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    Default Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    I'm actually glad Direct Is Best mentioned I should post a thread as I have needed somewhere to vent about the messages I've been sent which, quite frankly, are lame and disturbing at best.

    Let's get right down to it then.

    1. Any variations of the greeting we use EVERY SINGLE DAY to communicate our presence to another. i.e.: Hey, Howsit, Hi, Wassup, etc. BORING.

    2. Hey how are you?
    Having a good week?
    Any plans for the weekend?
    Enjoying the sunshine?

    Exceptions: A guy can ONLY get away with such a mediocre first email if he is hot, wealthy or is prominent in his field of influence. (Evidence is key folks)

    3. ANYTHING sexual/innuendo's - It's CLEAR to all the females I know that men want sex (I know/am acquainted with at least 500+ women from different social groups/networks) You risk coming off as a devo, player or worst, a creep. Don't be that guy.

    Nb: Even if a woman has 'sexual meets' on her profile, this doesn't mean she wants to fark every man who messages her. She still wants to find a connection. Read up on building comfort and for goodness sakes, please be aware our first instinct is to be SAFE so don't suggest driving to her house. Get to know her at her pace.

    Part 2 will be the interesting messages I've received from which I have replied to.
    If I think of any other real stand out "No No's" I will add to this post.
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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Just thought I better add there has only been ONE guy who has pulled off the "Hi" response. With persistence. At first I thought he was annoying but he included his hot pics so I tolerated him. However, I really took note of his continued persistence (he's been chasing me for 3 months) and although he has limited dialogue (which is actually really hot!!) He succinctly conveys his appreciation/lust for me a lot, with an additional mix of playful banter alongside push/pull, teasing, mirroring and, to add a comfort building approach, the older brother/Father stuff (calling me cute names and requesting hugs, kisses and cuddles at times) and even some association techniques hehe To me, this guy is farking hot and he is playing me so smoothly. So dangerous but so so alluring lol
    You will never do ANYTHING in this world without COURAGE. - Aristotle

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Nice post, but I need a female's opinion on another topic if you don't mind.

    How do guys in your social circle approach you, when they want to convert you ( their female friend) into a girlfriend?

    1)Do they straight up ask you out on a date? " Mystique, can I take you out to dinner?"

    2)Flirting first, then asking you out? " You have pretty eyes, nice body...so can I take you out to lunch? "

    3) Indirectly suggest a hanging out time,and then sexually escalate with a kiss?

    I'm trying to convert one of my female friends into a girlfriend, just wanted to know from a girl, what strategy worked for you.😊

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Blardey pirate! Hijacking my thread lol

    However, nice work

    Well Mr Wikiwally (cute & clever name btw!) I would suggest tailoring your approach to this woman in particular.

    Previously guys in my circles have approached me by flattery. Most put me on a pedestal which I can't stand. I want a man to lead. To take charge and know he is equal with me. Because there is no woman on earth (or man) who is better than the opposite sex. We are all humans. I digress...

    Start slowly, be casual but make subtle hints... VERY subtle. She will start to wonder... then add in little touches, caring looks and kind comments and so forth. Eventually (after a month or so... patience is key here, the more little romantic gestures you can pull, the better. Lots of little things really add up) Then rock up to her and say something like (sappy but it will work!!) I can't do this anymore (mutter almost to yourself; I'm so nervous atm) Look, NAME, I really really like you. I can't stop thinking about you. Can I take you out to dinner?

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    You never said the messages that worked.

    How to not be boring, other than having expensive things and a nice car?

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Ok mystique thanks for the info, slow build flirting then asking out it is!

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Hi Mystique. Before I take your advice I need to make sure that I am getting advice from the right person.

    What are your Credentials?
    How many women have you brought to bed?
    How much money do you have?
    Answer these questions. Thanks for your advice in advance.

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Mystique is a girl.

    Is this the 40 year old virgin or was that somebody else?

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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    You never said the messages that worked.

    How to not be boring, other than having expensive things and a nice car?
    I started another thread with that info.
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    Default Re: Online profile messages NOT to send (part 1)

    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    Just thought I better add there has only been ONE guy who has pulled off the "Hi" response. With persistence. At first I thought he was annoying but he included his hot pics so I tolerated him. However, I really took note of his continued persistence (he's been chasing me for 3 months) and although he has limited dialogue (which is actually really hot!!) He succinctly conveys his appreciation/lust for me a lot, with an additional mix of playful banter alongside push/pull, teasing, mirroring and, to add a comfort building approach, the older brother/Father stuff (calling me cute names and requesting hugs, kisses and cuddles at times) and even some association techniques hehe To me, this guy is farking hot and he is playing me so smoothly. So dangerous but so so alluring lol
    Have you met this guy in real life?
    You don't need her


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