Hello PUA, im a 18 year old guy, and im a new user here. So i want to tell you guys a little story, and im thanking in advance, that you want to help me:
So there is a girl i like from my work. She is really cute and i have talked to her a bit. I would really want to get her to know more, so i tried to invite her out of cofee, but no luck, she only want to stay as co-worker. So my work held xmas-party 2 days ago. We were about 100 co-workers in this club. I work in a hyper-market. So we set as a group on a table 6 guys, and 2 girls. And the girl i like, was also at this table. So there was a strange thing. She talked to all guys at the table, and hugged them, except me. She ignored me. She did not really talk to me. When i tried to look at her, she did everything to look a way, you know did not want to hold eye contact. Suddenly she goes to toilet. And a dude, which is her best friend, bump me on the shoulder and saying: "you know she likes you, i really mean it seriously. She works insidious but she likes you." I thank him of course. And later when she gets more drunk, she starts to picking on me and teasing. Like saying things, that im gay, because i sit in a front of a guy or i should fuck the other girl that was at the table, which had a boyfriend. It was for fun everyone laughed. Later when co-worker girls fom other tables came, they set next to me and hugged me, then that girl i like got jealous, and went away from the table. I could not really seduce her, because she got soo drunk that she did not know what i was talking to her. It ended up with, that she feeled bad, and went home earlier with an other girl, the one with boyfriend.
So i wanted to invite her out next day. And here is my problem, she donīt want to go out. Im stating using the key-lock-sequence from magenetic messaging:
This is translated from other language, so im sorry if it sounds crap.
Me: Whatīs up (her name) since you disappeared yesterday the things got so wild. People started to steal alcohol bottles from the stock and a guy asked me to drink with him (laugh smiley), i could at anytime say this to the staff.
I hope you also had fun yesterday, you felt bad, so i hope you feeling good again.
Her: haha oh shit, it sounds really wild! And yes im feeling much better now thanks
Me: it sounds good, you feeling good again, it so weird when you feeling bad. Telle me that you are free Wednesday, then we could drink some cofee, and tell you more about the fun situation at the party
Her: We had this once, we can talk together at work.
(This is shit, i have no time to talk to her at work)
Me: Holy shit i was almost hit by the lighting, when i thinked back to that message.
(she wrote me the first time i tried to invite out that she sees a guy already, but that is not true)
I also see a guy, we eat pizza sometimes and talking really good with each other. He is sooo sweet! Heīs gonna shit in the pants of jealousy, when he will know that i just drinking cofee with you.
Me: So when we both see a guy, this excuse doesn't work anymore oops (laugh smiley).
So i ask again: do you want to drink some cofee with me Wednesday, then we could talk and have fun. We may hope i donīt get hit by that lightning.
Her: (She is changing excuse, and suddenly doesnīt have a guy anymore, lol, she never had a guy, her guy friends telled me)
hahaha no - again i think we should only be co-workers and see each other at the work. I have no time to go out with everyone that im working with, in my free time. Sounds nice you see a sweet guy
Me: Oh com on (her name) the lighting just hit my shoes now, but im still alive! And no, we are not working together, we are just working in the same bulding. You said you have taked break from school, so you must have a bit free time.
Com on (her name) come with the next excuse!
Psst: The more retjections you give me, the more you make me laugh.
Her: Again, us to are not gonna see each other, outside the work Sleep well!
I did not win the game as you guys see. Do you have idea, what i should do
I hope you can help me, thanks in advance.