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Thread: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    I did not win the game as you guys see. Do you have idea, what i should do
    meet other women. don't ever get too hung up on a girl until you've been dating for months.

    [QUOTE][hahaha no - again i think we should only be co-workers and see each other at the work. I have no time to go out with everyone that im working with, in my free time. Sounds nice you see a sweet guy
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    women will always let you know when they're not interested. this was her obvious but polite signal that she's not available to you.

    [QUOTE][Me: Oh com on (her name) the lighting just hit my shoes now, but im still alive! And no, we are not working together, we are just working in the same bulding. You said you have taked break from school, so you must have a bit free time.


    Com on (her name) come with the next excuse!


    Psst: The more retjections you give me, the more you make me laugh.

    /QUOTE]

    #extremedesperation

    women see this type of behavior as a sure sign they'll get raped in the back of your minivan on the first meet up.

    you've got to take a hint man.... she's not interested, and pushing harder will only decrease your odds of meeting her.


    now, don't get too down over this rejection. it doesn't necessarily mean anything about you. it just means she's not the person who's going to buy your product.

    keep doing everything you can to self improve, and keep meeting more women. you'll have a girlfriend in no time.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    I just read the whole thing this time. I agree with the post above mine and also the second response. I didn't read all the responses.

    Here's the thing. Most of the time the more a man persists the worse he makes it and the more he decreases his chances of being successful with her.

    You need to create mystery. You also need to provide lots of space(meaning you don't smother her). Also, you want to be a challenge and not "give yourself away." You made your intentions too clear. Also, when you do ask a woman out make it a bit more casual like you are just meeting up as friends. You could say something like "Well, I'm going to be at such and such place(a cafe maybe or bowling alley or whatever)around six. If you are available why don't you meet me there(or join me). "

    The person who said you need to build attraction first is absolutely right. Also, it helps if you get some kind of signal from her(signals aren't always a guarantee but they don't hurt)such as a smile or some kind of Kino(touching). Women won't always give you clear indications if they are interested but a lot of times if you read her right you can tell if she's at least open to wanting to get to know you better.

    Also, and I know this will probably sound crazy to someone who's new at this but you want to disqualify her in some way. For example you could say something like "you know I was thinking about asking you out but in the end I don't think it would work out between us..." or something to that effect. Another example would be "You know I was thinking about asking you out but you are blonde and I usually go for brunettes. Brunettes seem to be more fun and down to earth." This way she has to prove you wrong and qualify herself. Remember to say these things in a playful manner with a slight smile on your face. Doing these kinds of things are great ways to test her(as well as tease her)in order to gauge her interest level but it also helps create attraction and says you aren't like every other guy who throws himself at her. You are different. You are a challenge. It says you could take her or leave her. Remember women(especially attractive ones)like a challenge.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Great ways to qualify in the post above like those. Yeah you should definitely ease up on the gas for a while. Let things cool down let some time pass. Sounds like she might be a head case to be honest. I woudnt text her anymore. Maybe in a month or two ask if some of your coworkers want to go out and invite her with everyone. Prob your best bet to re-engage after sometime passes.


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