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    Default Where did I go wrong?

    Hello,

    Ive been talking to girls on FB but recently struggled to Number Close. Most of my convos are the same. My last convo was something like this:

    After opening and building rapport,
    Her: how monster are you?(playful convo from before)
    Me: well I can't tell you everything, some things you have to find out on your own.
    Me:btw, do you have whatsapp?
    her: hahaha, yes I do
    Me:whats the number and we can chat there. Hopefully you're better at being a monster there than you were here.
    her: hmmm

    I thought it was a line but was shocked with the response. Any suggestions for next time?

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Hey. You may have to advise how long you were building rapport? Keep in mind the female gender takes a wee while to feel comfortable and warm up
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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    i was talking to her for about two days?

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by spiya View Post
    i was talking to her for about two days?
    Ok, still not sure if that means you sent each other messages every 15 mins or so (very positive) or a couple of half hearted messages here and there?

    Also, the remark about her being "a better monster" in the next medium would leave me cold too... To me, it smacks of one of two things... you want to talk dirty or you're bored and telling her she ain't good enough. Not the best first impression. For the first week or so don't neg, compliment! It's about raising your value (very subtly) in her eyes and causing intrigue about you. Most women are curious creatures.
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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    How mysterious can someone be? Don't you think trying to build a mystery is a bunch of games?

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    I don't know what you mean by playing games, but mystery my friend is built when you dhv and then she ioi's you for your dhv and then you go cold. It's also when she asks you a question and you respond with another question, i.e. when you refuse to let go of the frame that she is the one that needs to intrest you and that you are the one who chooses. Mystery is also built when the girl finally is ready to open up and you suddenly act aloof, i.e. breaking rapport.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Sounds like a bunch of games that people would get tired of real fast. Eventually, they're going to want to know that you're a REAL person.

    Here's something that makes more sense...

    https://asktheniceguy.wordpress.com/...ern-hypergamy/

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Quote Originally Posted by redstar1324 View Post
    Sounds like a bunch of games that people would get tired of real fast. Eventually, they're going to want to know that you're a REAL person.

    Here's something that makes more sense...

    https://asktheniceguy.wordpress.com/...ern-hypergamy/
    It seems you have entirely missed the point of these forums.
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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    How is that?

    That's like if a girl asked Donald Trump what he does for a living, he should say:

    "I'm an octopus trainer," or something like that.

    One time, somebody told me something like that as an answer, and I just thought they were stupid.

    Why not just be real?

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    You found it stupid others might find it funny. The point is you can be real, at the end you will be, but you need to control the frame and not supplicate to women. Because even they admit they hate that
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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