chance to go out with you.

    Happy Hunting
    Pimpin'Scout


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