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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Quote Originally Posted by Luckylou View Post
    Thanks Mystique! Do you think my intentions of waiting for her to text or giving it a few days before is a good one? Iīm doing these because she slowed down the time for resnponding and stoped the fluid exchanges and explained that she is not on the phone a lot. That means she does not wanto to keep at that pace at least for now. Wed or thurs is right? and ask her out again?
    Hmmm I can only assume dude. She may have talked to a friend and they've warned her to slow down... (I get that all the time!!) Or maybe she is over thinking and starting to spook (us women are rather skittish hehe) or maybe she wants to play it cool?

    This is where you will need to appear most confident, lead but also don't put out the needy vibe. You need to receive clear IOIs back to ascertain where you stand with her but it's early days so just ask her when you can spend more time with her. You will do best in person. Texting and messaging only serves to confuse interactions since everyone has different filters and can take something the wrong way (there's no tone or body language in a message!)

    Ask her out in a couple of days time... this will build anticipation, show you're thinking of her and show her you mean business.

    Let us know how you get on.
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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    2 days break is fine. Don't wait for too much days. At least have 2 or 3 messages back and forth to keep the momentum.

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Weīve texted yesterday (saturday). So no text until tuesday is fine? I will text her tuesday asking her out on wed or thur.

    Thanks Sam

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    I was hoping she would text but nothing. I donīt like how I feel about it. Please walk me through it, Imīscared of making a mistake again.

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Quote Originally Posted by Luckylou View Post
    I was hoping she would text but nothing. I donīt like how I feel about it. Please walk me through it, Imīscared of making a mistake again.
    It's the man who has to always take the lead. So don't expect her to message you herself, at least most of the time. That's how nature has built us,

    MAN has a di*k = projects outwards = gives

    WOMAN has a *****na = takes IN = receives

    lol but true.

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    I did what Sam said and evertyhing is better. I mixed up with Mystiques advise about being bold meaning business. She is initiating contact just to say hi and we have plans together. This Forum rules and there are really cool people like Mystique and Sam.

    Keep you guys posted

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Quote Originally Posted by Luckylou View Post
    I did what Sam said and evertyhing is better. I mixed up with Mystiques advise about being bold meaning business. She is initiating contact just to say hi and we have plans together. This Forum rules and there are really cool people like Mystique and Sam.

    Keep you guys posted
    Good to hear. A woman will go weak in the knees when a man is bold and determined to pursue you (if she likes you)

    It seems she likes you so keep up the good work... it's in the bag.
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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    It's the man who has to always take the lead. So don't expect her to message you herself, at least most of the time. That's how nature has built us,

    MAN has a di*k = projects outwards = gives

    WOMAN has a *****na = takes IN = receives

    lol but true.

    (Credits: Elliot Hulse - Youtube)
    This.

    The man does have the power and is a taker so he also should take care to be a gentleman and be respectful. Men can be scary to us women folk. Be bold but patient and respectful. It's a fine balance but imperative.

    @Luckylou, if you mess up, good, that shows you are human and that is endearing. Just make a joke about it (and yourself) and make her laugh and move on.

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam981 View Post
    It's the man who has to always take the lead. So don't expect her to message you herself, at least most of the time. That's how nature has built us,

    MAN has a di*k = projects outwards = gives

    WOMAN has a *****na = takes IN = receives

    lol but true.

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    This.

    The man does have the power and is a taker so he also should take care to be a gentleman and be respectful. Men can be scary to us women folk. Be bold but patient and respectful. It's a fine balance but imperative.

    @Luckylou, if you mess up, good, that shows you are human and that is endearing. Just make a joke about it (and yourself) and make her laugh and move on.

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    Default Re: I need some feedback. Girl went cold and i saw it but could not help it

    Quote Originally Posted by mystique View Post
    This.

    The man does have the power and is a taker so he also should take care to be a gentleman and be respectful. Men can be scary to us women folk. Be bold but patient and respectful. It's a fine balance but imperative.
    @Mystique.. This pun was more in terms of offering value and taking action. Many guys, specially those with good looks, just hope that girls will fall in their lap without them doing anything. A man has the responsibility to take action first/lead the interaction rather than relying on the girl, which I guess the OP needed to do (and turns out that I was probably right). Though "luckylou" would be really lucky if the girl takes the lead.


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