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    Question She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Hello PUA, im a 18 year old guy, and im a new user here. So i want to tell you guys a little story, and im thanking in advance, that you want to help me:


    So there is a girl i like from my work. She is really cute and i have talked to her a bit. I would really want to get her to know more, so i tried to invite her out of cofee, but no luck, she only want to stay as co-worker. So my work held xmas-party 2 days ago. We were about 100 co-workers in this club. I work in a hyper-market. So we set as a group on a table 6 guys, and 2 girls. And the girl i like, was also at this table. So there was a strange thing. She talked to all guys at the table, and hugged them, except me. She ignored me. She did not really talk to me. When i tried to look at her, she did everything to look a way, you know did not want to hold eye contact. Suddenly she goes to toilet. And a dude, which is her best friend, bump me on the shoulder and saying: "you know she likes you, i really mean it seriously. She works insidious but she likes you." I thank him of course. And later when she gets more drunk, she starts to picking on me and teasing. Like saying things, that im gay, because i sit in a front of a guy or i should fuck the other girl that was at the table, which had a boyfriend. It was for fun everyone laughed. Later when co-worker girls fom other tables came, they set next to me and hugged me, then that girl i like got jealous, and went away from the table. I could not really seduce her, because she got soo drunk that she did not know what i was talking to her. It ended up with, that she feeled bad, and went home earlier with an other girl, the one with boyfriend.


    So i wanted to invite her out next day. And here is my problem, she donīt want to go out. Im stating using the key-lock-sequence from magenetic messaging:
    This is translated from other language, so im sorry if it sounds crap.


    Me: Whatīs up (her name) since you disappeared yesterday the things got so wild. People started to steal alcohol bottles from the stock and a guy asked me to drink with him (laugh smiley), i could at anytime say this to the staff.


    I hope you also had fun yesterday, you felt bad, so i hope you feeling good again.


    Her: haha oh shit, it sounds really wild! And yes im feeling much better now thanks


    Me: it sounds good, you feeling good again, it so weird when you feeling bad. Telle me that you are free Wednesday, then we could drink some cofee, and tell you more about the fun situation at the party


    Her: We had this once, we can talk together at work.
    (This is shit, i have no time to talk to her at work)


    Me: Holy shit i was almost hit by the lighting, when i thinked back to that message.
    (she wrote me the first time i tried to invite out that she sees a guy already, but that is not true)
    I also see a guy, we eat pizza sometimes and talking really good with each other. He is sooo sweet! Heīs gonna shit in the pants of jealousy, when he will know that i just drinking cofee with you.


    Me: So when we both see a guy, this excuse doesn't work anymore oops (laugh smiley).
    So i ask again: do you want to drink some cofee with me Wednesday, then we could talk and have fun. We may hope i donīt get hit by that lightning.


    Her: (She is changing excuse, and suddenly doesnīt have a guy anymore, lol, she never had a guy, her guy friends telled me)


    hahaha no - again i think we should only be co-workers and see each other at the work. I have no time to go out with everyone that im working with, in my free time. Sounds nice you see a sweet guy


    Me: Oh com on (her name) the lighting just hit my shoes now, but im still alive! And no, we are not working together, we are just working in the same bulding. You said you have taked break from school, so you must have a bit free time.


    Com on (her name) come with the next excuse!


    Psst: The more retjections you give me, the more you make me laugh.


    Her: Again, us to are not gonna see each other, outside the work Sleep well!




    I did not win the game as you guys see. Do you have idea, what i should do


    I hope you can help me, thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Just skimmed through your post since it's too long to read. But I get the idea. From what it looks, you haven't developed enough attraction before asking her out. You just opened (you went early....) and asked for a drink straight away? Talk to her a bit more, in a flirty way and if she's attracted to you, she'll not make excuses. Right now, most probably, she's not attracted to you and avoiding you. Not directly though since you are co-workers and she doesn't want to start a conflict.

    What to do now? Have more fun conversations with her and don't ask her out for some days. You've already been too needy. After a few days, if you've succeeded in attracting her (you'll know when/if this happens) ask her out again.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Hello thanks for answer! We got free drinks because work paid for it. It was pretty hard to talk to her at the table bacause she was drunk. You saying have fun conversations, its pretty hard, when we only have 30 min break at work, and i have almost no time see her at break, we are not taking break at the same time. Do you know techniques to make this done trough texting?

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Well you have to find a way to see her in person. Texts I'm not sure because they mostly work when you've gamed the girl in person. And specially when she's seeing you in person it would be a very dlv and needy if you try to game her on text, not to mention that it won't work.

    So my suggestion is to meet her in person and try to game there. Since its a social circle scenario and you are somewhat bound to see each other everyday, Just make sure you make her laugh (in a non-needy way) whenever you see her, even if it's a 2 minute talk. Have frequent conversations like these and after a few days ask her out again. Personally I don't think gaming her on texts will work, specially if she's already avoiding you. Still if you want some tips on text game, I'd recommend some Sticky Threads in "Online Gaming" section (specially T-Mals guide).

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    Well you have to find a way to see her in person. Texts I'm not sure because they mostly work when you've gamed the girl in person. And specially when she's seeing you in person it would be a very dlv and needy if you try to game her on text, not to mention that it won't work.

    So my suggestion is to meet her in person and try to game there. Since its a social circle scenario and you are somewhat bound to see each other everyday, Just make sure you make her laugh (in a non-needy way) whenever you see her, even if it's a 2 minute talk. Have frequent conversations like these and after a few days ask her out again. Personally I don't think gaming her on texts will work, specially if she's already avoiding you. Still if you want some tips on text game, I'd recommend some Sticky Threads in "Online Gaming" section (specially T-Mals guide).
    Many thanks, it will be pretty hard, and no we are not seeing each other everyday, this job is a side job, i also go to school. So its not full time work. But i give it a try.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Quote Originally Posted by math341c View Post
    Many thanks, it will be pretty hard, and no we are not seeing each other everyday, this job is a side job, i also go to school. So its not full time work. But i give it a try.
    May I ask why are you focusing too much on this one girl? Sometimes the logistics don't match and there's nothing you can do. Why not try on some girls meanwhile ??

    Best of luck btw.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    May I ask why are you focusing too much on this one girl? Sometimes the logistics don't match and there's nothing you can do. Why not try on some girls meanwhile ??

    Best of luck btw.


    Because she really got my atention on that party. Well i would have no problems using speed seduction or other things to seduce, i know these things, i learned them from books. The problem is it would be creepy to use them, when other guys, and girls sitting in the same location when we take break. But i try some teasing, making fun, etc.

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    I tell this to my students when they feel this way after messing something up with girl. Don't feel bad, you didn't make a mistake you just learned a lesson. The mistake would have been to sit at home and jerk off to porhub. The lesson would be to go out and try and mess it up, and the next time you tweak it a little bit from this lesson and get better. This is the essence of self improvement.
    Started game in 2012. Professionally coaching for 2+ years. Strong believer in good karma, if you'd like me to give you a call/skype/email for some quick tips please reach out. Happy to help. It's cool if you're weird, I am too. Just don't be super fucking weird alright? learnrealseduction . com

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    I see a lot of posts on here about guys saying things like "she won't text me back" or "she won't show any interest" etc etc. They all say things to the effect that they are stuck with women. It's important to work on your game but in the meantime the best thing to do in most of these situations is to just back off and let her chase you for a change. If she doesn't then just move on to the next one. Better yet put yourself in a situation where she knows you are seeing other women(either tell her or hint at it or just show up where she is with another woman).

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    Default Re: She likes me but wont meet me, what to do ?

    She must have not liked you that much...


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